In this series, we will answer questions from LoveSync Attraction blog readers and YouTube viewers by picking out the questions that we think will be helpful to many people. (The content of the question has been changed as appropriate to the extent that individuals are not identified)
Hello, I'm Iruru.
I believe that there are various circumstances and paths leading up to the point where someone has a desire and decides to manifest it through their subconscious mind. Some individuals may find it challenging to discuss their efforts to utilize their subconscious with others.
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I have been in love with someone for three years now. I've been continuously thinking about using my subconscious to become deeply in love with him. I've been exploring various blogs and YouTube channels about it, but it seems that my thoughts alone aren't manifesting in reality. I don't have anyone around to discuss my thoughts about the subconscious, so I would greatly appreciate any advice.
You can't talk to anyone about my subconscious! ?
While reading the consultation,
- There's no one to talk to about the subconscious.
- There's no one to consult.
- There's no one who understands.
- I can't discuss this with anyone.
Many people often include phrases like these in their consultations:
Some individuals believe they can't consult others due to the lack of interest in topics like the subconscious or spirituality among those around them.
Additionally, people who have had unfulfilled desires for years, such as wanting to make one-sided love come true or get back together with an ex-partner, might fear that if they seek advice, they'll be told, "Maybe you should just give up by now?" This perception makes it "difficult to consult" anyone.
Furthermore, when the desired romantic relationship involves complex situations like infidelity, people may also find it "difficult to consult" others.
You arein an ego that doesn't come true
The law of manifestation through the subconscious is as simple as "you become what you believe." If you believe in being "madly in love with him," then you will become "madly in love with him."
When it comes to seeking advice, regardless of the situation, one's past, or what the current person of interest may say, there are no levels of difficulty in achieving your desires from the perspective of manifestation through the subconscious.
Whether a desire is perceived as "difficult to attain" or "easy to attain" doesn't matter. Any desire can be achieved by merely thinking about it. If you ever find yourself feeling that a desire is hard to achieve, it's because you have decided so yourself.
After making up your mind, if you still feel troubled, then 99.9% of that trouble is your ego.
It's best to ignore it. The ego thrives on generating problems, so if you keep trying to solve ego-generated problems, you'll only end up with more confusion and feed into the ego's cycle. It's like falling into the trap of the ego's own making.
So, the ego keeps popping up one after another, and you find yourself struggling in a state buried under the "unachievable ego.
Therefore, even if you're feeling puzzled, all you need to do is ignore it. However, when you become one with the ego, it's hard to tell which part is the ego, and even if you decide to ignore it, you may find yourself feeling confused again shortly afterward.
Even when seeking advice, you may also be influenced or swayed by the opinions of others.
If you are someone who can talk to others on a regular basis, I recommend talking to a close friend and trying to clear your mind by trying to get the output out of your head. I think it's better to choose your partner. This is because you can be influenced by the person you consult with.
Even if the other person is very kind to you, their opinion is so strong and absolute that even if you think it contradicts your own thoughts, you may think, maybe it's right because this person said it.'' It's easy to get carried away.
I think it's better to write down your true feelings in a notebook and organize them, rather than being influenced by others and becoming confused.
Just write it down in a notebook anyway.
Some of the people who consult us through LoveSync Attraction's consultation form write and send their own consultation, and then read it back in the automatic reply email and realize, ``Huh? This is all ego!'' There are some people who say, "I solved it myself."
This is where the notebook is useful. By writing it yourself, you can see your true feelings and solve the problem yourself.
When writing in your notebook as an output of your thoughts, we recommend that you write down as many words as they come to mind, even if they are full of contradictions, such as ``I love him'' or ``I hate him.''
There's nothing you shouldn't write, so just write whatever words come to mind, even if it's just your ego. I think it's okay to set a time to concentrate on writing for just 3 minutes. Name it ``Output for just 3 minutes at once!'' For example, I would write it out like this.
- I've been in love with him for 3 years already.
- We dated once during that time, and we broke up at the end of last year. It was sad.
- I wonder if he doesn't like me anymore.
- On social media, he seems to be working hard and having fun.
- I should work hard too.
- His birthday is coming up soon.
- I wanted to celebrate it with him.
- He definitely still likes me, right?
- He was really happy with my birthday celebration last year.
- Could he be celebrating it with another girl this year?
- Sending a gift might be too much.
- There's a new series of the Netflix show we used to watch together. I'd love to watch it with him again.
- My room is messy because I've been busy with work on weekdays. I should clean it.
- Who is the girl in the photos on his social media? They seem close.
- I want to get back together with him.
- I'm anxious about whether it's possible, but I want to get back together.
- Is the subconscious mind really that mysterious?
- It's so suspicious that I can't tell anyone.
- I want to be lovey-dovey with him!
Just write like this and get everything out. You don't need to worry about consistency in your notebook, just write down your current thoughts. After finishing, take a deep breath and read it again.
When you do this, you might realize:
- "Wait, I thought he liked that girl in the photos, but maybe that's just my assumption."
- "The thought that it might not work out could be coming from my anxiety, from my ego."
- "Upon rereading, I was more focused on the idea of it not working out than on the idea of it working out!"
Some people might notice they are intertwined with their ego when their mind is in turmoil. This can be an effective method for those who tend to overthink to distance themselves from their ego. If you often find yourself with a clouded mind, give it a try.
However, it's important to note that writing in a notebook doesn't guarantee your wishes will come true. The subconscious mind operates on the principle of "what you think, you become." Just remember, as long as you keep the thought of being "lovey-dovey with him," you're on the right track.
