【079】Even After Being Rejected Once, One-Sided Love Fulfilled! M’s Love Success Story Over a Year of Focusing on “Becoming Lighter”

“I confessed to someone I liked, but they rejected me. Yet I can’t seem to give up.”

I’m sure there are many people carrying these feelings. After being turned down following a confession, how can you move on? Or should you let go entirely? Some people are still searching for answers.

This time, we’re sharing the success story of M, who harbored one-sided feelings for over a year, was rejected once, yet ultimately received a confession from him and achieved her romantic goal. What M remained conscious of was “becoming lighter” and “accepting even the version of myself that falls into despair.” We’ll unravel her experience from the perspective of subconscious mind × romantic fulfillment.

M’s Love Journey: From Confession to Rejection

M is a woman in her 30s. At the end of December 2022, she met a man five years her junior through a matching app’s group chat feature. The group chat function allows multiple men and women to have real-time conversations, and it’s become increasingly popular since it’s easier to chat in than one-on-one calls, which can feel nerve-wracking.

As she talked with the group daily, her distance with him grew closer. By February 2023, M had fallen in love with him. She confessed in March, but he put her on hold, and by June, he clearly said, “I can only see you as a friend.”

At this point, many people might feel “it’s over.” But M was different.

Why She Didn’t Give Up After Rejection: “Even if it takes time, he will definitely turn toward me”

After being rejected, M thought this way:

“I didn’t think it was no good or that it was over. I thought that even if it took time, he would turn toward me.”

This wasn’t based on concrete evidence. Yet her feelings for him didn’t change, and after the rejection, her frequency of meeting him increased from once or twice a month to once a week. M herself admits, “Since he already knows my feelings, I took advantage of that and kept pushing, asking when we could meet next.”

In romantic fulfillment through the subconscious mind, ほめ♡レン always teaches that “whether you receive contact or not, and the current situation, are unrelated to fulfillment.” When you view your relationship with him from the perspective that “we’re already dating,” whether messages come or not becomes far less important than “how do we want to be together?”

M seems to have been moving with exactly that perspective.

What M Consistently Kept in Mind: “Becoming Lighter” and “Accepting Herself”

There was one keyword that M consistently conveyed throughout her report: “making my own feelings lighter.”

ほめ♡レン frequently uses the term “ego.” Ego refers to thoughts that react semi-automatically to events, like “no contact from him = it’s over.” You’re simply reacting based on past experiences and common sense, independent of your true feelings.

Regarding how to handle ego, M shares: “Sometimes I’d cut it away like a samurai with a sword and discard it, and sometimes I almost married my ego. But no matter how much ego appeared, I always kept in mind what would make my heart feel lighter.”

She also practiced “self-love,” which is about cherishing yourself. Self-love isn’t about doing something special—it’s about continuously asking yourself small questions like “what do I want to do right now? What do I want to eat?” M, who struggled with low self-esteem, learned about self-love through ほめ♡レン and began incorporating it into her daily life.

Over a Year Later, He Confesses to Her

On Christmas 2023, M had her first sleepover at his place. That’s when she learned from him that he was divorced and had two children.

Even knowing this fact, M’s feelings didn’t waver. She says decisively: “For me, that wasn’t a reason preventing us from being together. I had already decided I would marry him.”

Then, half a year later on Tanabata, he confessed to her, and they officially began dating. It had been over a year since she was rejected.

The True Nature of “a Reality That Appears to Be Going Nowhere”

Looking back at M’s report, from the outside, there was a long period where people might wonder “why is she still doing this?” But while he rejected her, he may have been constantly thinking about her. Given his situation as someone divorced with children, perhaps he simply couldn’t take the leap.

How reality appears and what’s actually happening are different things. Even if a situation where “he doesn’t contact me” or “there’s no progress” continues, it’s not proof that “things aren’t working out.”

Conclusion: Those Who Hold Onto Their Feelings Achieve Their Dreams

What becomes clear from M’s experience is:

• Even after rejection, she held onto the belief that “even if it takes time, he will turn toward me”
• When ego appeared, she let it pass lightly and chose what made her heart feel lighter
• By accepting even the version of herself that fell into despair with “that’s okay, that’s okay,” she built a solid emotional foundation
• She didn’t get swept away by the current situation and never changed her feelings

We’ll conclude by sharing M’s message to ほめ♡レン readers:

“It’s okay if you feel anxious or have days when you cry. Please treasure the feelings that have blossomed within you, believe in yourself, and welcome the day your love is fulfilled.”

You can see more details of M’s fulfillment report in the video below.

📺 Even Though I Was Rejected Once, He Confessed and My One-Sided Love Was Fulfilled! Over a Year of Loving Him, a Divorced Man with Children. When I Focused on “Becoming Lighter” and “Accepting Even the Most Despairing Version of Myself,” My One-Sided Love Was Fulfilled!