Hello. This is Iruru.
Today, I would like to share some of the questions I received on the consultation form that I thought would be helpful to many people.
(The content of the question has been changed as appropriate to the extent that individuals are not identified)
T
``I want to get back together, but it was a terrible breakup, so I'm not sure if we can actually get back together.``If you think so, then it will happen'' and that's all you have to do. 'Can you figure it out yourself?'
It's just because I think so. Once you decide, it will happen
I think this is the first question that comes to mind when you start learning about the subconscious mind.
There was a time when I felt this way too, so I totally understand.
In Home♡Ren, there is only one thing you can do to use your subconscious mind to quickly get back together and be in love with him♡.
“Because I think so, it will happen.” That's all I always say.
There are no exceptions to that! end.
However, many people seem to be wondering, "What does it mean to just decide? What should I do?"
For example,
Buy a nice notebook to write down your wishes, write your thoughts, and you're good to go!"
“Once you have decided on your thoughts, write them down on paper and post them where you can see them often!”
I'm sure there are some people who would recommend something like that, but Home♡Ren doesn't particularly recommend anything like that.
Of course, you can do that if you want to. But you don't have to.
Ego says, “Just making a decision won’t make it come true.”
Really, just decide. decided! If you think so, that's it.
So what do you think? Isn't your ego in trouble?
That's right, my ego, which had been complaining about anxiety all this time, now has nothing to do, so I have some free time.
"There's no way it'll come true just like that. If you stay like that, it'll never come true."
I might even start muttering something like that.
Mr. T this time also became one with that ego,You may have come to us thinking, ``Maybe I haven't made up my mind yet, so how can I make a decision?''
But really, once you decide, it's over. You don't have to do anything, and you don't have to listen to unnecessary ego whispers.
Once you decide, it's already come true. I want you to try being the person you want to be.
If you start comparing each one with reality, you'll end up thinking, ``It's not good yet, when will it come true?''
Please ignore the reality and value the thoughts you have decided on.
Use the time you have free time to do something for yourself
So, if there's something I recommend doing during that time, it's to use that free time to deepen your self-love. (This doesn't mean you have to love yourself!)
I want you to use the time you spent worrying about your future with him and worrying about it to heal yourself.
If you do this, you will be able to do things, your ego will become harder to hear, and by deepening your self-love, you will become more aware of what you want.(However, it is not a must!)
Sharing a personal experience with Iruru, the first time I felt like I was able to deepen my self-love was when I went on a solo trip.
I highly recommend traveling alone and enjoying it to the fullest!
Traveling is better than just being alone because it allows you to get away from everyday life.
And since there's no one else around, I can only talk to myself. At that time, I want you to say words that heal yourself, not words that bully you.
Even if it's not a trip, you can go to a shrine, your favorite cafe, or anywhere you can relax and change your mood.
I don't care about how others see me anymore, I want them to be proud of themselves for being able to take care of themselves.
In the meantime, even if his ego comes out again, he's able to pass from right to left, and before you know it, he's back.
Once you've decided, it's OK.
After that, don't compare it to reality every time, and cherish your thoughts more than anything else!
