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That's why I often once again explain the basics of subconscious desire fulfillment: ``Because I think so, it will happen''.
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When I think about where everyone has stumbled so far, I realize that the phrase 「reality is unmoved」 comes up quite often.
So, in this blog, let's talk about reality. People often struggle with "I've set my intentions, but reality hasn't changed," or "I've decided to be in a loving relationship with him, but..." and they fret because it seems like reality hasn't shifted. Many people grapple with issues related to "reality."
But……。
You know what?
If you think about it from the perspective of realizing your subconscious desires, isn't it important to separate "thoughts" from "reality"?
It's a basic thing, but I'd like to go back to basics and review "reality", which is the biggest obstacle (I just feel like it) that stands in my way! !
The fulfillment of desires through the subconscious mind is all about thoughts first, thoughts first, and thoughts first!
Subconscious desire fulfillment is ``because I think so, it will happen''.
Applying this to love, Because you think you are in love with him, so you are in love with him.
That's why in LoveSync Attraction, we've been emphasizing all along that once you've decided on thoughts like "being lovey-dovey with him," you simply entrust the rest to your subconscious mind.
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Thought is ahead.
Reality is after.
Because "thoughts" come first, you start by deciding on thoughts like "being lovey-dovey with him."
If you want to be lovey-dovey with him, you consider the kind of relationship and connection you want to have with yourself and him, taking the perspective of "what if things are already going well." This becomes your "thought."
Once you've decided on your "thought," that's it! You let it go and, as a result, it eventually manifests in your reality, following the principle of "what you think, you become."
The key is “as a result”.
I'll say it again and again: the fulfillment of desires through the subconscious is "what you think, you become." "Thoughts come first."
Because I think I'm in love with him (my thoughts come first)
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Be in love with him (in reality, later)
As a result, it is reflected in reality.
However, many people are doing "thinking to make it reflected in reality" instead of just deciding on "thinking" itself.
To change the reality of not being in a loving relationship with him: ↓ Decide to be in a loving relationship with him in your thoughts (set the intention). ↓ Keep an eye on whether you have become lovingly involved with him or not.
In the first place, starting point is reality, right?
It's not thought.
If the starting point is "reality," I guess that we just want to somehow change the hopeless "reality" right?
In this situation, even after 3 days, 1 week, or even 1 month has passed, if it still doesn't seem to be reflected in reality, you may find yourself worrying about the seemingly unchangeable "reality," wondering, "Why is this happening?" "Am I doing something wrong?" "What should I do?"
Isn't the "cold boyfriend'' in "reality'' more true than the "lovey-dovey boyfriend'' in "thoughts''?
This relates to the question of which is the truth between "thoughts" and "reality." Saying, "I've decided my thoughts, but the real him is..." for an extended period is a way of focusing on the current reality, which may not align with your desired thoughts.
Can we say that the ``cold boyfriend'' in ``reality'' is more true than the ``lovey-dovey boyfriend'' in ``thoughts''
After deciding your "thoughts," you don't need to align or reconcile them with the "reality" of the person.
After all, that "reality" is simply a reflection of something you once thought or felt somewhere, sometime. Trying to change that "reality" is like trying to change the reflection of yourself in a mirror. If you think the reflection in the mirror lacks a smile, then unless the original you genuinely smiles, the reflection in the mirror won't smile no matter how long you wait, will it?
If you leave it to others, your wishes will come true as a result.
Decide on the "thought" of being deeply in love with him without concerning yourself with that "reality."
At that moment, you are doing well, aren't you? After all, you are deciding on that "thought" with the consciousness that things are already going well, so it must be going incredibly well, right?
And that's perfectly fine, isn't it?
Please cherish your thought.
When you decide on being "deeply in love with him," at that moment, you are already doing well.
It may be challenging to accept initially when you are told to decide on this "thought" and not concern yourself with the reality. After all, you've been assessing whether things are going well based on his words, actions, and circumstances up until now.
However, all you need to do is decide on that "thought." There's nothing else to do. Leave the rest to external forces!
It's truly fascinating that when you leave it to external forces, you stop being bothered by the reality. And, as a result, your desires mysteriously come true.
By letting go of the attitude of fixating on reality, reality will come closer to you.
It's a paradox, but it's really true. Therefore, continuously talking about reality is futile. It's a waste to start from the "thought" and quickly become focused only on the "reality"!
Meguru♡
