Let Your Subconscious Handle It — But You Choose Your Thoughts
Hello, I’m Iruru.
When you hear “Let the power of your subconscious mind handle it,” what’s your honest first reaction?
I’ll be honest — I felt pretty uncomfortable at first.
I was so used to believing that I had to think everything through and take action myself.
“What? I don’t have to do anything myself?”
What about all that knowledge I’d gained from reading love psychology books and trying so hard? I don’t need any of that?
Surely I still have to do something myself, right?
But despite the discomfort, I remember feeling this strange sense of liberation too. Like all that anxious wondering “What should I do? How should I handle this?” suddenly didn’t feel so urgent anymore.
Do we need to take action ourselves?
Subconscious manifestation is simple: “I believe it, so it happens.”
If you decide you’re in love with him, you are.
I always tell people to make their decision, then leave the rest to the subconscious, and just enjoy their days.
So for example, if you decide that “We got back together and we’re more in love and happy than ever!”
That’s it. You’re already the fulfilled version of yourself.
You just get to be who you already are — someone who has what they want.
Now, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with taking action if you want to. Trusting your subconscious doesn’t mean you can’t do things yourself. As long as you’re coming from that fulfilled place, you can take whatever action feels good and enjoyable.
I’m interested in subconscious manifestation, but I also like taking action myself! If that sounds like you, go for it. Do whatever feels right. Here are some things I used to do when I felt like I “had to” take action (laughs):
• I’ll text him occasionally so he doesn’t forget me, at least send a happy birthday message
• I’ll post some cute pictures on Instagram stories where he can see them and hope he likes them!
• He has tons of Twitter followers, so liking my posts sometimes won’t annoy him
• Maybe I’ll organize a BBQ with mutual friends so we can reconnect naturally
• I could buy him a souvenir on my next trip as an excuse to reach out
But here’s the thing — when I was doing all this from an unfulfilled place, I stayed unfulfilled. I was constantly anxious, thinking “Is this really going to work? It doesn’t feel like it will…” or getting swept up in reality when he didn’t respond, thinking “See? It’s not going to happen after all.”
If you don’t feel called to take action, you absolutely don’t need to from a subconscious manifestation perspective.
You can leave the entire process to your subconscious mind.
All you have to do is decide what you want.
“But what if I leave it all up to my subconscious and it doesn’t work?”
In the past, I thought “Leave it to other forces” meant “leave everything to the subconscious“ and that I shouldn’t do anything myself.
This actually made me more anxious.
• If I leave it all to my subconscious, will it really work?
• What if it goes in a direction I don’t want and I wish I’d taken action myself?
• What if I trust the process and nothing happens?
Basically, my ego was terrified that by trusting this invisible force, my life would go in a direction I didn’t want. So I ended up not really trusting the process anyway — I kept trying to control and manage everything myself, constantly checking reality for proof, staying in that unfulfilled state, and not actually using my subconscious mind at all.
You are the one who determines your thoughts
When you let your subconscious handle the how, the process might unfold in unexpected ways. But what gets created is always what YOU decided you wanted. You don’t need to figure out “How do I get my subconscious mind to make my desires come true?” Thinking like that just activates your ego. Feel free to decide your thoughts freely, without holding back!
Once you’ve made your decision, how you spend your time is completely up to you. Spend it however feels good. Whether or not you take action (like the examples above) has no impact on your desires manifesting, as long as you’ve truly decided. Do what you want to do, skip what you don’t.
When you let go of that anxious ego and trust the process, you’ll find you have so much more mental space and free time. Maybe it’s the perfect opportunity to start that hobby you’ve always wanted to try!
📖 Recommended Reading
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A practical Kindle guide to manifesting love through the subconscious mind — by HOME♡REN