Why “He Can’t Contact Me Right Now” Is Actually the Best Sign

I know this is painful—something you can’t really understand until you’re living it.

But there’s something I’ve been wanting to share with you.

When you find yourself unable to make contact for whatever reason,

“From your subconscious mind’s perspective, isn’t this actually the perfect situation?”

 

After all, just because you can’t reach each other doesn’t mean you can’t be together, right?

When you can’t see each other in person, that’s when your subconscious mind steps in to work its magic.

Now, the “typical reaction” might be something like

“Despair” “Rock bottom” “This is so hard” “I’m exhausted”
—but here’s the thing: you’re really underestimating the power of your subconscious mind lol

Let me say it again.

You can’t see him right now, can you?

Which means you have no choice but to rely on your subconscious, right?
“This is amazing!” “How exciting!” “Easy win” “Everything is finally working out!”

This is the “future reaction” lol

Let’s focus on “thoughts come first.”

Your subconscious mind is absolutely thrilled that it finally gets to show you what it’s capable of. (Yes, I’m personifying it lol)

What I really want you to understand—and I know you might think I sound a little out there—is this:

What you think is what manifests.

That’s it. That’s the whole thing. It really is that beautifully simple.

All you need to do is understand that this incredibly simple law is actually working.

Which means:

Your thoughts come first.
Reality follows.

So focus on that—on your thoughts. That’s where your power lies.

There are so many ways to direct your thoughts: meditation, visualization, affirmations.

Right now,

Even if you’re in this exact situation, it doesn’t matter.

Because no matter how far apart you are,
because “your thoughts come first,”
if the future you want is one where

you’re in love with him and living happily together,

then simply focus on that vision and live your life normally—trusting that your subconscious will handle it—and the pieces will fall into place.

Not being able to reach him lets you completely tune out reality.

So here’s the thing: how powerful is “not being able to see each other”?

When you remember that

your thoughts come first
and reality follows,

 

you can focus completely on one thing: “your thoughts.”

 

Because, well, you can’t contact him right now anyway, so what’s the point in wondering what he’s doing? Right?

This situation actually becomes

a perfect opportunity to focus on your thoughts.
To keep your mind on the vision.

It’s a situation where you can completely step away from reality and focus entirely on who you want to become.

Compare that to being in a relationship where you see each other or can message anytime—it’s actually easier to get pulled back into reality. When you’re together and there’s a conflict, or he messes up, or something doesn’t feel right, you can work through it together in the moment. You can handle it yourself. And sure, you end up happy either way.

There’s something about having him right there in front of you that can make it harder to fully tap into your subconscious mind.

Because he’s present. When you fight, when he does something that hurts, when things aren’t going well—you deal with it in real time with him. You handle it yourselves. And if you can handle it, the outcome is usually fine. You’re happy. ^^

But right now, you’re in a situation where you can’t handle this on your own. So you surrender to your subconscious. And by completely letting go and trusting that bigger force, the result becomes

“I’m in love with him and we’re living happily together.“
You become the person you’ve been visualizing. The outcome is beautiful. You’re happy. ^^

When you can’t reach him, you’re in the privileged position of being able to fully harness your subconscious mind.
When you can reach him, you’re in the fortunate position of being able to handle things yourself.

Either way, you win.

What I’m really trying to say is this: “I can’t reach him right now” is your subconscious mind finally getting its chance to shine!

This is something to celebrate! Give yourself a round of applause.

There’s no reason to grieve.

Think of it this way: this situation where you can’t reach him is like the universe gently reminding you, “It’s time to let go and trust something bigger than yourself,” because you can’t do this alone.

Don’t dwell on thoughts that don’t serve you

So you’ve decided to focus on the future you want to create, and you’re doing your best. But sometimes you catch yourself wondering, “What’s he doing right now?”

And here’s what usually follows:

Yeah, that spiral lol. Those are classic “unhelpful thoughts.”

These kinds of thoughts that don’t actually serve you? They’re basically pointless. It’s fine if they pop up, but like I mentioned before, when they do, gently redirect your focus. Go back to thoughts like “my thoughts create my reality” and “who do I want to be?” Keep coming back to that vision.

 

Let’s create something beautiful and miraculous. ♡

♡Meguru♡