In this series, we will answer questions from LoveSync Attraction blog readers and YouTube viewers by picking out the questions that we think will be helpful to many people. (The content of the question has been changed as appropriate to the extent that individuals are not identified)
Hello, this is Iruru.
You have a physical relationship with the guy you want to get back together with, or the guy you have an unrequited love for, but you want to deepen relationship with him.
I often receive inquiries from people who say they want to start a proper relationship.
Today, I would like to write about such consultations from the perspective of subconsciously realizing your desires.
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I have a one-sided love for him, and we occasionally meet and have physical relations.
He has a girlfriend and I sometimes hear him talking about her.
I am in love with him! I try to think that I am in love with him, but when I see him, I am brought back to reality.
Though you are not dating, do you have a physical relationship?
When I read your advice, even if you're in a relationship where you think, ``Isn't that a relationship?'', you may find out that your partner has another girlfriend, or that you have a physical relationship even though they haven't explicitly asked you to start dating. It seems that some people are worried.
When you get into that kind of atmosphere, you can understand that it's hard to say no or that you don't want to say no because you like the other person too. But what you want to value first is what you want to do, rather than what the other person is doing.
Desires come true in your subconscious mind because you think so.
Subconscious wish fulfillment is "Because you think so, it becomes so.
I will be lovey-dovey with him, because I think I will be lovey-dovey with him.
Whatever the situation is, when you think, "I want to be lovey-dovey with him!" when you think, "What do I want to be with that guy right now?" then just decide, "I will be lovey-dovey with him.
There is no rule that says you have to do this, but you just have to decide what you want to do.
If you decide to be lovey-dovey with him, so it is OK to have physical relations with him! If you think, "I want to be told that we should start a relationship properly, rather than just starting a relationship by being casual about it! If you think, "I want to be told that I want to be in a relationship with you," then you should start a relationship without a physical relationship.
Whether you reject a physical relationship or continue it, the important thing is that it will happen because you think so.
As long as you stay true to what you want to achieve, the goal of your desire will not change.
Do you feel confused after having a physical relationship?
I often hear people say that they have decided to have a physical relationship with him, but after meeting him, their feelings start to waver.
・We have a physical relationship, but after we met, we became curt.
・He told me that he actually has a girlfriend now! ?
・I reminded him that there was no way he would ever get back together with me.
・I was told to find a good person
Etc.
Even if you had fun for a moment when you met, something hurtful might happen and you might feel sad.
To answer as usual, if you decide to make your wish come true in your subconscious mind and become lovey-dovey with him, as mentioned above, ignore this aspect, calm down your feelings, ignore the ego that comes out, and it will come true. I'm just being myself, though.
Personally, I think that if you find yourself feeling unsteady, it might be a good idea to ask yourself, ``Is that what you really want to achieve?''
Because it is. Is a man who has a physical relationship with another woman (you) even though he has a girlfriend really the man of your dreams?
Or do you really want to be in a relationship with a man who says he's not his girlfriend even though he likes you and has a physical relationship with you?
If you still like him, that's fine. There's no good or bad about either, and there's no need for anyone to judge you.
Of course, it's okay to make your dreams come true while letting your ego come out, and it's also okay to make your dreams come true while feeling shaky, so I'm not saying that shaky is a bad thing.
However, if you are having a hard time realizing what you want to achieve, I think it's possible that you don't really want to make it come true, or that you feel that something is wrong with you.
I like him, but maybe I don't need him? If you feel this way, it might be a good idea to carefully think about what kind of love you really want to have, and what kind of love would make you the most happy.
Iruru ♡
