All you have to do is think about it, so why don’t you do it!?
Here’s something that might change everything for you.
I’ve been thinking about why so many people struggle with love manifestation, and I keep coming back to one simple truth that most of us are missing.
Hey there, it’s Meguru.
I want to talk about something that’s been on my mind lately – why so many people aren’t making the one decision that could change everything.
It honestly blows my mind.
Here’s the thing:
Your subconscious mind works on this simple principle: “What I believe becomes my reality.”
“When I decide we’re together and in love, that’s exactly what happens.”
It really is that simple.
All you have to do is make the decision.
Want to get back together? Just decide: “We’re in love and together!”
That’s literally it. So why isn’t everyone doing this?
Well, there are actually countless reasons people resist it.
What really surprises me is meeting so many people who aren’t actually thinking at all.
- Instead, they’re stuck replaying the past, analyzing the present, and worrying about the future
- Even Buddhism teaches the value of stepping back from thoughts
- Even when I say “Let go of those thoughts!” you keep obsessing over negative scenarios with him
- What’s your vision? Decide exactly how you want things to be with him
Instead, they’re stuck replaying the past, analyzing the present, and worrying about the future
I get messages from readers almost every day.
Most want to reconnect with someone they love.
Others are dealing with unrequited love, celebrity crushes, or complicated relationship situations.
Here’s what these messages usually sound like:
“We haven’t talked in three months. Is it too late now?”
“We used to live together, but he was so difficult and I was constantly frustrated.”
“I heard he got engaged to someone else. Part of me feels like it’s over once he’s married.”
“I keep wondering what he’s doing right now. I’m desperate to get him back.”
“What if he has a girlfriend? That thought terrifies me.”
Do you see what all these have in common?
They’re all about the past, present circumstances, or future fears – but there’s absolutely no intentional thinking happening.
Even Buddhism teaches the value of stepping back from thoughts
What we call “thinking” is really just the ego automatically reacting to events.
No contact for months → “It’s hopeless”
Memories of living together → “He was impossible and I was miserable”
News of his engagement → “It’s over”
The ego just reacts automatically to whatever happens.
Same thing with anxiety like “What’s he doing now?” or “What if he has someone else?”
Maybe you saw his social media, read something that reminded you of him, or he just popped into your head for no reason – whatever triggered it, you had an emotional reaction to thoughts about him.
That reaction created anxiety and panic. The thinking ego kicked in.
But you don’t have to merge with it.
That’s why I say it hundreds of times on this blog: “When thoughts come up, you can absolutely just let them go.”
Anxiety, frustration, and panic are such intense emotions that they feel completely real and personal.
You might think “This is just who I am,” but that’s completely wrong.
The ego that reacts to events isn’t the real you.
This reminds me of the bestselling book “The Power of Not Thinking” by Michael Johnson. A few years later, “Don’t React” by Sarah Williams became popular too.
Both Johnson and Williams are spiritual teachers.
Johnson explains that Buddhism’s concept of “all suffering” is the only sensation humans can truly perceive.
When our brain processes the reduction of “suffering,” it automatically labels this as “pleasure” and releases dopamine.
But after the dopamine wears off, we inevitably feel unsatisfied and return to “suffering.”
Williams also talks about not reacting unnecessarily to life events.
I find this fascinating and very aligned with what I’ve always believed, but since these are Buddhist concepts, I’ll leave it there…
(They’re excellent books though – highly recommended. Maybe bestsellers reveal something about human nature? ^^)
The key point is:
Humans are constantly filled with useless thoughts – so why not just stop thinking them?
You think these are “your thoughts,” but they’re not.
That’s what I’m trying to tell you.
Here’s what I really think:
“Me, me”
“I, I am.”
That “me” or “I” doesn’t actually exist!!! lol
So you can absolutely throw away those pointless thoughts.
No matter how much they feel like yours, they’re not.
Even when I say “Let go of those thoughts!” you keep obsessing over negative scenarios with him
Anyway, back to the main point…
Those thoughts!
No contact for months → “It’s hopeless”
Memories of living together → “He was impossible and I was miserable”
News of his engagement → “It’s over”
These automatic reactions!
You’re completely consumed by thoughts, and every reaction is working against you.
Each time they surface, you take them seriously, ignore the amplifying ego, and become completely absorbed in them.
What should I do?
How do I handle this?
You just keep worrying, thinking even more, and feeding the ego cycle.
You’re constantly drowning in thoughts, always overthinking, and then wondering why you feel exhausted and overwhelmed.
Even though I’ve told you that you can release them and break free anytime, you won’t let go.
Look, I get it – we all have those moments, and that’s totally fine.
But seriously, where in all this mental chaos do you ever think “I’m in love with him”?
You claim you’ve decided to be “happy and in love with him,” but in reality you’re constantly rehashing unpleasant memories and building more resentment.
Where exactly is the intentional “thinking” in any of this?
Aren’t you throwing away your power to choose your thoughts instead of actually using it?
What’s your vision? Decide exactly how you want things to be with him
Like I said at the beginning:
Your subconscious mind works on this simple principle: “What I believe becomes my reality.”
“When I decide we’re together and in love, that’s exactly what happens.”
It really is that simple.
Once you decide you’re in love and together, it’s done. That’s it.
If you’re happily together with him, how does that look day-to-day?
If you’re in a loving relationship with him, what does that feel like?
Intentional thinking is about choosing your state of being.
It’s like declaring how you want your life to unfold.
When I say “declaring,” I just mean making a decision within yourself.
You could say your state of being is like “living in that reality.”
It’s actually hard to put into words.
Your state of being is simply how you choose to be.
How do you want to be?
What kind of life do you want to live?
Who do you choose to be?
How you should be with him is definitely NOT this current state of worry and suffering.
I hope this gives you something to think about.
Meguru♡
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