Change of Perception: If Everything Exists, Then Your Love Story Does Too

Hello, I’m Meguru.

I want to share something I’ve been exploring throughout this blog.

This is often described as “manifestation happens the instant you think it.”

I know.
But it really is happening.

You just can’t see it because you’re completely identified with your ego.

What?
That’s insane.
This is exactly why the ego is so sneaky.

Yes.
But it truly is happening. I promise you that.

Today, I want to explore how—even when you’re stuck in ego—you might catch a glimpse of the truth that “everything exists.” In other words, “everything is already real.”

Where there’s “something,” you can see “nothing”

“Everything exists” means exactly that—everything exists.
Let me start with this fundamental truth: “There is only what is.”
Because without “something being there,” you couldn’t even recognize “nothing” as “nothing.”

Imagine a world with no coffee trees, no beans, no knowledge of roasting or grinding.

If you’d never tasted coffee, coffee itself wouldn’t exist for you. It would be unrecognizable. Because it simply wouldn’t be there.

Without “something existing,” “nothing” couldn’t even create the illusion of being “nothing.”

Everything exists. So why does “nothing” seem so real?

Because you’ve merged with your ego, which constantly denies certain realities.

I broke up with him.
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If we start questioning this point, we’ll never get anywhere (though actually, this is exactly where we should start questioning), so let’s accept that something happened and you broke up.

Do you see what’s happening?

These are complete opposites.

You’re trying so hard to make them match that you keep falling into the same trap over and over…

But here’s the thing:

Because there exists a reality where you’re deeply in love with him,
you can also perceive a world where you’re separated from him.

That’s how it works.

Wait—so you were always in love with him?

Exactly.
This is such an important point.
Yes, exactly.

In truth, we were always in love

What if you’re just staring at an illusion that doesn’t exist?

But we did break up! He literally told me, “It’s over!”

Yes. You can also deny “everything exists,” including “I’m happy and in love with him.”

Which creates:

We’re broken up
He’s cold
He’s distant
He has a girlfriend now, so it’s hopeless

Basically, it shows up as this overwhelming feeling of “no, no, no” in your life.
You might call it a scarcity mindset.

It won’t work.
It’ll never happen.
We can’t be together.

There are endless ways to deny “I’m happy because I’m in love with him.”
Isn’t that strange?

I completely rejected the idea that I was happy being in love with him.
I totally bought into “I can’t be with him.”

I wonder what’s actually true here.

If everything exists by default, then “no” is an “impossible lie”

What if we take this further and consider that “not” literally means “not” to begin with?

Everything exists.

What if, in a world where everything exists, you can only see things that appear to be missing?

If “everything exists” is the baseline, then
what does “nothing” actually represent?

The reality of “nothing” is… nothing.
It’s just fantasy.

I’m broken up with him
Things aren’t going well
I cry because it’s not working out
I feel nothing but despair

What if all of this is a lie?
But it can’t be a lie!
We really are broken up.

But what if it’s all just a lie…?

I want you to consider this possibility—this open space of “what if.”

I believe it’s a lie.
All this “realistic” stuff surely can’t be lies, right?
No, I think it absolutely is.

You could even say the more “realistic” something appears, the bigger the lie.

Because the ego depends on reality to build its case:

“Look, he hasn’t texted you!”
“See? No word from him!”
“Look! He has a girlfriend now.”
“See! They’re moving in together!”

This is how it builds its evidence, right?

True, he hasn’t contacted me, I haven’t heard from him, he does have a girlfriend, and they might be living together.

But what if all of that is just an illusion?

After all, if we assume everything exists, then saying “it doesn’t exist” would be an impossible lie, wouldn’t it?

Isn’t the ego the one desperately creating these impossible lies?

The proof it’s real is right there in your “thoughts”!

But I can’t actually see it happening.
You’re saying “no” means “yes”!
It’s meaningless if it doesn’t show up in reality!!

This is exactly why I want you to see through that ego lie.

Let me put it this way:
If the world where “I’m happy and in love with him” already exists as the default (the actual state), and the physical world is just a distorted reality merged with ego and moving in the wrong direction, then looking for proof in external reality would be pointless.

So where’s the evidence?
It exists only within you.

Why do you trust your thoughts?
Isn’t the thought “I’m happy and in love with him” proof enough?

Is it a lie when you think “I’m in love with him and I’m happy”?
Would that be okay—if it were a lie?

Is this endless stream of “things aren’t working out” thoughts—getting more and more realistic as they merge with your hopeless ego—actually real?
Do you want that to be real?
Is that really okay with you?

You think “I guess things just don’t work out for me,” merging with your ego.
Is it really okay to make that your default and just accept it? Like, “Good for people who get what they want. I’ll just live accepting that things don’t work out for me.”

Enough. Let’s wake up to the truth.

Everything exists.
Yes, it does.
Because “it exists,” we can also see “it doesn’t exist.”
Precisely because “it exists,” we can deny it and make it “not exist.”
If that’s the case, there’s no need for “no.”
Just “yes” is enough, right?

Still, you’re possessed by ego, so it whispers to you:

“Meguru, this is ridiculous. Your thinking is nonsense. We really are broken up.
I can’t hear his voice. I won’t see him again,” it insists at maximum volume.

So you’ve been listening to it obediently, one thought at a time.
But starting today, right now, all you need to do is see that everything exists.

“I’m happy and in love with him” has existed all along.
That “thought” is your only proof.

This is what I see as the shift in perception when it comes to love and reconciliation.