Hello, it's Iruru.
In LoveSync Attraction, we talk about how manifesting desires in the subconscious works by simply deciding and setting your intentions.
Once you decide to "be in a loving relationship with him," you will naturally "become lovingly involved with him." So, once you've set your intention, you're done.
But, sometimes do you think I understand that it might not be entirely clear. So, how should you go about setting your intentions?
This is one of the common questions we receive. Let's explore whether it's better to set detailed intentions for what you want to manifest or not.
Are there any tips for deciding on intentions?
When you have a desire to make it come true, how do you decide on it? There are no rules for how to decide, so you should be free to decide for yourself. So some people may have made detailed settings. for example…
I want a handsome and wonderful guy who is good at cooking, adores me, is at least 175 cm tall, has an age difference of plus or minus 3 years from me, earns the same or higher income than me, and can enjoy traveling abroad together.
I want to marry him within 5 years, have children, and create a wonderful family.
In the examples from LoveSync Attraction's videos, we always talk about just deciding on your desire.
As for the tips on how to decide, we emphasize that the only thing you need to do is simply make the decision where you want to go after something that has worked out so well for you.
So, rather than deciding on things like "He will send me a message within a week, ask to meet, and then confess that he still loves me, and we will get back together," which is a step before being in a loving relationship, we encourage you to decide on a version of yourself where things are going well far into the future.
Is it better to decide in detail what went well for you?
Deciding what is ahead of you, is not necessarily a decision based on a detailed image of what is ahead of you.
You can decide if you want to, but you can say, "I'll always be happy with my wonderful guy! Happy and smiling every day!"
It can be something like that, or you can decide in detail like the example I just gave you.
However, I myself have recently been trying not to be too detailed, except for things that are absolutely non-negotiable.
But before, I used to make very detailed decisions. I am not saying which is better or worse, but I think there were pitfalls when I was deciding in detail, so I will write about those days.
You had even decided on the sign for when you meet.
When I first started learning about the Law of Attraction and other similar concepts by reading various books, I decided to list specific characteristics I wanted in my future partner to attract them into my life.
I wrote about 100 qualities in my notebook, and I even decided on a specific sign – receiving delicious, health-conscious sweets – as an indicator that I had met the right person.
Indeed, someone who seemed to fit these criteria appeared, and they even gave me the designated sweets.
At that moment, I thought, "This must be the one!" However, afterward, I became preoccupied with comparing the list I had created to the reality before me.
This became a pitfall for me. During that time, I hadn't fully understood the concept of the subconscious mind, and I had just recently learned about the Law of Attraction.
Instead of focusing on what I wanted to manifest (my desires), I became obsessed with the aspects of reality that didn't seem to align with my list. I kept noticing everything that hadn't come true, which made me feel like, "Hmm, nothing on my list has been realized."
Listing out qualities for your ideal partner, especially when you're not sure what you want, can be a valuable exercise.
If you find joy in detailing your desires and experiencing them manifest, it can be an enjoyable process. However, at that time, I became overly focused on the specifics, constantly comparing my list to what I perceived as unfulfilled reality, and this made me feel quite distressed.
Hand over all the detailed processes to your subconscious mind! That's the choice.
When I don't know what kind of state I'm in that would make me truly happy, I think it's very effective to think about my feelings while writing about things. But this and this one thing I can't give up on! I would be happy if I had this! If your thoughts are clear, I don't think you need to make detailed decisions.
For example, for me right now, being able to enjoy drinks and meals with my partner is extremely important.
Other than that, I don't have any detailed settings, as I just let my subconscious take over and let things go in the right direction. There may be some things that I'm concerned about, but I haven't put them into words, but I haven't set out my thoughts in detail.
I think it's because I've become more confident in my subconscious and myself than before, thinking, ``Even if I don't make detailed decisions, things will work out in the end.''
People who enjoy making detailed decisions and checking their accomplishments one by one may be able to make detailed decisions, but if you are like me and find yourself tending to check your reality more often, It may be possible to leave everything to your subconscious mind and just decide that you are happy ^^
