What is Ego？

Hello, I'm Meguru.

Since I've started using the voice streaming platform Voicy,
I received a lot of feedback about the blog "What is Ego?"

It's a very basic topic, but I realized that it's good to turn the topic into a blog post as well!

Checking the basics is always important, you know ❤️

So, here we go!

Ego Hinders 'Thoughts'

The fulfillment of desires in the subconscious is based on the idea that "Because you think so,it becomes so.

Applying this to love, it means that.
Because you think that you are deeply in love with him, you will become so." Don't you think that it's an incredibly simple concept, do you!?

All you need to do is to decide to become a sweet couple with him and your "thought."

It depends on your thought.
When you believe you're sweet couple, you will really become sweet couple.
You have to think.
First of all you have to do start to think.
So what you think is the truth because it's your own thought.
It's a truth that doesn't need to wait for reality to reflect it.

But still, you are concerned about the reality, aren't you?
Strictoly speaking, the ego reacting to “reality” is making a big fuss.

The ego is the automatic thought of response when something happens.
In reality, there are various situations.

So, in response to this

We react in various ways like 'How terrible! 'You don't care about me anymore!?''I can't stand it anymore! etc. That's the very Ego.

Ego Tends to React Continuously

Although the ego is an automatic thought of response when something happens, the ego is a characteristic of continuously reacting to reactions.

For example, after the ego might react with "How dare you! when you faece with the situation of being ignored by him,
Isn't there a lot of cases that don't stop there?

"Why can you do something so awful?"
"Does he never care about me?"
"Is it possible for attitudes to change so suddenly?"

and so on. You react endless.

I repeat it many times though, the ego is just an automatic response when something happens.
It's just a reaction.
Because it's too loud, you tend to think it as yours,it's just a reaction.

It's not you.

If you listen to the ego's voice, you'll end up  thinking and worrying endlessly.

Right now, at this very moment, is there anyone who has been constantly thinking about him?
Well, that's undoubtedly a fusion with the ego.

I think that one of the reason many people continue to think and worry while saying they don't want to is that endlessly thinking itself can make them feel like they've accomplished something.

You know, when you keep overthinking and integrating with your ego, things tend to appear more and more complex, and you become more desperate in your thinking.
The feeling of "I do something big" is quite strong.

I understand because I used to love letting my thoughts run wild,but in the end, you're not really accomplishing anything.You're simply thinking endlessly.

You're just worrying. You just became one with the ego.

Continuously Engaging with Ego Makes "Thoughts" Hard to See

Can't you come it true if ego comes out?
The answer is NO.

The key to manifesting love in your subconscious is simply to decide to.

Therefore you just have to decied your thought.

However, as long as you keep paying attention to the loud voice of your ego, you'll only be listening to voices like "How terrible," "I can't stand this anymore," "It's hopeless,

So I think it will be difficult to see the important though that
we are sweet couples.
Because you're giving credibility to the voice of your ego, which is saying things like "How terrible," "I can't stand this anymore," "It's hopeless."

The only thing you have to do is to ignore

You get distracted by the loud voice of your ego.
Ego comes so close to you that you can't help but become one with it.

Well, I can understand that.

Because you've always thought of that ego as yourself and

even though you have lived your life on set, you have been worrying endlessly about this and that,if someone suddenly tells you, "That's not you," you might go, "Huh?" and be surprised, right?

But so to speak, it's just a habit.
Until now, when an event occurred and your thoughts reacted with a lot of noise,
If you think that you were stuck in a spiral of endlessly worrying as you responded in a polite manner as was your custom,from now on, you can simply break the habit of responding faithfully and just ignore it.

In "LoveSync Attraction," although we use terms like "ignore" or "discard,"in other words, it means "Don't worry."

It's not the time to say, "I can't do it" just because you couldn't toss away decades of habits in a day or two days. 

You can do it. Keep doing it.

Everyone finds ourselves in the swamp of worry and sadness from time to time.

However, whether you realize that it's your ego or remain entangled in it can make a big difference in the long run.

Don't keep listening to the nonsense of your ego all along and discard the most important "thought" of being in love with that special guy!!