"He's a very popular person. Everyone says he's very competitive."
"My friend told me it was time for him to stop."
"My colleague at work told me that if we broke up, I should get back together and move on without looking back..."
People often tell us not to be influenced by outsiders, but we tend to worry about what people close to us are telling us.
“Outside” means “other people.”
The rest is about the ``society'' of the world, society, etc.
Irrespective of subconscious thoughts or anything else, it is extremely important to not be swayed by outsiders in order to live your life in your own way.
The opinions of “outsiders” have become my own opinions.
From a subconscious point of view, ``my thoughts create the world'' (if you think that way, it becomes so), so if I think ``I am constantly being influenced by those around me'', I end up being influenced by the ``outside''. Create a world that is easy.
However, those who are aware that they are being controlled by the outside world are still suffering from mild symptoms, and many people do not even realize that they are being controlled by the outside world. (So was Meguru.)
What will happen if we don't realize that we are being swayed by the "outside"?
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Opinions from outsiders become your own opinions.
"He's very popular, so the competition is high. What should we do?"
"Maybe I should stop him because he's a bad girl."
"It's kind of backwards to get back together with someone you broke up with..."
There are many times when we take opinions that we think are our own and make them our own, based on what the ``society'' is saying, even though we don't know who said it.
No, it's scary.
In this state, even if someone carelessly says something that just came to mind, there is a possibility that it will be swallowed whole.
you are not living my life at all.
To put it another way,
I entrust my happiness to “outside” things
When you entrust your happiness to something outside,
I was flustered by what that person said.
I was so excited about what this person said.
I'm hurt by what that person said...
I'm constantly being swayed around and going back and forth, so I often feel anxious and restless.
I am also being swayed by the “outside” of him.
And, there's a high probability that you're doing the same thing with your relationship with your "significant other."
I was depressed by that person's words and actions.
I was happy with that person's words and actions,
Predicting what will be good (or bad) in the future from that person's words and actions,
Gauge whether or not you are happy based on that person's words and actions.
I know.
It's natural that it's influenced by the words and actions of the person you like.
But please think about it.
Even that important person is someone else, so if you look at it from an "outside" perspective, it's the same thing.
It turns out that they are simply being swayed by the ``outside.''
People who are being swayed by the "outside" are not just being swayed by that important person.
Whether it's friends, colleagues, parents, or the world at large, we are constantly being influenced by the outside world.
I entrust my happiness to “outside” things.
When Meguru realized this while working with a good friend of hers, she was completely shocked.
I noticed that when she expresses an opinion, she chooses the opinion that many other people are saying without realizing it.
The ego called thinking is just “outside”
Actually, there is another "outside" where you can easily be manipulated.
It is the ego called thinking.
The fact that “he is a popular person”
“That’s why it doesn’t match up with me.”
"So I have to become prettier."
“That’s why I’m always anxious.”
“That’s why things aren’t going well.”
It's that kind of thinking that instantly jumps in and screams out loud, ``I can't do it anyway.''
Can you tell that that voice is completely "outside"?
That's "inside". You may think so, but it's "outside".
I’m just pretending to be “inside” lol
They think it's theirs, so they try to take care of it, but since it's "outside", they can do whatever they want.
Although I tell ♡ Don't inherit second thoughts. Dante is the only one who “thinks” , until Ichinen, there is nothing that can be done about it. However, it is possible to avoid inheriting second thoughts.
When I'm having a hard time, I usually start repeating the second thought over and over lol.
Enjoy the present. This is the state of not entrusting happiness to outsiders.
I think that the ego called thinking can be replaced with common sense and ideas.
If we trace the origins of common sense and ideas, they may be the words that a commentator on a wide show said out loud.
For instance, men are cheating.
So, when I focused on that ``men cheat'' thing,
When I was looking at Twitter, I came across the phrase "Men cheat"!
When I had dinner with a friend, she said, ``Men cheat.''
When I got home, even my sister started saying things like ``Men cheat!'' ! ! ! !
That's right, ``Men tend to cheat.''
This is the true nature of my common sense and ideas.
That's stupid.
Doesn't it look ridiculous? lol
You don't have to spend about 12 hours out of the 24 hours on such "whatever" things.
Of those 12 hours,
Every minute I woke up in the morning, I was happy that it was sunny.
She realized that a minute had passed when a bird chirped,
Enjoy the coffee for just one minute,
Don't you feel better if you enjoy those things and accumulate time for them?
Enjoy that and accumulate time for that.
This is,
Live in this moment now.
Don't entrust your happiness to others
Everything I've said so far can be summed up in one word.
Don't entrust your happiness to others ♡
Well, that's all.
Meguru has decided that everyone who visits this site will find love, so she sneaks a peek at various people's Twitter.
"Are you feeling hard right now? Please do your best...♡"
"Ah. I guess there were a lot of happy things happening. That's great ♡"
I'm taking a souvenir just in case (← I'm not scared, so it's okay lol).
In such a situation, when I see someone who is feeling weak and thinking, ``I guess it's impossible...'' after reminiscing about things that happened with him in the past, I just say, ``Don't go that way...'' ーーーーーーーーーーーーーーーーーーーーーーーーーーーーーーーーーーーーーーーーーーーーー
Your friend,
The parents
People at the company
I don't care about all the "outside" things I've been talking about.
He is too.
What was that “outside” thing he was talking about?
It doesn't matter.
Really, it doesn't matter.
He just follows me later lol
And then there are the thoughts that you think are yours, just scratching around in a mess that doesn't make any sense.
It's okay to be outside like that.
If you have time to worry about things outside, let's enjoy this moment right now.
Living in the present moment is the state of “not entrusting your happiness to others”♡
If you like, please watch the video ☆
This is a video that tells you about the subconscious mind ♡
This is "Why is it so difficult to achieve?"
♡Meguru♡
