Become Your Fulfilled Self! Q&A with Your Subconscious Mind

Hello! This is Iruru. The other day, on our YouTube channel, I uploaded a video titled “20 Questions About ‘As You Think, So Shall You Become’ – Iruru Edition and Meguru Edition.” It’s a series of Q&A videos about the subconscious mind, with 20 questions in each video.

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Thank you to those who have already watched it.
Regarding this Q&A, I received the following letter from K the other day.

K’s idea of thinking of those questions as a self-awareness survey was unique and thought-provoking, so I decided to turn it into an exercise.

Try to answer with your own consciousness!

From the 20 questions provided by Iruru and Meguru, I have selected 20 questions, dividing them into two sets of 10 questions each. I tried to choose questions that are easy for everyone to answer and that encourage self-reflection. Feel free to select and answer only the ones that resonate with you! Have fun writing your responses.

There’s something I’d like you to be conscious of during this exercise, and that’s to focus on the concept of “it’s already achieved” or, in other words, “I’m already there.”

 

When it comes to manifesting desires through the subconscious mind, it all boils down to the principle that “what you think, you become.”

If you’ve decided to reunite with your ex and have a loving relationship, then make that decision, and simply be in the state of being where it has already happened. That’s all there is to it.

So, when you answer these questions, please do so with the consciousness that it has already been achieved. By keeping this in mind, not only will your mindset while answering change, but you may also have your own discoveries along the way, such as, “Wait, I thought I had made up my mind, but I might not have been operating from the position of it already being achieved.”

For your reference, I’ve included the answers that Iruru and Meguru provided in their videos, but there’s no right or wrong answer. I encourage you to approach this as a form of self-awareness assessment, answer freely, and enjoy the process.

10 Questions to Answer as Your Achieved Self – From Iruru’s Q&A

First, let’s take out 10 questions from Iruru’s video. Please feel free to answer any questions you are interested in by writing them in your notebook!

Once you answer, press the arrow mark to the right of Q to see what Iruru and Meguru answered in the video.

*Please note that the answers given by Iruru and Meguru are not exactly as shown in the video, and some parts have been added.

[qa-box01 title=”Q1 How did you become interested in the subconscious mind?”]
Iruru A1
I found out about it by chance when I was unsure of my direction at work.

Looking back now, I think I discovered it at a time when I was too focused on the outside world, my friends, and how others viewed me, and I was getting tired of not looking inside myself. Gradually, I realized that the subconscious mind is not only involved in work but also in love.

At that time, I was unsure about love, so I subconsciously wanted to fulfill my desires and started trying various things.

Meguru A1

In my case, it’s psychology. Since junior high school, I’ve been reading and buying all the books by Carl Jung and other psychologists who explain psychology in easy-to-understand ways.

I was interested in the mind. Regarding the subconscious mind, I had the opportunity to work with authors related to psychology and self-development, so I had a lot of knowledge. However, I became particularly interested in it because many entrepreneurs and managers talked about “because I think so, it will happen,” albeit in different ways.

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[qa-box01 title=”Q2 What was the most memorable incident that made you realize that ‘because you think so, it will happen’?”]

A2

Iruru

The ego that strongly believed, “This is what that person must think of me, that person must think that I can’t do it,” became the reality. When I realized that I was creating this myself. I thought people thought I couldn’t do it, but it turns out I was the one who felt that way.

I also realized that by behaving in such a way, I had some benefits for myself (for example, people would help me if they thought I was incompetent).
That wasn’t what I wanted in my head, so I first decided to stop believing that I was thought of as someone who couldn’t do it (my ego).

Meguru

I remember one company’s manager saying that he could tell whether or not someone would stand out at his company before they joined the company, or more specifically, at the hiring interview stage.

The manager said, “One thing that people who stand out in a company have in common is that even though they haven’t even joined the company, they speak as if they’re already working at the company and act confident.” When I heard that, I instinctively thought, “Oh, this is the pattern of successful people.” I thought that the pattern of successful people is that they already embody being that person – in this example, the person who is already thriving at the company. From that point on, I gradually began to think that because I thought so, it must be true that it would happen that way.

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[qa-box01 title=”Q3 Do you think you have to love yourself to get back together? (Q9 in the video)”]
A3

No. I don’t think you can’t achieve your goals without loving yourself, but I do think you’ll be happier if you love yourself.

