You are the one who recognized “that kind of him”
In 'LoveSync Attraction,' we apply the subconscious 'what you think, becomes reality' principle to love and share various ways to align it with the simple rule that 'thinking of being in love with him makes you actually be in love with him.'
Hello, this is Meguru.
The subconscious mind says, ``Because you think so, it will happen''.
It's a super simple rule.
Applying this to love, `you think you are in love with him, so you are in love with him.This is a heartwarming story for LoveSync Attraction's readers.
"I think so" means "I think so."
If you think that everything starts from what you think,
``I can create my own life,'' right?
So, this time, I would like to connect this story of ``you can create your own life'' and try replacing ``create'' with ``recognize'', thinking that some people may find it easier to understand.
The world where 'he's always cheating' is simply expanding based on perception.
As I listen to your concerns, I often come across discussions about wanting to reconcile with your ex-partner.
"He's popular with girls and I'm worried."
"He's always cheating."
``He prioritizes commitments to his friends and tends to neglect me.''
There may be a story that comes up.
If you think about this, ``It's the way it is because you recognize it that way, right?''
"He's very popular with girls, and it worries me." → "I perceive him as being very popular with girls."
"He constantly cheats." → "I perceive him as constantly cheating."
"He often prioritizes his friends' plans over me." → "I perceive him as someone who prioritizes his friends' plans over me."
It's surprisingly just "as is," isn't it? 😄
When you consider that the world reflects "how you perceive it,"
If you perceive him as very popular with girls, the world will appear as if he's very popular with girls. If you perceive him as constantly cheating, the world will appear as if he's constantly cheating. If you perceive him as someone who prioritizes his friends' plans, the world will appear as if he prioritizes his friends' plans.
Well, it's unbelievably simple how this world works. It's almost scary in its simplicity! 😄
So, when you combine the idea that being popular with the opposite sex equals cheating, you end up in a world where "the more popular he seems, the more worried you become about cheating" every time you see him being popular.
Conversely, if you don't automatically connect being popular with the opposite sex with your own relationship, when you see him being popular, you might think, "Well, he's such a great guy, of course he's popular," without tying it to your relationship, and that's how the world appears.
It's funny how it all lines up so neatly, right?
Of course, it's probably more complex due to unconscious perceptions and associated beliefs, but the basic principle is something like the above, I believe. 😄
This is the ultimate in simplicity!
What if that firm perception itself is wrong?
When I talk about this, I think there are probably people who think this way.
But in reality, he's always cheating.
"It's impossible not to perceive him as constantly cheating. I can't change this perception because it's a fact.
Indeed, this seems quite reasonable.
But I always wonder, 'What if this perception itself was fundamentally wrong?'
Given the current context of the conversation, it might lead to:
'He was originally the type of person who always cheats, and I've been tormented by that for so long.
But please pause for a moment here.
In the first place, it's "what I think", right?
I don't know if it was before I met him or after I started dating him.
What if you had a thought (perception) somewhere along the lines of ``I think he's going to cheat (because he's so cool and kind)''?
no. It would be weird if it wasn't there.
In the first place, it's what I think.
Because ``I have that kind of understanding,'' the world will only expand in that way.
It's not like his stuff comes first.
I was the first to say to him, ``Yes, I recognized it.''
That's all there is to it.
Cherish the 'present moment' now
After hearing the story so far, I'm sure there are people who will think the following.
"Indeed, maybe I believed that I would cheat, and that's why I might have been cheated on. However, I don't want to be with someone who cheats anymore. Even though I recognized it, what should I do now?
There's really nothing you have to do.
Just what you think at this moment.
In that case, it might seem repetitive, but it all comes down to "how do you want to be with him?" Just setting the vision for the future.
If you recognized him as a "cheating boyfriend," can't you also recognize him as a "head-over-heels boyfriend" for you?
Isn't there a way to admire a cheating boyfriend?
Then she said, ``There's no way I'd be impressed by a cheating boyfriend.''
The world that can only be seen expands.
A boyfriend who cheated is a story of the past that came before this very moment. The past holds no sway over the present unless you bring it to the forefront yourself.
That's why it's all about the "now." In this moment, only "what you think" is being reflected.
If you keep thinking of his inconvenient aspects and can't imagine him being head over heels for you, then it might be a good idea to take a break from thinking about him.
Taking a break won't make him disappear somewhere. Instead of counting his inconvenient traits, it's better to mechanically put a smile on your face for the "now, in this moment."
The world works surprisingly just as you perceive it.
As for the benefits of smiling, I've also uploaded a video on YouTube that you can refer to. "Smile in Advance" is similar to "Anticipating Your Thoughts in Advance" and "So You Believe,
So It Becomes." If you smile in advance, good fortune will come, as explained in the video.
