You like him. But when he talks to you, something takes over — and you end up acting cold, distant, or uninterested. Afterward, you think: Why did I do that? This is what’s often called “playing it cool” or “shy avoidance” — acting distant toward someone you actually have strong feelings for. If you’ve been…

You More Attractive? Love Psychology vs. the Subconscious Mind Have you ever thought, “Maybe I should show a different side of myself to get him interested”? Before a first date, you might choose an outfit that feels totally unlike you. Or maybe you usually keep a cool, composed image—but at a party, you make a…

“The person I love got a girlfriend. I guess I just have to give up, right?” If you’re feeling this way, I want to share a manifestation success story with you. This is the experience of K (in her 30s), who texted with her crush almost every day for 10 months before he told her…

“I absolutely have to get back together with my ex.” Have you ever felt that way, only to find yourself thinking later, “Come to think of it, why was I even chasing after this person?” Today’s story features O, who deeply longed to reunite with her ex and used her subconscious mind to build this…

“If I can just see him more often, he’ll start to like me.” Have you ever found yourself thinking that? Volunteering to organize a get-together, planning a barbecue, finding reasons to show up where he might be? If so, you’ve probably already heard of the “Mere Exposure Effect” — the idea from love psychology that…

Have you ever thought, “If only I could rely on him more, things might work out”? He offers to carry your heavy bag, and you say, “I’m fine, thank you.” He offers to walk you home, and you say, “I’ll be okay on my own.” He offers to pay for dinner, and you say, “No,…

“Thinking about him only brings me pain”——if this is where you are in your one-sided love, this article is for you. Based on a success story from M, who reached out to ほめ♡レン, I want to share with you about understanding your subconscious mind and your relationship with yourself. The More Coldly He Treats Me,…

“How many dates should we go on before becoming official?” If you’ve ever asked yourself this question, you’re not alone. Should I say yes on the first date, or will he think I’m easy? Is three dates the magic number to figure out if someone is serious? What if I rush things and it falls…

“I’m practicing the subconscious mind, but my reality isn’t changing at all.” “I can’t let go of my attachment. I keep getting anxious. Can this really come true in this state?” I want to share a success story with those of you feeling this way. Today I’m introducing the reconciliation success of T-san (30s), ほめ♡レン’s…

Have you ever practiced giving compliments because you thought it would make you more attractive? Compliment their appearance. Acknowledge their personality. Find something nice to say while they’re talking. If you’ve read relationship advice online or in books and thought, “Let me try this,” you’re not alone. But when you actually put it into practice,…

There was a woman who, despite feeling “maybe this is impossible,” never let go of the thought “I am loved by him.” Nine months after their breakup. No matter what reality looked like, N never wavered in her conviction. Here is her reunion success story. N’s Situation—Escalating Demands and a Heartbreaking Breakup N is a…

You have someone you like. You want to ask them out for a meal. But what if they say no? What if things get awkward? If they’re a coworker or part of a shared friend group, one rejection could change everything. You play out every scenario in your head. You rehearse what you’d say. You…