Attract and pull in your ideal partner, irresistibly!

I'm Meguru.

I want to meet someone! People often say, ``I wrote a list of my ideal boyfriend in my notebook!''

I know some people who have written about Meguru, but this is also why the rate of finding a boyfriend is high, and many people say that they were ``frightened by how many people were on their list.''

When I wrote ``People who look good in plaid,'' there was one girl who said that on the day they met, she was wearing a very fashionable plaid shirt and fell in love with her instantly.

And this makes sense when you compare it to the subconscious ``thought'' that ``because I think so, it will happen''! I made a little discovery!

Writing a list of 100 qualities for your ideal partner can help you clearly visualize the type of person you desire!

When you make a list of your ideal boyfriend, you write down the people you think will appear in the future, saying, ``I wish he were like this!''

・Handsome
・Height 180cm or more
・Suits you

...and so on, let's write about 100 things! There are many people who recommend it, and some who write about it.

I think it's a good idea to write down as many things as possible, like 1, 5, 10, etc., in the sense that as you write, you'll get a clearer idea of the kind of person you want.

Because you believe that being aware of 'the version of yourself in a relationship with that person' is something you'll naturally do.

Hmm? Being in a relationship with that person— Don't you think this concept shares a lot in common with what I often say about having the mindset of 'it's already going well'?"

Having a list of qualities for your ideal partner makes it easier to establish 'intentions'!

こLet me briefly review how the subconscious mind works.

It becomes. Praise ♡ For Ren readers, your ears are calloused ^^;

I often say that the "I think so" part is important.
Because I am the one who thinks.
If you don't think about it, nothing will start.
In that sense, it is important to decide (set) ``I think so'' = ``thought.''

The most important thing is to set a future for what went well a long time ago.
If you have a specific person, such as having a crush on someone or wanting to get back together, set up how you want your relationship to be with that person once things have finally worked out.

 

Even if you don't have a specific person in mind, the basic principle remains the same. You set intentions for how you want the relationship to be with someone you'll meet in the future, as if it's already going well.

At this time, yes.

``The people I'm about to meet'' is too vague, isn't it?

When I have a list of my "ideal boyfriends," I feel like the people I'll meet in the future will become more colorful, like a black-and-white photo will turn into color. You can vividly and vividly see I want to date this kind of person.'' I think it will be easier to set your ``thoughts'' as well.

When writing your ideal boyfriend list, keep in mind that you are doing well.ind that you are doing well.

When you think, I'd like to be in a relationship with someone like this,' there are moments when you naturally imagine things like, 'If I were to meet someone like that, I'd love to go on dates to places like this,' or 'It would be fun to spend weekends visiting each other's homes.'

The phrase 'if we were already in a relationship' comes to mind, right? This is precisely what I consider to be 'it's already going well, envisioning the future.'"

So, you know, if you're going to create an "ideal partner" list, I thought that consciously considering "it's already going well, envisioning the future" while writing it could increase the chances of attracting that person.

Do you write with the awareness that things are not going well?
Do you write with the mindset that things are going well?

I think that difference will grow significantly later on. If you have the mindset of "there's no way someone like my ideal partner exists,

He's over 180cm tall, looks great in a suit, and has an atmosphere like Mr.●● from a Korean drama...No, no, no, it's impossible, it's not possible for such a handsome guy to exist in this world in the first place.

You worry that you might negate it almost as soon as you write it. But with the mindset of "It's okay if someone like your ideal partner exists! Wouldn't that be amazing?

He's over 180 cm tall, looks good in a suit, and has the atmosphere of Mr.●● in a Korean drama... Wow! What would I do if someone like that came over? I'd be happy but embarrassed. He's so cool I can't look at him directly! Hey!

I think that with a mindset like, "Wouldn't it be amazing if someone like my ideal partner actually exists?" it can really boost your enthusiasm! 😄

 

I understand, I'm not telling you to boost your enthusiasm! 😄 This was just an example. It's true that having or not having the mindset of "it's already going well, envisioning the future" can make a difference even when writing the same things. So, why not make the most of it and write with a perspective.If it's a big deal,I thought that isn't it good to feel like things are going well?

Without incorporating inconvenient past, present, or future worries for myself!

Then, when writing a list of your ideal boyfriend with the mindset that things are going well, just like setting up your thoughts,

Without any concerns related to what I consider unfavorable in my past, present, or future, I freely and boundlessly write down my ideals.

With the feeling that it's already going well, and perhaps even that I'm already in a relationship, if I create my 'ideal partner' list, I believe the chances of attracting the perfect person described in that list would greatly increase!

If you all try this, you'll be amazed at how many people you attract! If so, please let me know lol

Iruru, Meguru's ideal boyfriend list 50

So, I'm going to share my ideal boyfriend list, with 50 each for Iruru and Meguru, just for fun (let's go with a total of 100, haha).

I wrote this assuming I wanted an ideal boyfriend, but both of them, well, it's like I'm already describing the guy next to me. It's more like I'm writing about what kind of person would be good in reality, rather than something outlandish.

Please remember, these are just examples. It's perfectly fine to be completely outlandish or creative, so feel free to do as you like!!

Here are 50 items on Iruru's ideal boyfriend list.

By the way, it seems that Iruru once wrote about her ideal boyfriend in the past, and it was something like this. Here are a few examples.

It's different from the current ideal boyfriend list, isn't it?

According to Iruru, 'It's strange that I used to deliberately include things like 'no girlfriend' or 'not married yet' in the list of ideals.'

At that time, for Iruru, 'not having a girlfriend' or 'not being married' seemed important.

This was because she had experienced situations where she thought she was dating someone who was single, only to later find out that he had a girlfriend or was already married, leading to a breakup.

People have their own history, and it seems that the ideal boyfriend list also changes over time!

Continuing on, here are 50 items on Meguru's ideal boyfriend list.

Something...
Easy lol? ?

What was strange when I was writing it myself was that I couldn't find the words "doting on" or "loved" that many girls would include!

For some reason, I didn't need to write it.
That's already the default setting.

Also, as I was writing, I thought,there were a few lists that makes you think, "Huh? This is more about me now than the other person's ideals.(Smiles a lot, looks cheerful, seems happy, likes paranormal phenomena, etc.)

It may mean that you want someone who is close to your current feelings and who is like a friend.

Actually, this is almost my first time writing like this.

Even though I do a writing job, or rather, because I do a writing job, there's a part of me that hates writing, so I've lived my life without writing all the new moon wishes lol.

 

But when I write it like this, somehow...

I find it kind of fun because I can once again get a glimpse of what I think and how I want to be.

For those of you who enjoy writing, please do give creating your ideal boyfriend list a try!

The list of 100 ideal boyfriends can also be used by those who want to get back together!

Oh, one last thing. About this ideal boyfriend list of 100...

I think it will be very useful for people who want to get back together!

When you're considering getting back together with an ex-partner, you might wonder what kind of person you'd like to be with beyond just making things work again.

I thought it could be a good idea to list the qualities you're looking for in a partner.

I don't mean to suggest that your ex will change according to the list, but rather, it can be highly effective in clarifying what kind of partner you truly want for yourself.

The subconscious mind thinks so, so it becomes that way.

You know,however, it all comes down to 'what you, personally, envision,right?

It's all about what you personally envision,' which means considering how you feel about him and what kind of partner would be ideal for you, by intertwining your personal thoughts and ideals,you think you will be able to see more clearly who you and he want to be.