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[qa-box01 title=”Q4 If you were asked the question, ‘Do you have to love yourself to get back together?’, how would you answer? (Q10 in the video)”]

A4

I think you can get back together without loving yourself. However, I am happier now because I can love myself.

 

This is because I think that the more you value yourself, the less you will be influenced by others, and the more you will be able to get along with those people as equals.

 

However, a person’s happiness depends on the individual, so I don’t think we should force people who don’t want to love themselves.

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[qa-box01 title=”Q5 Do you think you have to stay positive to get back together? (Q11 in the video)”]

A5

I do not think so. If you force yourself to say something positive and end up with negative thoughts swirling around in your heart, I think it’s best to just stay neutral. I think it’s best to have a light heart.

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[qa-box01 title=”Q6 If your friend asked you, ‘Do you have to stay positive to get back together?’ What would you say? (Q12 in the video)”]

A6

You don’t have to be positive. In fact, I think that the judgment itself of whether something is positive or negative is ego, so whether it becomes positive or negative, if it is ego, then you can ignore it and go back to “I think so, so it will happen.” I think it’s okay.

As we live, it is natural to become positive or negative. However, I think that if you continue to be negative, your heart may become heavy, so I think it’s good to be conscious of keeping your heart light.

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[qa-box01 title=”Q7 What would you say to someone who is shocked when they get a bad result from fortune telling or tarot reading? (Q14 in the video)”]

A7

Which is more important, fortune telling or your own thoughts?

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[qa-box01 title=”Q8 If you tell your friend, ‘Let’s enjoy the moment,’ and he says, ‘I’m talking to you because I’m tired of breaking up with my boyfriend, so there’s no way I can enjoy it.’ How do you answer? (Q15 in the video)”]

A8

I felt the same way, so I completely understand how you feel. I think it’s tough when things are tough, so I think it’s okay to feel the difficult feelings until your emotions calm down and then decide what you want to do.

I think it’s good to heal yourself by doing something completely unrelated to love. I don’t think you need to stay in a difficult place.

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[qa-box01 title=”Q9 Are you ‘enjoying the moment’? (Q16 in the video)”]

A9

Yes, I think I’m focusing on the present a lot more than in the past.

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[qa-box01 title=”Q10 Have you ever thought, ‘I can’t be happy if I don’t feel happy right now’? (Q20 in the video)”]

A10

Yes. At that time, I only saw what was lacking, and I thought that I had to endure now and work hard in order to achieve happiness in the future. No matter how hard I tried to get results, it was always difficult.

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10 Questions to Answer as Your Achieved Self – From Meguru’s Q&A

How did you feel after trying the 10 questions? It must have been quite insightful.

Next, let’s take out 10 questions from Meguru’s video.

Please try answering these questions with the mindset of “How would you respond if your consciousness had already achieved what you want?”

[qa-box01 title=”Q1 How would you respond to someone who says, ‘I want to get back together with my boyfriend, but only if he changes’? (Q4 in the video)”]

A1

Honestly, I don’t care about him, so what do you want to do with yourself? I think I’d ask that. What do you want to do?

I’ve said it many times, but “I want to get back together” is a weak way of being – it’s too short-sighted.

 

I want you to decide how you want to be after things are going well for a long time. It’s important to clarify whether you want to be married or if you want to be on good terms even if you’re not married.

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[qa-box01 title=”Q2 Have you ever experienced the exact opposite phenomenon? (Q5 in the video)”]

A2

Not so much that I suffered, but yes. At one point, all four of the people I thought were pretty good prospects had just gotten engaged or had just gotten married in quick succession.

At the time, I didn’t know about the subconscious mind, so I didn’t think it was the exact opposite phenomenon, but I wondered why it continued this way.

That’s what I thought. We hadn’t known each other for a long time, so I didn’t feel attached to them at all.

 

By the way, they all got divorced after that, which surprised me. But by that time, I didn’t care about it anymore.

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[qa-box01 title=”Q3 What would you say to someone who says that there is always the opposite phenomenon? (Q6 in the video)”]

A3

I think it’s possible that you’re procrastinating because you think it’s the exact opposite. There are also people who experience the opposite phenomenon, think “here we go again,” and it seems like they are preventing things from going well, so that just means they don’t want it to come true. I don’t think it’s necessary to think of it that way.

