♡ “Unfounded confidence” is the best in achieving your dreams!

Hello, I'm Megru.

Yes! of course!
If you don't have confidence, you can't get married.'' That's impossible, right?

So why am I talking about "confidence"?
Confidence means believing in yourself.
This is becauseit goes hand in hand with “I am my absolute ally.

Confidence means believing in yourself. Be your own absolute ally

What happens when you say, “I am your absolute ally”?

It will be harder to get swayed to the outside.

That's what happens.

My parents said,
The world is like this
he said,
My friend says,
Even those in authority say this.

What?
That's why?
So what?

I appreciate the opinions of those around me.

But what about me?

What do you think about yourself, your absolute ally?
As an absolute ally, I won't be at the mercy of anything someone says.
Even if I get anxious or my ego comes out, I know that the final destination is me.

If you are your absolute ally, if you are confident, even after you get back together with him, you can be him, him, him.

"Why haven't you contacted me?"
"Why do you make it cold?"
“Please cherish it more!”
The attitude of being only concerned about the outside will naturally disappear.

Because that's not the final destination.
After all, this is my final destination.

Confidence means being freed from the attitude of leaving all authority to external words and actions.

Along with that, I think your desire for control will decrease when you're dating him.

No, I think some people do this unconsciously, like breathing in, and I can understand how you feel when you're in the middle of a whirlwind.

There are times when this happens, but humans are sensitive to that semi-compulsory feeling at the DNA level.

I originally want to be free, but I don't like the feeling of being tied down and having something taken away from me.

Of course, I can't make a general statement because I think there are cases where you have an extremely kind boyfriend who accepts everything about you and treats you well, so everything is okay, but in this case too, he is truly extremely kind ( The more a girl sticks around with her boyfriend, the more likely she is to treat him well, but the basic premise of that is that she feels confident that she's here for good. (From Meguru's Diary of Observing Other People's Lives).

Well, this is just a world that can be seen as it travels, but that's all lol

Believe in yourself and be your absolute ally.

Then, you will be freed from the attitude of entrusting all your power to these outside words and actions.

Confidence is not something you acquire by being able to do something.

So. "Confidence" has two main meanings when you look it up in the dictionary.

Hmmm.

"have confidence.
"unconfident.
If you start talking about whether or not you have it, you'll need a reason for your "confidence."

But in a while,this kind of confidence is fragile!

Not only is it fragile, but for some reason, no matter how hard I try, I sometimes feel like my heart is completely empty.

The reason is obvious.

So, what if you can't do that anymore?

If you can't do it anymore, you'll quickly lose it, and your confidence will fluctuate wildly, making you more likely to be swayed by those around you.

Confidence is baseless confidence. Baseless self-confidence!

Confidence comes from working hard.

I gained confidence just because I was able to do something.

It's good to be confident even if you don't do anything.

Rather, that's what it really is.
Confidence comes from within you.

There isn't.
There is.
No, it's not.
So, there it is! !
That's why it's not there! ! If you have confidence when you don't have it, that's the same as baseless confidence! !

Rather than these external words, it is often said that you should believe in yourself, your inner self, because ``it is what you think''.

hey? do you understand?

Believe in yourself'' here means just believing in yourself, whether you can do something or not.
If you have baseless self-confidence, you won't be swayed by the outside and will find it easier to stay inside.
It becomes easier to get into “your own thoughts”.
This mental, don't you think it's the best in achieving your dreams?

Confidence means ``Which do you believe: yourself or what others say?'

One last thing.
Meguru means "confidence", which is a very arbitrary interpretation, but...

Which do you believe, your own or what others say?”

I wonder if there is a meaning to it.

I appreciate what people say, but in the end, it's up to me to decide whether it's good or bad. Don't be swayed by what people say, believe in yourself! That's it for the Seishun Gakuen drama style. [Fin]