Meguru’s Profile
May your love blossom, and may your life become more joyful and fulfilling than ever.
That’s the heart behind everything I share here!
Nice to meet you—I'm Meguru.
My main job involves editing books and consulting around writing and publishing.
I started Ho*Me*Ren (Love Attraction) after being invited by Iruru, who previously ran a newsletter and website called “Onnanoko no Kimochi.”
So, unlike some, I didn’t start this because I had some big personal issue I overcame, or because I had a spiritual awakening.
In fact, I had already worked with many authors on books about personal development and spirituality, so I had tons of knowledge. It was when I finally started to experience and understand it firsthand that I felt ready to share what I’d learned.
So, while reflecting on my past to write this profile…
I realized: I’ve always walked my own path. And more than that,
I never really questioned it.
Work, love, hobbies—It’s all “Because I think so, so it becomes so.”
For example, my career.
I decided I wanted to make books when I was just 14. Why? Because I wanted to. Simple as that.
Of course, I loved kanji, I loved looking things up in dictionaries, I made a family newspaper for fun, and teachers praised my writing—but when it comes down to it, I just intuitively felt like I belonged in the world of books.
Same with love.
I’ve said this in past YouTube videos, but I had an unwavering belief:
“If I like someone, of course they’ll like me too.”
Because of this belief, getting together with someone I liked was super easy for me.
[True Story] If I Like Someone, They Always Like Me Back!?
Because the subconscious is all about one thing:
“Because I think so, so it becomes so.”
What I believe is simply reflected back to me.
So of course, if I thought “People I like will like me back,” that’s exactly what happened.
It’s only when we start coating that simple belief with ego-driven thoughts like “I’m not attractive enough” or “Someone like me couldn’t be loved” that things get complicated.
At its core, this process is actually super simple.
One more area where this stood out? Travel.
I used to travel abroad a lot—even while working full-time. I often took trips that lasted two weeks to a month.
[Bonus] Getting Rich with the Subconscious
Looking back, I have no idea how I had that kind of money or how I got so much time off in such a busy company.
But I do know this: when I was a teenager, I went to the U.S. and strongly decided:
“I’m going to see the world while I’m young—travel everywhere and experience everything!”
That was probably the moment I set that intention. And I kept experiencing a world that reflected exactly that belief.
I simply thought it would be that way.
“But what about talent?”
“Isn’t love about mutual feelings?”
“What about money for travel?”
I didn’t think about any of it.
What mattered was:
Do I want to make books?
Do I like him?
Do I want to travel?
And “What you think is simply reflected.”
I tended to think simply, and that’s why my world just reflected those simple thoughts.
What’s more, the thought “I think” often brings even more than expected:
Books that sell well, partners who adore me, financial boosts, and incredible people showing up in my life.
(Also key: not tying talent to work, feelings to love, or money to travel.)
Every love story is “Because you think so, so it becomes so.”
People come to Ho*Me*Ren with so many love issues:
Struggling to reunite with an ex, unrequited love, long-distance heartache, falling for someone who’s taken…
But when it comes to manifesting with the subconscious mind:
“Because you think so, so it becomes so.”
That’s all there is to it.
Want to learn more?
Because You Think So, Reunion Is Easy as Breakfast!
He’s ghosting you now? That’s the present.
Worried he’ll cheat again if you get back together? That’s the future.
We stress about things because we’re stuck on the past, present, or future.
But your thought—“We’re in love”—can be chosen regardless of all that.
You’re free to choose your thought—no need to hold back.
And the moment you think it, it’s already complete. It’s already done.
Because “I think” is where everything starts.
If you don’t think it, nothing begins.
But if you do—it’s already real.
Once you think “We’re in love,” it’s done.
It’s just that your reality will eventually catch up and reflect that thought.
When You Think It, It Becomes True
Even if you’re feeling super negative—it can still come true.
Even if he’s not replying—it can still come true.
Because you thought “We’re in love.”
That’s all there is to it.
What you think is everything.
It’s the ego that tries to hide that truth.
But once you notice, the reality you’ve been waiting for will appear.
So, you’re okay.
I’ve tried to write and explain all of this in the simplest way I can—in blogs and in videos.
Please enjoy them and quickly experience your own reunion and love manifestation.
Reuniting is easier than breakfast.
