If you’re serious about getting back together, then get serious!
Hello, I’m Meguru.
If you want to create love through your subconscious mind,
it comes down to this:
“Because I believe it, it becomes real.”
“I believe I’m in love with him, so I am in love with him.”
That’s literally all there is to it.
The two massive obstacles that get in your way:
● Getting swept up in current reality (I thought we were in love, but what I see suggests otherwise)
● Ego-driven thoughts (those instant spirals into “I can’t do this anymore” or “It’s hopeless” based on whatever just happened)
“But reality feels so real, and these thoughts won’t stop”
Even when you’re worried about reality and no matter how many thoughts flood in, it really is as simple as prioritizing “I believe in this” or “I know we’re together and happy” above everything else. But then you say:
“But no matter how much reality and thoughts keep coming…”
Stop right there.
Here’s what I’m actually saying:
It’s totally fine if reality feels overwhelming, and it’s totally fine if thoughts feel overwhelming—just focus on “I believe it” anyway.
I get that.
But you keep insisting “reality feels so real, these thoughts won’t stop.”
If we keep going like this, we’ll be stuck in this loop forever!
Is there anything more important than “I love him and want to be with him”?
Let me ask you something.
You love him and want to get back together, right?
Otherwise, why would you even want to reconnect after a breakup?
If that’s true, then isn’t it perfectly fine to simply “love” him?
I mean, there’s literally zero benefit to focusing on anything other than “I love him,” right?
In reality, we don’t talk anymore.
In reality, he has a girlfriend.
In reality, he was cold when I saw him.
In reality, he’s become distant.
And because of these things:
“He must hate me now.”
“He doesn’t love me anymore.”
“I can’t do this anymore.”
Ego, ego, ego—just endless “I feel so hopeless…”
But here’s the thing: none of this changes the fact that you love him, does it?
It might seem connected, but it’s completely separate, right?
In reality, we don’t talk anymore. [I love him]
In reality, he has a girlfriend. [I love him]
In reality, he was cold when I saw him. [I love him]
In reality, he’s become distant. [I love him]
Whatever happens in reality has nothing to do with the fact that you love him.
If you love someone, can’t you just love them regardless?
Same goes for those ego thoughts that pop up after real-world events.
“He must hate me now.” [I love him]
“He doesn’t love me anymore” [I love him]
“I can’t do this anymore” [I love him]
“I feel so hopeless…” [I love him]
These ego thoughts are just automatic responses to certain events—why would you buy into these made-up stories?
What really matters is just the “I love him” part, isn’t it?
Do you actually love him for real?
Sometimes I really want to ask this:
Do you actually love him for real?
Look, I’m not saying you don’t like him or anything, but if you truly love him—if you love him enough to want him back—why isn’t “I love him” enough?
Why is it that instead of just saying “I love him,” the moment you see reality, you automatically switch to that ego voice that goes on and on about how it’s not going to work or it’s impossible?
Why do you actively look for things that seem problematic and keep collecting evidence that it won’t work out?
If you say “I love him,” there’s no room for “but” to sneak in.
I love him. But we don’t talk anymore in reality.
Huh?
Are you really going to give more weight to not hearing from him than to the fact that you love him?
Huh?
What does loving him have to do with him having a girlfriend?
Don’t you love him whether he has a girlfriend or not?
Being serious means sticking with “I love him.”
This might sound intense, but I need to say it.
■ Don’t put reality’s “convincing” appearance above “I love him.”
■ Don’t let ego reactions to real events—like “I can’t do this,” “It’s impossible,” “I’m depressed”—override “I love him.”
■ Don’t act like you’re trying to sabotage the fact that you love him. (Don’t obsess over reality)
If you “love him,” decide what your relationship looks like (like being happily in love together), and once you’ve decided, that’s it.
When it comes to mind, just think, “Yeah, I really love him.”
Not enough?
What’s wrong with that?
I don’t see anything weird about it at all.
If you love him and want to get back together, just keep saying “I love him.”
Get serious! That’s what it means.
If you love him so much that you want him back, then anything that pulls you away from that love (like fixating on reality or believing ego thoughts) is completely pointless. You can toss it all aside, right?
Let’s keep loving the person we love.
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