One-Sided Love Fulfilled | How a Woman Who Couldn’t Fall in Love for 3 Years Achieved Her Crush Through the “Thought Correction Notebook” and “Princess Week”

Today’s success story features Q (a woman in her 30s) who had stayed away from romance for 3 years after three consecutive relationship failures, and achieved her one-sided love for her gym’s personal trainer. Using her own original tools—the “Thought Correction Notebook” and “Princess Week”—she made it happen in just 2 months.

4 Years of Long-Distance Love Ended, Followed by 3 Years Without Romance

Q is a woman in her 30s from South Korea. She previously had a boyfriend she dated for 4 years while living in Japan, but when she moved back to Korea, their relationship became long-distance. Though she hoped for marriage, it didn’t work out and they broke up.

The shock was significant, and for 3 years afterward, she had no desire to fall in love at all.

Around 2021, thinking “This can’t continue,” she became active on dating apps and pursued encounters at work. However, after dating three men—some turned out to be playboys, others she couldn’t be serious with, and one grew cold after they started dating. Failure kept piling up, and she found herself worrying: “Is it because of my age?” and “Is there something wrong with my personality?”

Love at First Sight with the Gym Trainer—But Ego Gets in the Way

Around March 2022, Q discovered a ほめ♡レン video. Around the same time she started writing her ideal boyfriend list, she fell head over heels for a personal trainer at the gym she began attending.

“When our eyes met, it felt like there were sparks inside both our eyes.”

At first, the trainer seemed interested too, giving her touches and sending glances her way.

However, past relationship failures came back as ego, attacking her.

“Maybe he’s just being kind to me because it’s his job as a trainer,” “Maybe I’m just the only one in love”—an old jinx from long ago, “Things never work out with people I fall deeply in love with,” kept crossing her mind, and she became increasingly filled with ego.

The “Thought Correction Notebook”—Focus on Your Own Thoughts, Not What Happened

The biggest insight Q gained from ほめ♡レン was this: “Instead of focusing on what happened, focus on your own thoughts underlying those events.”

In the world of the subconscious mind, it’s said that “you think it, so it becomes.” Your thoughts come first, reality comes second. In other words, what you think creates your reality.

With this crucial understanding, Q invented her own original tool: the “Thought Correction Notebook.”

The method is simple. When the trainer’s words or actions didn’t match what she hoped for and she felt disappointed, she would write in red pen what she truly wanted: “I wish this would happen.”

“By writing down what I wanted him to do for me and what I hoped for in our relationship, I came to really understand what I wanted in romance—how I wanted to be, what kind of love I wanted, and what kind of relationship I hoped for with my crush. This helped me truly know what I was seeking.”

The Thought Correction Notebook isn’t a record of reality. It’s a tool to understand your own thoughts.

“Princess Week”—Treating Yourself Like Royalty

The other original tool was “Princess Week”—a week of treating yourself like a princess.

Specifically, here’s what Q actually did:

• Watch Disney movies and decide to become like a princess
• Care for herself through nails and massages
• Buy soft, beautiful clothes
• Only consume books and music with happy content
• Buy flowers for herself and display them at home

During Princess Week, unknown men approached her on the street and asked for her number several times. It was because she was smiling and looking happy.

Confessing Her Feelings—”I like you too”

At the end of her tenth personal training session, Q confessed from her own heart: “I like you.”

“The old me would never have had the courage to confess first. I think I was able to do it because I was aligned with my thoughts.”

His answer was: “I like you too.” They had their first date outside in May, and her one-sided love was fulfilled.

A Message from Q to Our Readers

Q left this message for viewers:

“Falling in love with someone is truly a wonderful thing, but before that, please love yourself first. Before loving him, buy him things, make him meals, and do things for him—please do all those things generously for yourself first.”

“So you don’t compromise with reality, first decide who you want to be whether he’s there or not. Decide clearly how you want to love and be loved, and what kind of relationship you want to have.”

Summary: Focus on Your Own Thoughts With Your Own Method

Q’s experience teaches us that “everyone’s method can be different.” What matters isn’t correctly executing existing methods like affirmations or meditation, but continuing to focus on “your own thoughts.”

Whether it’s the Thought Correction Notebook or Princess Week—being in alignment with your “thoughts” through whatever method works for you. That’s all it takes for reality to shift.

💛 For those in one-sided love. “When I fall in love, he falls in love with me 100%”—you’ll understand why! ♡
💛 To everyone experiencing one-sided love ❤ Fulfilling your “one-sided love” through your subconscious mind is a piece of cake!
https://note.com/meguru_home_ren/n/n8e03633d2c9a

📺 Focus on your “thoughts” no matter what! Discover your own method through implementing Princess Week and using the Thought Correction Notebook to achieve your one-sided love fulfilled!