【098】She Decided Her Intention, Met Him a Week Later, and Got Proposed to the Next Month｜A Real Success Story of Manifesting Love Through the Subconscious Mind

“He won’t contact me.” “We can’t meet anymore.”—In the midst of such circumstances, one woman made a single decision about her intention, and a week later she met her destined partner. Within a month, she received a proposal, started living together, and set a marriage date.

Here’s a success story from Ms. M (in her 30s) who reached out to ほめ♡レン.

What Situation Was Ms. M In?

Ms. M had typically dated her boyfriends for about three years at a time. In August 2023, she discovered ほめ♡レン, and around the same time, she found herself barely seeing her boyfriend at the time. She was troubled by the feeling that “even when we finally met after a long time, we seemed to be growing distant again.”

Then, approximately one year and four months later, in December 2024, Ms. M made a choice to “decide her intention.”

What Does “Deciding Your Intention” Mean?

In ほめ♡レン’s approach to manifesting love through the subconscious mind, the concept of “deciding your intention” is considered essential.

“Deciding your intention” means determining in your own words how you want to be—such as “being in a lovey-dovey relationship with him” or “living a happy love life.” It’s not about taking action to make a specific person fall for you; it’s about setting your own consciousness first.

ほめ♡レン’s philosophy centers on this principle: “Because you think it, it becomes so.” The belief is that thought comes first, and reality simply reflects it back to you.

Here’s the intention Ms. M decided on:

“Every day surrounded by people I love and cherish, in a lovey-dovey relationship with my husband who has a heart as vast as the universe”

Rather than obsessing over a specific person, this was an intention rooted in self—about what kind of daily life she wanted to live.

What Happened One Week After Deciding Her Intention?

When deciding her intention, Ms. M listened to ほめ♡レン’s Voicy work-included audio seminar “Deciding Your Intention” “with a clear mind, savoring every word,” as she put it. There were periods when she listened to it five times a day.

One week after deciding her intention, she attended a wedding party to which she’d been invited. The moment she spotted someone from across the room, she felt he looked familiar to her. When their eyes met, an acquaintance asked for his contact information on his behalf. A week later, at a dinner gathering, he confessed his feelings for her.

“Even though we’d just met, he said such deeply insightful things about me—things that showed he understood me better than I understand myself—and I found myself in tears, even on our first meeting,” Ms. M shared.

After that, they began dating, he proposed, they started living together, met each other’s families, and set a marriage date—all within a month.

Changes happened in her career as well. Work she’d wanted to try—animal-related jobs, children’s book projects, organic promotion work—came to her on its own.

What Ms. M’s Experience Reveals About the Subconscious Mind and Manifesting Love

What Ms. M experienced was that “when she decided her intention, reality shifted.” She didn’t contact her boyfriend. She didn’t work on self-improvement. She simply decided how she wanted to be.

ほめ♡レン also frequently uses the concept of “ego.” Ego is the kind of automatic reaction to events, like thinking “He hasn’t contacted me, so it’s hopeless.” Ms. M said, “When I’d get caught up in my ego, I’d make feeling good my top priority. Being in a difficult energy just wasn’t enjoyable.” When her ego arose, rather than engaging with it, she’d redirect her awareness toward what felt easier.

Ms. M’s words—“When we blame the environment, blame others, blame the lack of opportunities—aren’t we covering our own naturally infinite perspective?”—are likely to resonate with many people.

In Closing: You’re Already Making It Work

The moment you decide your intention, you already become a resident of that world. Reality simply reflects it back to you afterward. Ms. M’s experience—where he appeared in the remarkably short span of just one week, and everything unfolded within a month—teaches us exactly this.

If you’d like to understand the sense of “deciding your intention” more deeply, like Ms. M did, please check out the video below.

📺 She Decided Her Intention, Met Him a Week Later, Got Proposed to the Next Month, and Started Living Together with Plans to Get Married