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[qa-box01 title=”Q4 Long distance, no contact, and being cold. I think these are behaviors that can easily make you uncomfortable if your boyfriend wants to get back together with you, but if these things happened to you, how would you respond? (Q9 in the video)”]

A4

I’ll leave everything alone. I don’t care about the long distance, the loss of contact, or the coldness.

Also, I especially don’t understand the feelings of people who consider long distance a problem.

Because I don’t think it will cause any issues. I think this can only be said to be a difference in individual perceptions.

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[qa-box01 title=”Q5 Have you ever had a feeling that you just couldn’t forgive him? (Q10 in the video)”]

A5

Yes. However, when I get angry, I tell the person right then and there. I wonder if this is an answer that has nothing to do with the subconscious mind. Even if you have unforgivable feelings, you can at least get back together.

 

No matter how angry or unforgiving you are, you can still drink coffee. It’s the same thing, so if you have feelings that you can’t forgive, that doesn’t mean you won’t be able to manifest what you want. There’s no need to associate those feelings with blocking your desires. No matter what condition you are in, you can achieve it.

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[qa-box01 title=”Q6 Self-love means loving yourself. There are many ways to do that, such as eating delicious food to make yourself happy and surrounding yourself with things you like. It’s also good to praise yourself. What do you think is the strongest form of self-love? (Q11 in the video)”]

A6
Forgiveness.

Many people think that forgiveness means forgiving others, but it’s not.

I believe that the ultimate forgiveness is to forgive yourself for not being able to forgive, and say, “I don’t have to forgive.” If you think someone has offended you, forgive yourself and say, “It’s okay to feel offended.”

If you try to forgive even the unforgivable within yourself, you will find that there are no more unforgivable things. Because no matter what you do, you will be forgiven.

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[qa-box01 title=”Q7 Do you think you won’t be able to meet him, you won’t get back together, it won’t work out, etc. If you keep looking at things like ‘No, no, no, nothing’, you won’t make it happen? (Q12 in the video)”]

A7

No. As long as you are clear about how you want to be and how you want to be with him, focusing on what “doesn’t exist” is an illusion, and I don’t think it won’t come true.

However, I think it’s pointless to focus on something that doesn’t exist, so I don’t feel like I’m going to do anything that would be a waste of time for me. I think that even if you just start finding small good things every day, you can become lucky.

However, I don’t force people who are staring at something that isn’t there to look at something that is! I don’t think that way either. I try to keep in mind that now may be the time for that person to want to see “what’s not there.”

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[qa-box01 title=”Q8 If you think so, then you can’t see it happening. What would you say if someone told you that it’s difficult to believe in things you can’t see? (Q14 in the video)”]

A8

I often use this as an example, but I don’t think many people would be nervous if they left their smartphone in the living room and went to the bathroom, wondering what would happen if their smartphone disappeared while they were in the bathroom. But there is no smartphone in front of you in that moment. Surprisingly, I think there are many cases in which we accept that something exists even when it’s not right there.
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[qa-box01 title=”Q9 How would you respond to someone who says, ‘I want to get back together right away’? (Q15 in the video)”]

A9
Meguru
“Please get back together right now,” I’d reply. What you think comes first, so if you’re already doing well, I’d say think about how you’re setting up your relationship with him from the perspective of things already going well.

Iruru

I would say to be “now” as yourself after getting back together.
Even if you are dissatisfied with your current life, it may be a good idea to put that aside and think about what makes you happy right now, and how you would enjoy your life after getting back together.
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[qa-box01 title=”Q10 How would you respond to someone who says, ‘Why can’t I be the only one who doesn’t do well’? (Q18 in the video)”]

A10
I answer that because you wonder why things don’t go well for you, I think it just creates a world where you believe things don’t go well.
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How was it?

If you answer the questions while keeping in mind the person you have become, you will be able to understand in your own way what your current state is, or how you think about yourself and those around you on a daily basis.

It’s okay if you have a question that doesn’t quite make sense or you can’t find an answer to.

 

These questions don’t have one correct answer like in mathematics, but rather they are questions that make you realize that you may be able to think more freely.

So, if you take some time to try it out, you might find that your answers change and it might be fun.

Making your dreams come true through your subconscious mind is simply, “Because I think so, it will happen.”

It’s fun to do a self-awareness survey like this once in a while!

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