Hello, this is Meguru.
She wants to get back together, but in reality he is too cold...
After you understand your subconscious mind and think, ``It'll work out somehow!'', the wall that stands in your way is the ego called thinking.
In reality, he is cold.
In reality, he gets along well with other kids.
In reality, he moved far away.
It's such a pain. .
That painful, helpless feeling of a heavy heart in your chest. .
He might have a new girlfriend.
From the moment you think about it, for some reason, some people start following him or her back on Instagram, blogs, Twitter, etc.
I keep looking for evidence that is against me.
This is a contradictory behavior no matter how you look at it.
After all, I wanted to do something with him and get back together, so I reached my subconscious.
Applying the subconscious “Because you thinks so, it will happen” to myself.
You should have decided that you were going to be in love with him because you thought you were in love with him.
However, going back to the past logs of his or her Instagram and blog,
What? Does that mean you're looking for evidence that he and his girlfriend are dating?
That's the story. Even though he says he wants to get back together, what he's doing is so different!
But I know, but there's nothing I can do to stop it.
This is not an easy state to be in, ``being one with the ego.''
This is what goes around,
I’m possessed by my ego.
That's how I express it.
It's possession, it's possession.
Because, it's crazy.
It's so strange to say that you've decided that you're in love with him, but then go on a journey to find evidence that you're not in love with him.
In the first place, if you go back through your boyfriend's or girlfriend's Instagram or Twitter, the chances of finding something good for you are extremely low.
Do you know why?
The premise is questionable, so I go on a journey to find evidence.
Because you are going to see it with the premise that ``he and her are suspicious most of the time.
It's a dubious premise, so I want to go look for evidence.
Or, I go to see it with the feeling, ``I hope it doesn't say anything that makes me anxious.'
The premise of this is ``I'm worried that my boyfriend and girlfriend are dating.''
I think the chances of you going to see a book in this condition and finding something good written about it are pretty low.
I know it myself.
There's no point in going back, and I don't want to go back.
Despite this, I still can't stop, I can't stop.
No matter how you look at it, it's at the level of being possessed by ego lol
If you think you're possessed, you can distance yourself from your ego.
Because he's possessed, he's forced to do things he doesn't want to do.
If you look at it that way, you can distance yourself from that fierce ego and say, ``I see. It wasn't my fault.''
I think this is the important point.
I see, the reason why I went back on social media in a fit of passion was because I was possessed by my ego.
I see, the reason I'm so anxious is because I'm possessed by my ego.
I see, the reason why I felt so sick in my heart, thinking
"I can't do it anymore,"
"I can't do it," and "It's over," from the current state of "losing contact" was because I was possessed by my ego.
That's right.
This is a technique that can be done by possessed people.
I'm possessed! When I realized this, I shut it down.
No matter how much your heart hurts, no matter how anxious you are, no matter how many times you check back on social media, if it's all owned by your ego,
After suffering,
After feeling hazy,
After going back a lot,
After struggling for a while,
“Ah. I was possessed by my ego,” I thought, coming to my senses.
You'll realize, ``Yes, it was very real, and it couldn't have been more authentic, but it was possession.'' Then, as usual, ask yourself, ``So? What do you want to do?''
No matter what I want to do or what I want to do, I want to be the one who is happy and in love with him, right?
In that case, all you have to do is say, "That's right. There was no other way for me to be!!" and focus only on the lovey-dovey with him. Let's continue to be resolute in my lovey-dovey self.
In the end, no matter what you do, you'll end up with the same conclusion, but I think it's the truth, so I have no choice but to keep saying it.
Meditation is an effective way to let go of your ego
Mindfulness approaches, including meditation, are effective when you are overly possessed by your ego.
I don't think meditation is absolutely necessary for realizing your desires, but I think it plays a big role in "removing unnecessary thoughts", that is, "noticing the ego that is possessing you" ^^
Companies such as Google have introduced it. It also became a hot topic for being there. I can understand the pain you feel when you're possessed! But there's no point in staying there forever ^^
