Q&A #20: What If She’s Also Using the Law of Attraction?

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I want to get back together with him, but there’s another woman who likes him too. If we’ve both learned how to tap into our subconscious power, firmly decided that we’re “deeply in love with him,” and stayed completely committed to that belief—managing our egos and anxieties while genuinely enjoying self-growth and living fulfilling, joyful lives—who would actually end up with him?

What happens when you’re both using your subconscious mind?

Manifesting through your subconscious comes down to this: Because you believe it, it becomes true for you.

 

You believe you’re in love with him, so you are. It’s really that straightforward.

But here’s the thing—if another woman is *also* using her subconscious to believe she’s in love with him, what does that mean for you and your desire to reconcile?

It all comes down to who’s doing the thinking.

Manifesting your desires through your subconscious is based on this principle: Because *you* think a certain way, *you* become that way.

The key word here is *you*.

So even if someone else believes something different, that’s their reality—and you have your own. You’re the only one who gets to freely choose your thoughts, completely independent of what anyone else thinks.

If you want to manifest your desires through your subconscious, all you have to do is decide what you want and commit to that thought.

Wait—what if she’s thinking it too?

Now, what if that other woman *is* using her subconscious?

Does that automatically mean she’ll be in love with him? Does that make her more powerful at this than you?

Of course not. But—if *you* start thinking, “Well, she’s using her subconscious too, so she’s probably going to end up with him,” then *that’s* what you’ll create for yourself.

Because that’s just what *you’re* thinking. Period.

Here’s what I really want you to see: this question itself is coming from your ego, not your true self. It’s rooted in anxiety about something that hasn’t even happened yet—so there’s no real value in entertaining it.

To put it plainly: her thoughts and beliefs are hers alone—they have nothing to do with your world.

Your world belongs to you. And you have complete freedom to create it however you want.

So if there’s something you desire, just remind yourself: *Because I believe this, it becomes real for me.*

All you need to do is commit to your belief and embody that reality.

Now, here’s something interesting to consider: there’s only one of him, so realistically, only one of you can date him in any given situation. But here’s the thing—you don’t need to worry about that. Her reality is her reality, and yours is yours. In each of your worlds, you’re both with the person you want to be with.

 

Instead of fighting over one person, think of it this way: each person experiences the version of him they believe in. It might help to think of it like parallel worlds, where everyone gets their desired outcome.

Just decide who you want to be

What if there’s only one him, but two women are both using the power of their subconscious at the same time? That’s when the ego loves to step in and complicate things.

But manifesting through your subconscious is beautifully simple: *What I believe becomes my reality.*

Sure, it can be fun to play “what if” scenarios in your mind.

But if you find yourself spiraling into worry and overthinking? That’s your cue to pause and redirect your focus back to your core belief: that you’re in love with him and he’s part of your life.

Want to go deeper? Check out our videos!

We’ve created a couple of videos in the past that dive deeper into this exact question with real examples. If you haven’t seen them yet, I highly recommend taking a look: