Meguru is still writing the manuscript even though the end of the year is approaching. Yeah, I'm crying
I love coffee (almost addicted to it♡), so I write while drinking it, but I suddenly had an idea, so I decided to put the manuscript aside and upload it.
While drinking coffee, herbal tea, or whatever you like,
"Ah, coffee is delicious...♡" I thought,
"Ah, the coffee is delicious..." Now that I think about it, the coffee I had yesterday morning was bitter! Yes, it was bitter! That's impossible! I can't forgive this!!!"
Wouldn't you like to finish by enjoying the fact that you are now drinking delicious coffee?
If you're having a hard time breaking up with your partner, or things aren't going well, do you find yourself complaining about yesterday's coffee while drinking coffee now? I'll talk about that♡
If you even get a glimpse of "Don't share coffee with your precious boyfriend!!", that's a great opportunity.
Isn't it okay to bring out the past and not call it love?
Needless to say, the subconscious mind follows the law of ``because I think so, it will happen''.
So even if you say goodbye to someone you love, it doesn't matter.
You think so" = "You are so happy to be married to that person"
If you become like that, you will eventually find yourself in a situation that is suitable for ``I'm happy to be married to that person.''。
Well,
regardless of that
is the point.
ってのが超絶ポイントで、
In other words, ``saying goodbye to someone I love'' honestly doesn't matter.
It doesn't matter what happened (also called the past), but there are times when I find myself in a quagmire of stumbling blocks.
Because, to be honest, I'm like, "Huh?"
I'm worried about everything because of the breakup, but I don't care about the breakup! That's the story. I don't understand lol
However, if you compare it with "I think so, so it will happen", you know that
Your thoughts come first.
Reality comes later.
No matter how far you go,
Your thoughts come first.
Reality comes later.
Therefore,
What we think now will be reflected in our reality later on.
``What I'm thinking now'' is ``It was painful to break up with him at that time, it was painful, he said that, he said that too. Ha, it's painful.'' If you hold on to it forever, it will just be reproduced, and it will remain barren forever.
That's why people say, ``Isn't it okay to bring up the past and not love it?''
So what should I do? It's super simple.
I’m so excited to be married to that person right now.
All you have to do is think about it.
You might be saying, ``If I could do that, I wouldn't have to worry about it,'' but there are times when you can actually do that! ! !
Right now, I'm drinking coffee and I think it's delicious.
It's happening right now ♡♡
They don't bring out yesterday's coffee or the day before's coffee and talk about it. Because you can do that, you can enjoy the “now”.
I’m so excited to be married to that person right now.
The idea is that it would be better if we started to do so now.
The more important something is to me, the more I draw on the past.
“I think that argument is wrong!!!”
The ``honor student Meguru'' in me stood up with a determined look on her face.
Bang the desk! I'm going to say this with all my might.
The “subconscious mind” doesn’t move.
To be more precise, I don't care about the coffee, the person I like, or anything else, I just need to keep being the ``●● me'' I am right now. In that sense, whether it's coffee or the person you like, it's the same thing.
Well, the fact that you can't have coffee and your favorite person together (well, it's fine if you can't do it, but for the sake of the story lol),
The importance of the person you love is extremely high.
That is what we can say.
It's only natural that the person you love is important! ! !
Indeed, yes. It's fine if it's high, but with a high probability,
the more important the person you love is, the more you will relate to the past, and only the unpleasant past.
“That person did that to me.”
"That person's words hurt me."
"What I can't recover from is that attitude..." Yeah, no, no.
This is all well and good, but if you bring up your past that is not good for you and then ``love you now'' even though you did something like that or something like that, then no matter how much time passes, you will still want to ``bring up your past that you don't like.'' is coming, and it's a waste, it's a great waste,
"Say goodbye to the person you love," just cut out all the things that don't really matter.
、Let's just look at ``I'm so excited to be married to that person right now!'' ! !
lastly…….
I fully understand the feeling of ``I'll be doing it long ago if it ends like that...'' and I'll conclude by saying Sparta's comment.
Even if you can't cut it perfectly, just cut it! !
*I'm sorry if it's too loud and scary.
♡Meguru♡