I’m cheering for your love success!
With love, Meguru ♡
Iruru’s Profile
Nice to meet you—I’m Iruru.
Looking back at the times when I believed things just weren’t going to work out, I think this one phrase sums it up best:
A brighter me in the future someday—
I was always gathering knowledge for “someday in the future.”
I truly, deeply believed in a future that would someday shine:
Someday I’ll meet the perfect guy.
Someday I’ll be free from financial stress.
Someday I’ll be happy.
I spent over 5 million yen chasing that “someday.”
It all started with a friend who was into personal development. I joined seminars, workshops, and training sessions—starting with 3,000-yen info sessions, then 150,000-yen seminars, 300,000-yen overnight retreats, 500,000-yen courses, 700,000-yen 1-on-1 coaching, and more than 500,000 yen on communication certification programs.
And to be honest, I don’t regret spending that money. It was what I needed at the time.
But here’s what I’ve realized since learning about the subconscious:
“I was stuck in the mindset of ‘not there yet,’ trying to fix it with action.”
Love, money, relationships—nothing was working
Let’s start with love.
I once confessed my feelings to someone I really liked, only to be told:
“You’re not cute.” “Maybe go learn makeup?” “You’re too chubby.”
Even after dieting hard, I was still told, “I can’t date you.”
It was more than enough to plant the belief that
“I’m not good enough as I am.”
I also somehow kept dating guys who already had girlfriends.
One was even secretly married—which was a total shock.
Looking back, I was really underestimating my own worth.
Yet even while staying in the mindset of “It’s not working,” I was constantly asking “Why isn’t it working?”—searching for a fix.
I was also broke.
I maxed out my credit cards and paid in installments.
I even borrowed 1 million yen from a friend for business expenses.
I was constantly thinking “I don’t have enough.”
(Though oddly, I still managed to spend 5 million yen on seminars. Funny, right?)
As for relationships, I was trying to fix my communication skills by piling on certifications.
But really, all of that came from one place:
Standing in the position of “It’s not working.”
Believing “Things aren’t going well for me.”
That mindset ruled me for years.
And let me tell you—it’s exhausting.
No matter what I did, it always felt like something was missing.
Because I was constantly living in “Someday I’ll be happy.”
Which meant I was denying my present moment—over and over.
I kept comparing myself to others, too:
“I’m not there yet.” “This isn’t enough.” “I have to try harder.”
It was suffocating—just writing about it makes me dizzy!
But back then, I had no idea.
Everything changed after discovering the subconscious mind
Slowly but surely, I began to accept who I was right now.
And that’s when everything started to shift.
I began to feel free, happy, and genuinely joyful in life.
I went to New York—not someday, but now.
I started doing the things I always said I’d do “someday.”
The more I accepted myself, the less I compared myself to others.
And then—things really began to change.
Love life? Huge transformation.
No more dating guys who already had girlfriends.
The type of person I was drawn to changed.
I started falling for people who accepted me as I am.
The more I thought “I’m fine the way I am,” the more I valued myself first.
My work life? Major changes, too.
I stopped chasing “someday I’ll be rich” and decided, “Let’s be happy now.”
Then I paid off my debts, cleared my credit card bills,
and lucky breaks started pouring in—like a nearby competitor quitting, sending all their clients to me.
My business started growing rapidly,
and I built great relationships with my team along the way.
Why did things turn around?
Because it’s simple:
The subconscious follows one law: “Because you think so, so it becomes so.”
Whatever you believe is reflected back to you.
Once I realized I didn’t need to cry out “Why isn’t it working!?” from a place of lack,
I decided:
“I’m going to stay happy from this moment on.”
And just like that—it started happening.
It was that simple.
If you’ve read this far, you probably know:
I’ve experienced the same struggles as many who visit this site.
If you feel like things just don’t work out for some reason, and you’re desperate to change that—I get it.
Don’t stand in the mindset of “It’s not working.” Be the version of yourself where it’s already going well.
You’re going to be okay.
Happiness isn’t “someday in the future.” It’s only ever here, in this moment.
And you’ll realize that—guaranteed.
Because this world reflects what you think, I hope you create the love you want, but also joy in relationships, money, work—everything.
That’s the kind of person I want to cheer for!
With love, Iruru ♡
