Forget All That – I Want Things to Work Out With Him!

Hello!

The other day, Meguru’s heart was cleansed after interviewing Bakyu, who’s known for the very popular site “Achieve your dreams with your subconscious mind”.

He looked exactly like a Buddha (I’ll be showing you the scene soon, so please look forward to it)

I also started Twitter at this time (thank you!), and for the first time in a while I saw a lot of tweets related to the subconscious mind.

I remembered that a long time ago, when someone I loved dumped me and I wanted to get back together, it was really difficult.

I love him, so of course I’m obsessed!

For example, there were many blogs and Twitter posts that seemed like paradoxes. It was getting annoying.

“If you don’t get attached, it will happen” But you’re attached because you like him!

“What’s the point in loving yourself as you are now?” There’s no way you can love yourself in your current state, when things aren’t going well.

“Why don’t you take a little breather?” I’m really serious here. Forget that! I want things to go well with him!

Do you ever think like this?

Now, I totally understand.

I’m attached to him because I love him, I can’t love myself right now, I’m negative, and I don’t care what anyone says – just get back together with him! That’s what I think.

Some masters sometimes say things like this.

“It will come true even if you are attached to it”
“It’s OK if you don’t like who you are now”
“It’s okay to be negative”
“It’s totally fine to want things to work out with him.”

This is what makes me think, “So what now?“

In the first place, “it will come true if you are not attached” and “it will come true even if you are attached” are the exact opposite!

The key here is

What you think has nothing to do with what will come true.

“The person you want to be” has nothing to do with “that”

 

If you’ve lost your love but want to get back together, what do you want to do from now on?

For those who have lost their love and want to move on, what do they want to do from now on?

For example, you might draw a vague image of what you want to be.

“I’m so in love with that person that we started living together in an apartment within a few minutes’ walk from the station where we often go on dates.”

It’s nice that they get along so well!

What is important here is what “I” want to do.

That’s why I think that after some time has passed since your heartbreak, you should reconsider what you want to do.

Why?

Why? Well, that’s the basis of “if you think so, it will happen.”
It’s all about what I think and how I want to be.

There are many kinds of me, and many different versions of me that I want to be.

I want you to decide what kind of “me” that is.

Then, oh, that’s strange.

I’m obsessed, I hate who I am now, I’m negative, and I’ll be in trouble if I don’t get together with him as soon as possible!

Even if it feels like you’re all over the place,

I don’t get attached, I love who I am now, I’m positive, and I cherish the time to take a breather.

Even though it feels like there is a lot of space and calm,

There is no difference.

Whether it’s super negative or super positive, it has nothing to do with it.
In that sense, it doesn’t matter whether you have attachments or not, the degree of positivity or negativity, your own likes and dislikes, etc! So it will come true.

Therefore, you don’t have to constantly think things like, “I have to try not to get too attached” or “I have to stay as positive as possible.”

Yes, but even so…

That being said!

Yes, “that being said.”

There are some people who are thinking, “I’m in a completely negative mode right now, but how is this going to happen?”

No matter what you think or how you feel, it will come true because it is certain that it will come true.
It will come true… but that’s the story.

What I’m trying to say is, “Are you comfortable with yourself feeling completely dark?”

Honestly, I don’t care if someone thinks, “That person is too dark.”
It’s about whether or not you’re comfortable with yourself feeling completely dark.

I wasn’t comfortable.

I don’t really like the way I am now (I don’t have any confidence, but I feel like I’m starting to hate my “dim” self even more).

I’m the type of person who lingers on for years after a heartbreak, and adding my dark self to it doesn’t make it fun no matter how you look at it, and I thought it was exhausting.

Of course, just because I thought that way doesn’t mean that my future suddenly became rosy.

However, after realizing this, I realized that being even a little more comfortable is healthier for me.
Then, these words from the masters came to me easily.

Oh, wait!

The experts suggested things that would make me feel even a little bit more comfortable, and things that would make me feel a little bit better.

I felt nothing but love there.

Above all else, please prioritize your comfort.
It varies from time to time.

There are times when it feels good to be “crying,” and there are times when it feels good to be “happy and excited.”

Continue to choose what is “comfortable” for you at the time.
Let’s start from here!

Meguru