If I Fall for Someone, Will They 100% Fall for Me Too?

Hi there! It’s Meguru.

Our YouTube channel “Home♡Ren” launched back in January 2020.

These videos are all about teaching you how to manifest love through your subconscious mind.

We’ve put out over 140 videos so far (as of June 2021), and we’re so grateful that so many of them have really struck a chord with people.

First up is Jajan♪

When I fall in love with someone, they fall in love with me 100% of the time!?

Yes — this is something I’ve actually lived.

Honestly, whenever Meguru has fallen in love with someone, it’s almost always turned out that the other person had feelings for her too.

So dating them was super easy to make happen.

And here’s the thing—when you understand your subconscious mind, it makes total sense.

Because your subconscious mind works like this:

It’s that simple.

When I was dating someone, I genuinely believed, “The person I love will love me back 100%,” so I expected to date someone I liked, and boom—I did, right away.

What beliefs have you set for yourself?

Here’s something amazing: lots of people who’ve successfully gotten their exes back tell us this video is their favorite, and they’ve watched it over and over. When we asked why they loved it so much, they said:

At the time, I didn’t even realize I was doing that, but I thought, “That’s just how it works.”

Even if someone doesn’t love you back, that’s fine.

You can just write it off as a “rare exception.”

Think about it this way: I know lots of people who come to this blog are hoping to get back together with their exes. But here’s my question for you: What beliefs have you actually set for yourself?

I want to get back together.

Is that your belief?

If it is, let’s pause for a second.

Set your belief about what happens AFTER you get back together!

Here’s the deal: if your belief is just “I want to get back together,” then all you’re going to get is “the feeling of wanting to get back together, so you’ll keep wanting it.”

“I want” creates the state of “still wanting.”

That’s why I’m always saying: don’t focus on wanting to get back together or make that your goal. Instead, decide what you actually want your life to look like once you ARE back together. Picture what comes after.

Will you guys just keep fighting?

I don’t think you want that.

You probably want to be close, to love each other, to support each other.

So your belief could be something like:

How does that feel?

Of course, this will look different for everyone, so choose whatever resonates most with you. But I really don’t think a belief like “I’m struggling to get back together” is going to work for you.

There are lots of ways to express it—maybe you want to be playful and affectionate, or maybe you want to grow together, or challenge each other in healthy ways. But ultimately, the core belief should be about mutual love and happiness.

So if I loved him 100%, why did we break up?

Quick postscript:

If I loved him 100% and we started dating, why would we ever break up?

Good question, right? Well, the simple answer is that I had set a belief like: “After we started dating, life got messy and things stopped working out.” Ha!

These days?

Now I don’t put any limits on my beliefs about love, relationships, or money. Instead, I believe “I’m having fun and experiencing joy every single day,” and honestly, I’m amazed at how true it becomes. It really is that simple. ♡

So if you’re interested, definitely check out the video below!

Meguru♡