【074】Suddenly Broken Up After 7 Years Together—Here’s Why She Manifested Reconciliation | Subconscious Shift from “Absence” to “Presence”

“After 7 years of dating, I was suddenly broken up with.”

We’re sharing the real-life experience of someone who achieved reconciliation from exactly that situation. This is a success story that came in to the channel ほめ♡レン, which broadcasts love manifestation through the subconscious mind.

Even after a long relationship, even if your partner gets a new girlfriend—reconciliation can still happen. Let’s explore why this occurred by diving into M’s experience.

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What Happened to M: Seven Years of Dating, a Sudden Breakup, and Reconciliation

M is in her 20s. She and her boyfriend were high school classmates and originally just friends. They started dating in February 2016, and the relationship continued for 7 years.

In September 2023, he suddenly told her he wanted to break up because he wanted to date another woman. Out of nowhere.

It was an incredibly hopeless situation, but deep down, M had something strange—an unshakeable certainty. “For some reason, I just had confidence that we’d definitely get back together.” There was no logical basis for it. But she truly believed it.

The following month, she discovered ほめ♡レン. In December that same year, she heard that he had started dating someone new. Even so, M didn’t let go of her feelings. In February 2024, an unexpected phone call from him became the trigger, and they reconciled.

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The Day She Noticed “Emotional Self-Harm”: The Turning Point of Information Blocking

After the breakup, M found herself nervously checking his Instagram every day. Looking at it never made her feel good—not once. Yet she kept checking anyway.

One day, in a ほめ♡レン success story video, she came across the phrase “emotional self-harm.” It meant hurting yourself on purpose.

“Oh, that’s exactly what I’m doing.”

The moment she realized this, she unfollowed his Instagram. She made it so she couldn’t see his posts. From that point on, she says she was able to stay in her own feelings more than before.

ほめ♡レン sometimes describes chasing SNS or information about your ex as “the ego running wild.” The ego is the part of your mind that reacts semi-automatically to events. “No contact → Maybe it’s hopeless” or “He has a girlfriend → It’s over”—these reactions aren’t your true self, but rather your past experiences and fears playing out.

By blocking the information, M physically reduced opportunities to feed her ego. This was a major turning point for her to return to her authentic feelings.

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From “Absence” to “Presence”: The Shift in Consciousness That Attracted Reconciliation

After blocking the information, M experienced several mysterious coincidences in her daily life. “I wonder how my friend is doing,” and two hours later she randomly ran into them. “I want a raise,” and a week later her boss told her she was getting one. Everything she thought about seemed to manifest immediately.

That’s when M had a realization.

“Other things come true so quickly, yet reconciliation hasn’t happened. That’s strange. I’m thinking about all of these things, so reconciliation must already be true too.”

ほめ♡レン frequently uses the phrase “decide your thought.” The idea is that deciding the thought “me and him, happily together” comes first, and reality simply reflects that afterward.

M had been looking at “the reality of no reconciliation”—in other words, the “absence direction.” The moment she noticed this, she simply flipped it and turned toward the “presence direction.”

“Oh, it was already true. It just hasn’t shown up yet.”

Once that feeling truly sank in, one month later, he suddenly called her. They went out to eat, and they reconciled right then and there.

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M’s Message: It’s Okay to Feel Anxious

In her message to viewers, M wrote this:

“Anything you think about other than being lovey-dovey with your boyfriend is just your ego, so don’t worry. It’s okay to feel anxious. It’s okay to think it might not come true. No matter what happens, I hope you can always come back to what you truly want—how you want things to be with him.”

Anxiety arising isn’t a problem. Wavering isn’t a problem. The only thing that matters is whether you can come back to your authentic desire in the end.

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Summary: Law of Attraction Reconciliation Is Simply Facing the “Presence” Direction

Looking back at M’s experience, there were no special actions or efforts involved.

• She blocked his information to make it easier to stay in her own feelings
• She realized she’d been looking at the “absence direction” and turned toward the “presence direction”
• The truth “Oh, it was already true” sank in

Only simple things happened. M herself says, “Truth lies only in simplicity. I truly believe that now.”

For M’s detailed experience and Megu’s commentary, check out the video.

📺 Seven Years Together, Then Suddenly Dumped—Total Shock. She Threw Away the Reality, Deleted His Instagram. By Blocking Information and “Not Thinking,” One Day He Suddenly Called for Reconciliation!