In Love With Him vs. No Contact — Which One Is the Real Truth?
Hi, it’s Meguru here.
I shared a similar story in a recent blog post,
and it really comes down to this one thing.
All that LoveSync Attraction teaches is:
“What you believe will become real.”
“If you believe you’re in love with him, then you are in love with him.”
Decide that you’re in love with him.
Then just live your life normally.
Honestly, that’s all there is to it.
What gets in your way (or so it seems) is a different reality. It’s that wall.
“But he’s cold to me in reality.”
“But he has a girlfriend in real life.”
“But we’ve lost touch in reality.”
“But things have never worked out between us, even after all these years in reality.”
In other words:
“The real him” >>>>>> “Your thoughts (being madly in love with him)”
But which one is actually true?
Stories about how things aren’t working out with him. Stories about how reality hasn’t budged.
You’re treating all of these as if they’re the absolute truth, right?
But here’s the thing—if you want to manifest your desires through your subconscious mind:
“What you believe will become real.”
“What you believe” means your thoughts, your beliefs.
The key is this: “If you don’t think it, creation can’t begin.”
Your thoughts are your starting point.
You get to choose what you think—right now, in this very moment. Your thoughts are completely up to you.
The past? Doesn’t matter.
The present? Doesn’t matter.
The future? Doesn’t matter.
You’re free to decide what you want without being held back by anything.
Once you decide what to believe without being constrained by anything,
you don’t have to let reality control you anymore, right?
Even though you’ve chosen your beliefs freely, without any limits:
You don’t have to be bound by reality, do you?
And yet,
“But he’s cold to me in reality.”
“But he has a girlfriend in real life.”
“But we’ve lost touch in reality.”
“But things have never worked out between us, even after all these years in reality.”
What this tells me is, you’re treating that “reality” as absolute truth, aren’t you?
Reality feels overwhelming and powerful, doesn’t it?
“The real him” >>>>>> “Your thoughts (being madly in love with him)”
You see it that way completely.
If you want to manifest your desires through your subconscious mind, you can’t keep treating that reality as the truth.
Instead, make your feelings—that beautiful, loving connection with him—your truth.
Yet, reality keeps telling you things aren’t working.
Reality feels so dominant and convincing—it seems like the only way things could possibly develop from where you are; in other words, reality feels like the “truth.”
Make your feelings (that loving connection with him) your truth
But here’s what I keep coming back to:
Stay with the real him
Or keep suffering under the weight of “the real him” and forever feel disappointed that reality never changes.
Stay with the real him
I think you can let go of that.
Because your feelings—being madly in love with him—that’s your truth.
If you accept his reality as truth, events can only unfold from that reality.
If you accept your feelings (being madly in love with him) as truth, reality won’t touch you.
No matter how much reality seems to work against you, it doesn’t matter.
Because your truth is your beliefs.
Your truth is that you’re in love with him.
Once you stop using reality as your starting point, it loses its grip on you.
What naturally follows is that your feelings become your truth, and when you treasure your feelings above all else, he’ll find himself drawn to you without even realizing it. This is the tried-and-true path—the foundation of manifesting your subconscious desires.
I know exactly where you need to begin.
Your love with him is the truth (genuinely real)
Everything else is an illusion (a lie)
Hold onto this.
Don’t let reality become your absolute truth.
Be loyal to your feelings and stand firm in your love for him.
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