I’ve Set My Intentions, But Reality Hasn’t Changed!

Hey there! Meguru here from the blog!

I’ve been updating Voicy every single day since May 8th!

That’s why I keep coming back to the fundamentals of subconscious manifestation: “as you think, so it becomes.”

Check out Voicy Episode #14 “I’ve Set My Intentions, But Reality Hasn’t Changed?” here

When I think about where most people get stuck, I notice this phrase coming up constantly: “reality isn’t budging”.

So let’s dive into this whole “reality” thing today. I hear it all the time – “I’ve set my intentions, but nothing’s changed,” or “I decided we’re in a loving relationship, but…” People get frustrated because it feels like reality just won’t shift. So many of us struggle with this concept of “reality.”

But here’s the thing…

Think about it.

If we’re talking about manifesting through your subconscious mind, shouldn’t we keep “thoughts” and “reality” completely separate?

It’s basic stuff, but I want to go back to square one and tackle this whole “reality” thing – the biggest roadblock (or what feels like one) that gets in our way!

With the Subconscious Mind, Your Thoughts Always Come First

 

The subconscious principle is simple: as you think, so it becomes.
Applied to love, this means: because you believe you’re in a loving relationship with him, you are.

That’s why I keep emphasizing on this blog that once you’ve decided on thoughts like “we’re crazy about each other,” you just hand it over to your subconscious mind.

Here’s another way to think about it:

Thoughts come first.
Reality follows.

Since “thoughts” lead the way, you start by deciding on thoughts like “we’re crazy about each other.”

If you want that loving relationship with him, you imagine the connection you want to have – you think from the perspective of “what if everything’s already perfect?” That becomes your “thought.”

Once you’ve locked in your “thought,” that’s it! You let it go, and eventually it shows up in your reality, following the principle of “as you think, so it becomes.”

The magic word here is “eventually.”

I’ll keep saying it: subconscious manifestation works because “as you think, so it becomes.” “Thoughts come first.”

Eventually, it shows up in reality.

But here’s what most people do wrong – they’re “thinking in order to change reality” instead of simply deciding on the “thought” itself.

See how the starting point here is reality?

Not thought.

When reality is your starting point, you’re just trying to fix a “hopeless reality,” right?

With this approach, even after 3 days, a week, or a whole month, when things don’t seem to be showing up in reality, you end up obsessing over that “unchanging reality,” thinking “Why isn’t this working?” “Am I doing something wrong?” “What should I do now?”

Is the “distant boyfriend” in your “reality” more real than the “loving boyfriend” in your “thoughts”?

This comes down to which one is actually true – “thoughts” or “reality.” When you say “I’ve set my thoughts, but he’s still…” for weeks on end, you’re focusing on current reality instead of your desired thoughts.

But can we really say that the “distant boyfriend” in your “reality” is more real than the “loving boyfriend” in your “thoughts”?

After you’ve decided on your “thoughts,” you don’t need to make them match up with his current “reality.”

After all, that “reality” is just a reflection of something you thought or felt at some point in the past. Trying to change that “reality” is like trying to change your reflection in a mirror. If you think your reflection looks sad, that reflection won’t smile no matter how long you stare at it – unless you actually smile first, right?

Trust the universe, and your desires will unfold naturally.

Decide on the “thought” of being deeply in love with him without worrying about current “reality.”

In that moment, everything’s already working perfectly, isn’t it? After all, you’re choosing that “thought” from a place where things are already amazing, so it must be going incredibly well, right?

And that’s absolutely perfect.

Please treasure your thoughts.

When you decide on “deeply in love with him,” in that moment, everything’s already working beautifully.

I know it might feel weird at first when I tell you to focus on your “thoughts” and ignore reality. You’ve been measuring success based on his words, actions, and circumstances this whole time.

But all you need to do is decide on that “thought.” That’s it. Let the universe handle everything else!

It’s amazing how when you truly let the universe take over, reality stops bothering you. And somehow, mysteriously, your desires start coming true.

When you stop obsessing over reality, reality starts moving toward you.

It sounds like a paradox, but it’s absolutely true. The moment you stop fixating on reality, reality starts moving toward you. So don’t let go of your thought — that’s the only thing that matters.

Meguru