Free vs Paid: When You Feel Unsure, It’s a Sign to Recognize Your Inner ‘Unfulfilled Self’
Hey everyone, it’s Meguru!
Sorry I’ve been away from the blog for a while.
Today I want to address something we hear a lot:
“This blog is incredible —
I can’t believe you’re sharing all this for free!”
“Are you sure it’s okay to go this deep? This feels like premium content!”
“Have you considered charging for this?”
I’ve been thinking about this topic a lot lately.
These are just my personal thoughts, by the way.
Free vs. Paid — Does It Really Matter?
Look, I appreciate everyone saying how amazing it is that this blog is free. That means a lot! But honestly? I don’t think something is automatically wonderful just because it’s free.
And on the flip side, expensive doesn’t equal amazing either.
You know what I mean:
“It’s free, so it must be good!”
“Well, it’s free, so I guess that’s just how it is.”
“It’s expensive, so it has to work!”
“I paid for it, so there’s no excuse if it doesn’t work.”
Here’s the thing — whether something costs money or not has zero impact on whether it actually helps you. Amazing content is amazing, period.
Wow, that sounds so obvious when I write it out like that!
Seriously though — if something helps you manifest your dreams, who cares if you paid for it or not?!
Both can be incredible!
Now, here’s why people get upset about paid programs:
○ Their dreams don’t come true (even after spending all that money)
○ The price feels too high
That’s pretty much it.
But think about it logically for a second.
Even with free content:
○ You could follow everything we teach and still not see your dreams manifest!
Right? (We’ll talk about pricing in a bit)
So really, we have four possible outcomes:
“My dream didn’t come true because it was free.”
“My dream came true because it was free.”
“My dream didn’t come true even though I paid.”
“My dream came true because I invested in it.”
See what I’m getting at? (Okay, maybe that was obvious too!)
The real truth is even simpler:
Whether you pay or not has absolutely nothing to do with making your dreams come true.
That’s it.
It’s like asking, “Will my dreams come true if I take action? What if I don’t?” Same energy.
It literally doesn’t matter! (action or no action lol)
Once you realize that free vs. paid is irrelevant to manifesting, everything becomes so much clearer.
This realization is honestly mind-blowing.
Okay, So What DO You Want to Do?
Here’s where it gets interesting…
○ I went to a psychic and they said my ex and I will never get back together. I guess it’s hopeless…
This is structurally identical to:
○ I bought that famous coach’s expensive program and it’s been months — I still haven’t gotten my ex back…
See it now? They’re exactly the same!
And here’s what really matters:
So what are you going to DO about it?
If a psychic tells you reunion is impossible, are you really going to give up? Is that where your story ends?
When you buy an expensive program and think “this isn’t working,” are you done?
Is that really okay with you?
Remember — whether it’s a psychic or a famous coach, they’re outside observers of YOUR reality.
Paid or free, they’re still “external” to your inner world, right?
Even expensive coaches are “outside” your reality.
Even free coaches are “outside” your reality.
The only thing that actually matters is YOUR awareness of this truth.
Whether something is paid or free only matters because you believe it matters.
It’s really that simple.
Money has nothing to do with it.
A psychic says, “You’ll never get back together.”
Some people think, “Oh no! That’s it then. It’s over. This is terrible.”
Others think, “Okay, but I’m going to keep loving them anyway.”
On the other hand, even if a psychic says, “You will get back together,” you might think, “They said we’d reunite, but even accurate psychics can be wrong. My situation is just too complicated.” Some people spiral into doubt even with good news.
You see what’s happening here?
This has nothing to do with the psychic! lol
I’m Always the Final Decision Maker
Because ultimately, the final decision is always mine.
Every single time. 100%.
Same thing with paid coaches.
I think the more expensive something is, the more likely you are to think, “I spent all this money and NOTHING happened!!!”
But I’m still the one making the final call.
No, this can’t be right.
I still haven’t heard from them.
It’s been three months already.
I paid all this money and nothing has changed.
You might be thinking this way, but if you’ve read this far, you probably get it.
With that mindset, there’s a real possibility that no amount of money will make it happen (you can’t see it manifesting — you’re actually creating a reality where it won’t happen).
Eventually you get exhausted and think, “Even spending all this money won’t make it work for me” and your standards for success keep getting higher and higher.
Because you’re handing over responsibility for your dreams to someone else — an outsider.
It’s exactly like getting thrown off by what your person does or doesn’t do (another outsider).
We live in this beautiful reality where our thoughts become our experience, so why would you give that power to the outside world?
Now, if you ask, “Well, will it work if it’s free?” — that’s missing the point entirely. With that same mindset:
“No matter how free it is, it won’t work (I can’t see it working).”
You’ll end up thinking, “I’ve been watching all these videos and nothing’s working! I guess since it’s free, that’s just how it is.”
So like I keep saying, paid or free is completely irrelevant.
Get it? No matter how much you spend or don’t spend,
if you stay stuck in the mindset that it won’t happen, you’ll just keep creating situations that confirm that belief — because that’s what you truly believe.
The only difference is how frustrated you get (because you spent money!).
Money Means Different Things to Different People
Here’s another thing:
If we’re talking about charging fees, what should the price be?
I know lots of people worry about pricing, but honestly? As long as people are willing to pay, the market works. That’s just how it goes. (Obviously excluding scams)
$1,000 an hour might be cheap for a corporate consultant, and for someone making $100,000 a month, $1,000 is pocket change.
The value of money is completely different depending on your perspective and situation.
So honestly, I don’t think there’s any point in debating whether something is expensive or cheap. (Some people think $100 for a computer is a steal while $20 for water is highway robbery. Others feel completely different. Price perception is totally individual.)
On this blog, we share videos for free.
Some people think, “Wow, this is incredibly valuable content.”
Others might think, “There’s not much substance here.”
Whether it’s free or paid, everyone has different opinions about the value.
In the end, it comes down to whether someone personally thinks it’s worth paying for.
In our case, people often praise us for providing free content, but honestly? If we’re delivering real value, charging for it would be completely reasonable.
We’re offering our time, knowledge, and skills.
If you handmade 100 unique accessories, wouldn’t you want to sell them (unless you’re doing charity work)? It’s basically the same thing. And buyers would be thrilled to purchase such special pieces!
For us right now, advertisers cover the costs.
From day one, we’ve been crystal clear about when we’d charge:
Two scenarios:
(1) Creating materials beyond the blog — like books, etc.
(2) If someone wants individual consulting
For (1), our blog and YouTube are completely free, and we hold absolutely nothing back,
so there’s really no need to buy anything paid.
But we get tons of requests like “I want all the info condensed into something quick to digest,” so we might create paid content for those people in the future.
Also, since writing is my main profession, if I ever write a book, I’d naturally want to be compensated as a professional writer.
For (2), it’s honestly completely unnecessary, so I don’t offer it.
My blog and YouTube are free, and I really do share everything — it’s basically
“Just take it and run with it yourself.”
But some people say, “I want to talk to you personally!”
Ultimately, I’d be saying the same things, but I get that talking directly might help you feel lighter or more confident.
However, this would only be for people who want consulting after getting all the free information, so I’d price it high.
(Basically, you really don’t need to come! lol)
I haven’t actually implemented (1) or (2) yet, so who knows what’ll happen, but I’ve mentioned this in live streams before, so I’m putting it here again.
Okay, forget everything I just said and watch this video!!!
Get back together already! Please! lol
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