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Hello, it's Iruru.
Manifesting your desires through the subconscious is simple: you just need to make up your mind.
However, when you're determined to stay true to your own thoughts, what should you say when your friends ask about your current situation? How do you handle it? What do you all do?
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I decided to love him! When I feel like I'm about to shake, I remember the video of Meguru-san shouting, "Don't move an inch!" (*1), and I've been able to focus on myself.
However, when a good friend of mine asks me, ``By the way, what happened with that guy?'', I reply, ``The reality is, nothing has changed yet, and I don't want to lie,'' and I reply, ``It's not going anywhere.'' I feel bad even answering that. What should I do when I say this?
How should I answer my friend?
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So, I'm telling you, "Because you think so, it becomes so."
So, for example, if you want to be in love with him, whether it's getting back together or having unrequited love, all you have to do is decide that you want to be in love with him.
Also, I would like to tell you to enjoy the happiness that is right in front of you every day, ignore your ego, and continue to pursue the dreams you want to achieve.
However, even if you think you are in love with him, your friends may ask you, ``what's going on with him now?'' I understand how it feels to be at a loss as to how to respond in such a situation.
I don't want to say "I'm not in love with him yet" because it's already happened! ?
In LoveSync Attraction, we talk about how once you've made up your mind, you should already consider yourself in the fulfilled state from this very moment. So, if you've decided to be head over heels in love with him, you are already in love with him right now.
Now, some might wonder, "Does that mean I have to tell others that we're already in love even if it hasn't become a reality yet, just because I've decided it?" It seems like some people have reservations about this.
The bottom line is that there isn't a right or wrong answer; you can answer however you like. The key point is to continue being in the state of feeling fulfilled. How you choose to respond should be based on what feels right to you.
For instance, if it were me and I wanted to get back together with him but it hasn't become a reality yet, I might find it difficult to tell my friends, "We're head over heels in love," because it could make me feel like I'm lying and distance myself from the idea of being fulfilled.
So, I would probably just chat with my friends as usual, have fun, and maintain a sense of being in love with him in my own way.
How you answer has nothing to do with achieving your dreams!
However, it's important to note that this is just what I would do because it feels right to me, and it doesn't mean it's the only correct answer.
Everyone should consider how they want to be and how they want to respond in order to feel the most fulfilled.
There are various ways to handle this situation.
If you simply don't want to talk about it much, your friends might pick up on that and not press for details. This is similar to the question of whether it's okay to take action after making up your mind; regardless of how you choose to act, as long as you've made up your mind, the outcome won't change. The important thing is to remain unwavering in your determination, that's all.
No matter what your friends ask, try confidently deciding to be in the state of being fulfilled, and don't waver in your chosen way of being!
※1: The video that was discussed can be found here.
Here is the video of "Don't move an inch!" that came up during the consultation. Recommended for people who say that even if they make up their minds, they always end up giving up!
