【Series: Questions from All of You, Part 8】I want to get back together with him, but is it okay to contact him?

From H

In reality, he decided to ignore it.
I have stopped trying to reach out to him in real life by email, LINE, or contacting him.
But his birthday is coming up soon.

When I asked him about it recently, he seemed to have just changed jobs.
I think he might be under a lot of stress,
He wants to convey his feelings of support.
Can I contact you to wish you a happy birthday or send you a present?
Or is it better not to contact them anymore?

When you've decided to ignore reality, is it still a bad idea to reach out?

The subconscious mind says, ``Because you think so, it will happen''.
Therefore, if you want to realize your desire subconsciously, just think.

And I always tell people in my videos and blogs to just cherish the thoughts you have decided on and be the person you want to be from ``right now.''

So, first of all, if you want to be in love with him, decide to be in love with him.
And even if you can't contact him right now, even if he's blocking you on LINE, or if you've heard rumors that he has a new girlfriend, just ignore everything. ``Right now,'' I am in love with him.

I also encourage you to drink some delicious coffee and enjoy the happiness that is right in front of you.

So, first, ``decide on your thoughts.'' I want you to do this first.

I've made up my mind about my feelings, but I want to contact him. Is it okay to do so?"

"I've made up my mind. I'm already so in love with him!

 

My birthday is coming up, and I also want to reach out for Christmas. I'd love to wish him a Happy New Year during the year-end holidays.

If I were the loving and affectionate me, should I just go ahead and contact him? Is it okay?"

After deciding on your feelings, some people, like the person in this situation, may still have doubts. In conclusion, it's entirely up to you whether you choose to contact him or not.

Once you've made up your mind, the principle of "thinking it makes it so" remains unchanged.

Whether you decide to reach out or not, it doesn't affect this principle. So, if you really want to send a quick message or wish him well, go ahead and do it.

However, consider a scenario where you send a message, but it goes unread or ignored, or if you send a gift, and it's returned unopened. How would you react in such situations? Would your ego surge with overwhelming emotions?"

In this case, it might indeed be challenging to maintain the mindset of "having decided on your feelings" and "being the person who has already achieved what you desire."

No matter how he reacts, will you be able to be yourself?

Once you've decided on your feelings, whether to contact him or not is entirely up to you. However, the crucial point is what comes after that.

If you find yourself waiting for his reaction after contacting him and getting emotionally affected by his response, it might be better not to contact him.

If you end up being swayed by his reactions, overthinking, and feeling anxious, you're not really "deciding on your feelings" anymore; you're just fixating on and getting affected by the reality.

That said, if you hear rumors that he's stressed or going through a tough time, it's natural to want to do something.

In my personal opinion, even in that case, I would trust him and just watch over him from a distance. So, I wouldn't contact him.

Once you've set your desire for manifestation in your subconscious, the process is entirely in its hands. Whether it's your birthday, Christmas, or any other occasion, it's more important to prioritize keeping yourself happy rather than taking any specific actions.

If you've decided on your feelings, he will start contacting you proactively. But even then, if you ever feel anxious, it's okay to seek guidance from fortune-telling or other sources and let your feelings out. Just be sure not to let it affect you too much!