You Think It, So It Has to Happen!?
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Hello, this is Meguru.
This time’s featured video is “You think it, so it has to happen!?”♪
In this article, I’d like to dig deeper and tell you more about it.
I can’t help but focus on reality – what should I do?
We receive a lot of questions like this.
The subconscious mind says, “Because you think it, it will happen”.
“When you think you’re in love with him, you end up being in love with him.”
It’s such a simple world.
What appears to be blocking this simple world is “reality.”
What?
It was quite a while ago.
We’re living in reality!
In real life, he broke up with me and I tried to get back together but couldn’t, and I still can’t give up!
Do you understand this painful feeling?
Yes…I’m sorry.
However, “what you think” can be decided without regard to your current situation – not even one bit.
In other words, when you say “I think this,” you are deciding how you want to be with him.
So when you decide how you want to be, you can decide without any regard to your current relationship status or your real-world situation with him.
What You Think Really Does Happen!
Well, let me tell you something.
I’ve been saying for a long time that it’s perfectly okay to make decisions without regard to reality.
Just think about it logically.
If you can’t decide how to be unless you base your decision on your current situation,
You can’t experience anything beyond what you’ve already experienced before, right?
You’re at home now. Do you think living alone is impossible because of this reality?
You’re in one country now. Do you think traveling abroad is impossible because of this reality?
You’re an employee now. Do you think “Because of this reality, I can’t start a business”?
Setting aside money and other practical issues, what I want to say here is:
You can live alone even if you’re currently at home! You absolutely can do it.
Even if you’re in one country, you can go abroad if you get a ticket.
You can start a business even if you’re an employee! That means you can absolutely start a business.
“That reality” is irrelevant, isn’t it?
You live alone because you think you’ll be living alone.
You go on overseas trips because you think you’re going overseas.
You start a business because you think you want to start a business.
That’s all there is to it.
Here’s another example.
The same goes for marriage.
There are people worried about whether they can marry someone they’re interested in, and people worried because they can’t find a marriage partner.
You’re single now. Would anyone say, “Marriage is impossible because of that reality”?
Can’t get married because you’re single?
You can’t get married unless you’re single first, right?
I don’t even know what we’re talking about anymore.
Anyway!
You can decide your own thoughts (way of being), regardless of reality.
But I’m still focused on reality.
Having said that, I’m still focused on reality.
“I can’t help but remember the big fight we had when we broke up.”
“I can’t help but think about those hurtful words he said back then.”
A pattern of feeling depressed as past memories flash by.
Or,
“He’s got a new girlfriend.”
“He’s decided to transfer to another city.”
A pattern of feeling depressed after hearing about his current situation.
Well, I understand that you’re concerned about reality, but
Even so, you can freely decide your “thoughts (way of being)” regardless of “that reality” ^^
So once you decide on your “thoughts”, it simply becomes that way. I think it’s a beautifully simple world.
“No”
No?
[chat face=”woman1″ name=”Client” align=”left” border=”red” bg=”none”]Even when people say it has nothing to do with reality, it really bothers me[/chat]
[chat face=”Cats777993-1-e1621414988553.png” name=”Meguru” align=”right” border=”green” bg=”none”] I see. I understand how you feel, but you can freely decide what you think (how you want to be) without needing to judge reality. What are your thoughts? [/chat]
[chat face=”woman1″ name=”Client” align=”left” border=”red” bg=”none”]My thoughts are, “We have mutual love for each other and have always gotten along wonderfully.”[ /chat]
[chat face=”Cats777993-1-e1621414988553.png” name=”Meguru” align=”right” border=”green” bg=”none”] Perfect [/chat]
[chat face=”woman1″ name=”Client” align=”left” border=”red” bg=”none”]No[/chat]
[chat face=”Cats777993-1-e1621414988553.png” name=”Meguru” align=”right” border=”green” bg=”none”] Isn’t that perfect? [/chat]
[chat face=”woman1″ name=”Client” align=”left” border=”red” bg=”none”]Oh, no. I understand that I can freely decide my thoughts (way of being). But even when I decide, I’m still worried about reality.[/chat]
[chat face=”Cats777993-1-e1621414988553.png” name=”Meguru” align=”right” border=”green” bg=”none”] Really? [/chat]
[chat face=”woman1″ name=”Client” align=”left” border=”red” bg=”none”]Yes. We broke up after a big fight, and I still haven’t heard from him.[/chat]
[chat face=”Cats777993-1-e1621414988553.png” name=”Meguru” align=”right” border=”green” bg=”none”] I see. There are times when reality bothers you. But that reality doesn’t matter [/chat]
[chat face=”woman1″ name=”Client” align=”left” border=”red” bg=”none”]No[/chat]
What?
Even when they say it’s not related, I can’t help but think that it is.
It’s amazing how these conversations go in circles, but what do people who insist on being concerned about reality keep saying?
In a nutshell:
I’m okay with this reality.
It’s the same as saying that.
I prefer this reality.
No matter how much you say, “It has nothing to do with reality,”
I can’t ignore it, I can’t dismiss it, I can’t help but worry about it.
You can think that you can’t make it unrelated, you don’t have to ignore it, you can care about it – but thoughts can still be decided without regard to reality, right?
When I say this,
But even if I make a decision without regard to reality, I can’t ignore reality. I’m a failure. The bar is too high for me to reach.
What do you keep saying?
I’m okay with this reality.
It’s not “I’m okay with this reality.”
I like this reality.
Of course, I don’t feel like forcing anyone into this understanding at all.
After all, the subconscious mind says, “Because you think it, it will happen.”
It’s you who thinks it.
“You think it.”
No matter what Meguru says, in the end,
“When Meguru told me that, I thought it had nothing to do with reality, but I’m still focused on reality.”
YOU “think it”
You create the world that you think you want.
There’s not even the tiniest bit of room for outside intervention.
First of all, why do you care so much about this inconvenient reality?
Many people who are concerned about reality are focused on their past or current relationship situation, but in most cases, it’s something they don’t like.
Maybe you had a big fight, he cheated, or he got a new girlfriend.
Why do you keep bringing up the reality that seems inconvenient to you every single time?
One thing I can think of is:
“He got a girlfriend, so it’s impossible now.”
If you want to stare hard at the seemingly inconvenient reality and use it as a starting point to create a story about struggling and trying your best.
In a sense, this looks fun – like being the main character in a drama.
Recommended for people who like roller coasters.
“Huh? Stop it. I don’t have that hobby. I just want to be with him quickly.”
Really?
Really?
If that’s really true, wouldn’t it be possible to step away from the reality that seems full of inconveniences?
I mean, it doesn’t matter.
You don’t need any experience with it.
Don’t worry about reality so much, and prioritize the feeling of being in love with him!
“You think it” is simply “You think it.”
In the end, don’t forget that everything is “you,” “thinking,” and “deciding”!
I think the video has a different perspective (maybe), so if you’re interested, please check it out!
Meguru♡
You think it, so it has to happen!?
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