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The explanation for the video I'd like to discuss this time can be found here! "Does It Make a Difference Whether You Contact Them or Not?"
Whether or not you should initiate contact - it's something that a lot of people are concerned about, isn't it? This time, in the blog, I'm thinking about digging deeper into the topic of "contact from the other person" from a different perspective!
- Does the presence or absence of contact have a bearing on whether or not they can get back together?
- Even if we keep in touch every day, when it's time to break up, we'll break up!
- "I'll wait for you to contact me. Please don't make me anxious?" is a serious question.
- Whether we contact him or not, he loves me
- If you subconsciously check whether there is contact or not...?
Does the presence or absence of contact have a bearing on whether or not they can get back together?
People say that whether or not they communicate with each other is a big barometer for getting back together.
If you contact me, everything will be fine
If you don't hear from me, the road will be long.
Why？？？
The more often you contact us, the more loved you are.
What?
Why why why lol?
Are you serious?
Then why did you break up with him?
We should have been in touch, right?
What…？
I said it's not just about contact or not lol
So, it doesn't matter whether there is contact or not?
be?
Do not have?
Even if we keep in touch every day, when it's time to break up, we'll break up!
Let's think about this in a very normal and calm manner for a moment.
Aren't there a lot of people who break up with you even if you keep in touch every day?
At least for Meguru, her past boyfriends were ``people who contacted me every day,'' but they broke up.
Being in touch = being liked = feeling safe
Even if we keep in touch every day, when we break up, we break up.
You should know this fact, but why do you ignore it?
Being in contact = being liked
In contact = loved
Why do I have to pull this diagram out?
Simply put, isn't it because you want to feel safe?
If you keep in touch, it means that you are loved, so you can rest assured.
Yeah, that's very plausible.
But if you look at it from the other side,
If we don't communicate regularly, we won't feel safe.
It will be.
Isn't it tiring?
As soon as I stopped being sober, I became filled with anxiety,
I'm constantly thinking about whether I'll get in touch or not.
In the first place, when things are going well, don't you often hear from someone when you have something to do?
I'm sure there are days when I call because I want to hear your voice, but it's more casual than that.
"Meguru! What would you like for dinner tonight?"
“Let’s go eat somewhere!”
“Where should we do it?”
“Isn’t that shop nice?”
"That's great. I'm still at work, so could you please make a reservation for Meguru?"
"Okay" "I made a reservation!"
"thanks!"
"It's amazing. I'm really looking forward to it."
"Yeah, yeah. Later."
"Yes. Good luck with your work."
“Meguru Monet.”
I think there are a lot of people who communicate with each other during daily fun errands. I think so, but what do you think?
"I'll wait for you to contact me. Please don't make me anxious?" is a serious question.
Once I become like ``I'm waiting for a call'', whether it's coming or not, when I don't hear back, I become more and more anxious and explode.
To him who finally contacted me
"I was worried."
"Huh? Why? Sorry."
"Why not? Just call me like before. I'm worried that you're busy with work."
"..."
"To contact you, just press a button on your smartphone."
"oh dear……"
"I'm the type of person who gets anxious when I don't hear from you. I want you to understand that I'm that kind of person. At the very least, when I'm on a business trip, I want someone to let me know that I've arrived. I think that's normal for lovers..."
Well, even writing this is getting heavy...
If you say this, I feel like you'll lose the desire to contact me even more.
In this case, whether you say it in a strong tone, gently, or sadly, you are doing the same thing.
Why don't you take care of me?
Why don't you make me your priority?
That's what I'm screaming inside.
Why don't you take care of me?
Why don't you make me your priority?
The answer is simple. I say it myself.
Why don't you take care of me?
Why don't you make me your priority?
I'm not saying this to the other person.
That's what I'm saying to myself.
There's a part of me that's furious, thinking, ``He, him, him,'' for how long he's neglecting me (angry!!!).
So, if you take care of yourself, you can easily solve the problem.
Whether we contact him or not, he loves me
Well, this is a bit off topic, but I personally don't recommend using the presence or absence of contact as a barometer of love.
As I wrote earlier, it's good when you hear from someone, but when you don't hear from them, it just adds to your anxiety and makes it hard to understand.
Rather than that,
Whether we contact him or not, he loves me
Isn't it better?
Furthermore,
I am loved by him
Isn't it better just to do it?
It's a hassle to contact each other.
If you subconsciously check whether there is contact or not...?
So, what happens if you check from your subconscious mind whether there is contact or not?
Even if you contact me
Even if I don't hear from you
The result is the same.
What? Is it true?
You think it would be easier to get back together if he contacted you.
No, it doesn't matter.
Because the subconscious mind
“Because I think so, it will happen”, right?
“I think I’m in love with him, so I’m in love with him.”
It's just a simple rule.
So, this is "myself after getting back together with him", right?
After all, "I'm in love with him" means that we're getting along well after we've gotten back together, right?
In other words, this is a "way of being."
How do I want to be?
I often tell people to decide on that.
If you set it up to be a very lovey-dovey person, it's already ``that's who I am.''
The reality that appears to be inconvenient that is unfolding in front of our eyes right now is a world that has no relation to ``the me that I am.''
Even if there is contact or no contact going on in an unrelated world, it has no effect because it is unrelated.
That's what it feels like.
Oh, and I don't mind if you set "that's me" to "me who gets in touch" instead of "me who's happy and in love with him"...
I think you should think about whether your "way of being" is just "getting in touch."
Isn't contact included in "I'm happy and in love"?
In the video, I will tell you from a different perspective, so if you are interested, please check it out♡
Meguru♡
Whether you contact us or not, the result will not change!
