♡You don’t have to change. You have to change. Which one! !

Hello, this is Meguru.

I had set up an official Twitter account to commemorate the release of various authors' new books, and while interacting with my followers, I realized that

many people find that there is a point where they get stuck or stuck.

Here are some that come to mind right now:

〇Why do some people make it come true and some people don't? 　
〇You should take action. You don't have to act. Which one!
〇Even if you remain attached, it will come true. It won't come true if you're attached to it. Which one!
♡What does it mean to be ``just the way you are''? I want to change who I am now, so it's my subconscious mind! !
〇 Isn't it a sophistry that it will come true even if it's negative?
〇I just want to get back together with him, so why don't you make me go around saying "I love myself" (angry)

An example would be something like this.

I felt like I was often confused in the flood of information, thinking, "Is it A? Is it B? Which one is it?"

This time, among them

♡What does it mean to be ``just the way you are''? I want to change who I am now, so it's my subconscious mind! !

I would like to tell you about.

There's no way I'm okay with who I am now, so my subconscious mind

Well, you know, Meguru used to feel a surge of anger boiling over every time a blog, Twitter, author, etc. told her, ``You're fine just the way you are.''

I thought that

I don't like the way I am now, so、I just read suspicious subconscious mind and spiritual!」（scereaming）

There's no way I'm okay with who I am now, so it's just my subconscious.

Meguru once lost touch with each other after only a month, and at that time, she felt like she was falling into the abyss.

Things were getting crazy, and I fled to Kyoto for about a month.

↑
I don't think it's okay to be like this.
(I don't mean it because it bothers other people, but because it doesn't make me feel comfortable)
Even when things are raging, I somehow understand,

like it's something different.

corresponds to a parent.
Shout out to your friends.

I thought, ``There's something different about that.''

For some people, here

ask a counselor
Rush into fortune telling
Run to buy power stones
Desperate eating, Desperate drinking

etc. may be added, but is it okay to rely on them?

But what can I say in one word?

Isn't that a fundamental solution? ?

I thought that.

 

But, I know that something is different, but I don't know what exactly is different.

That's why it's subconscious.
I have to change it.
I'm so unattractive that he loses touch with me, so I have to become more attractive. (*It doesn't mean that the person you've lost touch with right now is unattractive, right? It just means that Meguru has assumed that.)
Where I think,

It's okay to be who you are now.

「That’s why I don’t like the way I am now!!!」

It let out a roar that sounded like a scream.

Just being able to have that “experience” is highly praised.

Then, one day, I thought to myself, ``Is it okay to be who I am now?''

It happened when I was talking with an author of self-help books.
Let's talk about love,

 

When I asked her, she said one word.

Then, the next day, I was told that a hammer had come flying at me from the same direction, and for some reason I was shocked and said, ``Wow!''

Experience... huh?

certainly from him, both of

I was told something nice,
and
something terrible was done to me,
are still "experiences".

If you look only at "experience", both should be of "equal value."

I lost touch with you
and
He calls me every day and we are in love

are both have "equal value" in the sense of "experience."

Is that so.
Is “losing contact” an “experience”?

If you look at it from the perspective of ``I've experienced it before,'' everything may be wonderful in a sense.

...There's no way he would wake up that suddenly lol

But, little by little, ``no matter what, experience'' was input, and then one day, suddenly...

That made sense to me, and I must have thought that I had to change, that I had to change.

You’re fine just the way you are, okay?

That's what I started to think.

To put it in a cool way, I think that

I started to focus on ``the irreplaceable existence of myself here'' instead of ``somewhere other than here.''

There is a story about Chiru Chiru and Michiru who went on a journey to find the blue bird of happiness, but the conclusion is the same as that nothing happened and the blue bird was inside the house.

Whip yourself in moderation

If you're thinking, "I don't like the way I am now!", that's perfectly fine.

After all, this can also be seen as ``aspiring to improve'', right?
Because I think it's great to think, ``I want to grow more.''

However, if you find yourself getting tired of searching for "somewhere other than here," maybe it's okay to stop for a moment. I think so.

When you feel like you've suffered some sort of damage, such as a heartbreak, a loss of contact, or a relationship that doesn't go well, it's hard to beat yourself up and demand further growth. (I often keep the lid on so that it doesn't feel as tiring as when I'm being whipped.)

Like Meguru in the past, some people may mistakenly believe that ``I'm so unattractive that they lose touch with each other'' and push themselves even harder.

Unless you have a really tough mentality and are motivated by adversity, it's better to accept your lazy mentality and say, ``Right now, I don't think things are going to go well, and that's okay with me.'' You can feel more at ease with who you are here right now. Isn't it? I think.

I am so miraculous that I can create things I don’t want” is also the strongest♡

♡Meguru♡