Hello. It's been a long time since I've seen you.
I think there are many people looking at the Homeren website who are hoping to get back together, but I also think there are some who have just lost their love. It's fine if you think, ``I'll get back together soon!'' But I think there are also people who are struggling with the pain of heartbreak and can't move. Because that's what happened to me after a terrible breakup.
So, I am writing this article in the hope that it will help such people take a step forward.
When you've just lost your love,
「I am happy to have gotten back together with ○○-kun」
Even if you want to, there are times when you feel overwhelmed every time you see places or things that remind you of memories with him.
There are some things you should definitely try during times like these.
If you want to get back together, get back together, and if you want to start another relationship, I'm going to write this in hopes that it will give you some hints that will help you move smoothly into another relationship. It's a real experience!
You don't have to force yourself to forget
First of all, there's no need to force yourself to forget about your partner just because you've lost your love.
Maybe you looked at various sites and books before getting here and thought, ``I lost my love, so I have to forget about him/her and move on.'' There's no need to do that.
It doesn't matter if you want to get back together or break up and find someone else.
However, if you're blaming yourself or feeling regretful about your breakup, try stopping.
What I want you to do during this period is to love yourself more than him.
Before going to bed at night and as soon as you wake up in the morning. Compliment me!
Have you ever felt like you can't stop crying when you wake up in the morning and before you go to bed at night because the memories keep coming back to you after you've lost your love?
At times like these, I want you to feel good about yourself before you start thinking things like, "I guess we've already broken up," or "I wonder if I'll never see that person again."
“It was fun to fall in love with her so much, and I was so cute.”
"I'm so cute that I love my partner so much that I think about him even at night."
“I am truly blessed to have had such a wonderful love life.”
"I'm too cute to be trying to overcome everything after a heartbreak."
Even an unreasonable compliment is fine. Please tell yourself that ``I am truly irreplaceable.''
So, if you feel like「I loved him/her more than myself. and then, please try to think of yourself as a good girl in your heart telling ○○ (your name), I love you.
At this point, even if tears come to your eyes or all sorts of thoughts come to mind, you don't have to think about it too much. All you have to do is praise yourself and enjoy how you feel at that moment.
``Loving yourself'' is the shortest path to becoming ``the person you intended to be.'' I think a lot of people tend to lose touch with that right after a heartbreak. I was. I feel like if I'm missing this point, it's going to be difficult to make my intentions go smoothly, so let's go back to this first.
"I love myself! I love you!"
“Praise yourself!”
Please try this thoroughly. I think you can feel your mood change!
Did you really want to break up?
Subconsciously speaking, you create your reality. Everything that is happening now is caused by you. In other words, you can think of the breakup as something you intentionally caused.
However, this is difficult to accept. I don't think it makes sense when people tell you, and if you can't understand it yourself, there's no point.
But, if I could,
It's so hard to be heartbroken right now. But maybe...'I've always wanted to break up.
I want you to think about this. Even if you break up, you don't have to worry because if you want to get back together, you can.
And at this time, you don't have to think, "Why did I want to break up?" When you start thinking about it, it's all ego, so it's painful and pointless.
Try to accept that your current reality is what it is because of your own efforts. So, if you find yourself thinking, ``I don't want to continue this anymore'' (I want to get back together after breaking up), all you have to do is make that intention again.
Just thinking about the next development
Once you've planned for the next development, all that's left is for it to come true...or rather, once you've intended it, it's already come true. Congratulations!
Heartbreak is an opportunity to love yourself. This is our greatest chance to create a brighter future.
Make yourself more wonderful and aim for a wonderful love! Your love life will be 100% successful!
However, when things are really tough, I think it's a good idea to rely on fortune telling or counseling. However, if you rely on it a little too much, you might end up going in a different direction, so I've put together a video about that. Please come when you have time!
