You Can’t Say ‘No’ When Someone Really Wants You Back

Hello! How have you been?

This year’s spring break was different – a stay-at-home kind of break.
It was probably a unique experience you’ll rarely have in your life.

For those who’ve lost touch with someone they want to get back together with, or who have been blocked on messaging apps, this “stay-at-home” period might feel like another blow to your hopes.

There’s something I want to tell you about this.

This whole “stay-at-home” situation started because of the virus, right? The virus is invisible, isn’t it?

You can see it under a microscope (it’s called “corona” because it looks like the sun’s corona when magnified)

But it’s not something you can see like a wallet sitting right in front of you. Still, even though you can’t see it, you still believe that the virus exists, right?

Today, I want to talk about that concept.

What does “being back together” actually mean?

I want to ask those of you who want to get back together but think it’s impossible.

First of all, what does it mean to be “back together”?

I think the basic assumption is that the person is right there in front of you.

When you’re in a relationship:

You can contact each other freely
You can text and call each other
Of course, you can go on dates when you’re both free

This is the situation, right?

But wait, wait, wait – please think about it.

It’s obvious, but unless you’re living together,

Isn’t it actually rare for “that person to be right in front of you”?

Even if you live together, it’s the same if you’re both working.

You’re less likely to actually see that person right in front of you, right?

The same goes for couples who only meet on weekends.
Situations where the person is physically right in front of you are actually quite rare.

So why do we act like “having that person right in front of you” is an “absolute requirement”?

Many couples don’t have this absolute condition of being physically present.

So what does it really mean to “be in a relationship”?
Think about it for a moment.

Is it about saying “I like you” or “I love you” to each other?
Does it mean having a physical relationship?

However, to be blunt, people who can say those things “even when not dating” can say them, and people who can do those things can do them.

The ability to text and call.

You can do this with friends and family as much as you want, even when you’re not dating.

If you think about it, the definition of “being in a relationship” is quite vague.

Deep down, we know how ambiguous “dating” is, so some people want proof through “marriage” – something written on official documents and kept as public record! Maybe that’s what some people think? That’s my take. (I have a pretty casual view of marriage lol. I just wrote that for context.)

I don’t know what I’m trying to say, lol. There are so many “invisible” things – aren’t there actually more things we can’t see than things we can? That’s what I want to say!

Even though you can’t see it, it’s definitely there

Right now, I have my favorite mug in front of me, filled with delicious coffee from my coffee maker.

While drinking it, I’m typing away at my computer.

This is Meguru’s current situation – yes, I have my mug, coffee, and laptop!

They’re right in front of me.

Let me walk to the bedroom for a moment.

So what do you think?

The mug and coffee I left in the living room and my laptop are no longer in front of me.

But even though I’m in my bedroom, don’t I think, “If I go to the living room, I’ll find my mug, coffee, and laptop?”

Do you see what I mean?

Actually, we have this amazing ability to believe that something exists even when it’s not right in front of us lol.

I think many people are staying home right now, but for those who work, you believe that your office is there even though it’s not in front of you right now, right?

You don’t doubt that at all, do you?

When restrictions are lifted, I think there are almost no people who can’t sleep at night worrying that when they go to work, their office might not exist anymore.

Now, back to getting back together.

Even though there are so many things that aren’t right in front of us that we believe exist without doubt, why do we doubt that the person we want to get back together with exists in our reality just because they’re not right in front of us?

Isn’t that like thinking, “What if when restrictions lift, my office no longer exists? After all, it’s not right in front of me.”

Why do you think the person you care about most isn’t there?

Even when they’re not right in front of me, I can believe that my office, my computer, and my coffee mug exist, so why is this person the only one I think doesn’t exist?

Well, Meguru thinks it’s because we’ve set certain “conditions” for ourselves.

I write about this often on this blog:

First they need to unblock me,
Then they need to call me,
We need to be in contact regularly,
They need to ask to try again,
We need to officially get back together

There are all these conditions like this.

If you set these conditions, then unless you check off each condition and go through each step, it won’t become “real.”

But please notice how strange this is.

I mean, are there any conditions for recognizing that your computer exists when it’s not in front of you right now?

Wouldn’t it actually be harder to think that something doesn’t exist just because it’s not right in front of you?

There might be times when you say, “I forgot to bring it today, so it’s not here.” But you probably wouldn’t conclude that it’s “gone forever.”

You definitely can’t say “it doesn’t exist.” At the very least, Meguru could never confirm that something doesn’t exist, no matter how hard I tried.

It exists! It absolutely exists!

Well, then, isn’t it the same with the person you want to get back together with?!

You shouldn’t think “it’s not there.”

It exists! It absolutely exists!

It’s there. It exists.
It doesn’t matter what anyone else says.

What if your friend told you that your computer no longer exists? You’d say, “But it’s right there! I have it in my house!”

You could say that, right? Wouldn’t that be such a ridiculous statement that you’d just ignore it completely?

It exists! It absolutely exists!

Isn’t it the same with the person you want to get back together with?!

It exists! It absolutely exists!

Anything beyond this would just be endless repetition, so I’ll stop here lol!

I wrote this as a powerful message for those of you who might be feeling a little down during this time!
Please receive this high-energy message (always high-energy lol)!

On this beautiful day, let’s spend each day happily and cheerfully.
Have a wonderful time!

Please enjoy the video below.

Even if you’re not in contact now, let’s set up that loving future!

It’s been a while since you’ve heard from them, I know. So I want you to decide what happens next! That’s the thinking behind this video.

Meguru

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