♡ “Abandoning judgment” is directly linked to realization

It was Space New Year's Day.
How was your day? ^^

Meguru went to visit the equinox with her family.

This year's Cosmic New Year's Day, the Ascendant is in Cancer.
Cancer = family.

Family.

Friends who are like family.

Partnership.

This will become extremely important in 2020.

Meguru is friends with someone who knows so much about astrology that he gets a super rating, so he can teach me a lot of things lol

Well, since it's Space New Year's Day, I want to upload something. (While I was thinking about it, the next day)

Then, I suddenly thought, "What is it that prevents it from becoming a reality?"

Meguru believes that the biggest reason is "excessive thinking."
To be honest, if you can stop the (cheesy) thoughts that are flowing through you even at this very moment, it will directly lead to realization.

But don't you think it's a little easier to understand? I thought.

there was.

stop all judgment

This time I would like to write about it.

Let's start!

Due to unnecessary thoughts, I am locked into the “me who has not gotten back together

I'm happy to be living a loving life with Taro-kun (reunited)! When you make a decision, all the thoughts that come after the “but” instantly come out.

Well, it goes something like this, after the "but" comes the grievances he felt in the past and his worries about the future.

Do you know how unnecessary the part after that “but” is?

Like that way,

By attaching things from the past and future one by one, I keep locking myself into the ``me who hasn't gotten back together.''

Even though I have decided to "get back together," I'm locked into "not getting back together."

Don't you think it's ridiculous that you're so busy pretending to do the exact opposite?

There's no need to keep rowing on a wheel that won't get back together, like a hamster running around on a wheel endlessly.

Then,

This state of ``thought'' is caused by ``judgment one by one'' in the first place.

I protect myself by making decisions.

First of all, why would you make a judgment?

Not just about getting back together, but about everyday things.

The judgments that we unconsciously sift through.

Why is it necessary?

→There's no guarantee that he'll cheat on you again, so why would you make that judgment?

→ Taro-kun may have a growing desire to get married, or maybe he will no longer have any desire to get married, so why are you making a one-sided decision?

→

→Why do we judge indecision as ``good'' or ``bad''?

Meguru thinks that by making judgments, he is ``protecting himself.''

It's better not to get close to bad people, and if you're around people who do wrong things, your vibration will likely drop, and bad people tend to gather around bad people.

In the sense of protecting yourself, I feel that making decisions is very important. Well, that makes sense.

But,

That

When you get down to it, it's highly likely that you're basing your judgment on an impossibly narrow fragment.

★When a parent happened to have a bug in the wrong place, he said, ``You can't do it!'' and I took it with a grain of salt.

★When your boyfriend strongly said, "You're right!", you input it as "That's right."

★When a teacher tells you, ``Everyone is doing ●● too,'' they interpret it as ``Everyone (the majority)'s good = right.''

Narrow narrow.

For some reason, I tend to view and judge everything within a very narrow category as if it were my absolute authority in the world.

Moreover, it is.

It's pretty bad, no, it's pretty bad lol

Naturally, she would behave in the same way towards her beloved boyfriend.

If he does something that you think is ``good,'' ``right,'' or ``○,'' you smile, and if he does something that you think is ``bad,'' ``wrong,'' or ``x,'' you try to correct him. You'll start to take control.

"If it doesn't go my way, forgive me." That's how it goes.

If I feel even the slightest bit of that kind of attitude, I'll run away as fast as I can.

After all, what you say is ``bad,'' ``wrong,'' or ``x'' might mean Meguru's ``good,'' ``right,'' or ``〇

Without judgment, the reality is neutral

So、don't judge.

This is the strongest.

If you don't judge,

“I don’t really know if it’s good or bad.”

"I don't really know if it's right or wrong."

“I’m not sure if it’s 〇 or ×.”

This will be the situation.

Then, for example, when talking about a boyfriend who is indecisive, you might say, ``I thought indecisiveness was bad, but I don't really know if it's good or bad.''

This abandonment of judgment allows you to view everything that happens in reality in a neutral way.

You will be able to see it as just something that is happening.

Isn't it impossible to be fixated or attached to ``just what is happening''?

Even if ``he started dating someone else,'' it ``just happened.''
Instantly for something that “just happened”
"The fact that we're dating means I'm no good anymore."
"The fact that we're dating means you like her more than me."
"If we're dating, maybe we'll get married."

and,

Those troublesome thoughts creep in like a new virus! ! ! !！！

That thought is what is being thrown away. It's something you don't need.

Look at the roadside trees.

Have you ever looked at a street tree and thought, "He likes her more?" ? ? ?
But it is not? ? ? ?(Say it’s not lol!!)

There may be some people who think that by forcing themselves to think in relation to each other, a street tree = the tree lined street where they walked with their boyfriend = breaking up = having a girlfriend = no more, but if you don't forcefully use your thoughts, it will turn from just a street tree to ``with him''. Even if I wanted to, I wouldn't be able to say, "No more."

Now you can see how ridiculous that decision is! (wow)

Generally speaking, “that judgment” is

If you think about it that way, you'll probably understand that your "judgment" is actually influenced by your own narrow and biased thinking.

If you abandon judgment and look at it neutrally,

I was the only one complicating things.

I realized this shocking fact.

 

If you live in a neutral world, it is natural for a simple world to unfold.

(However, if you dig deeper into this, you'll end up being conditioned to think, ``If you stay neutral, things will come true,'' so I'll leave it here.)

 

Well, the video below is about Meguru's experience.

In the world of “if you think it, it will happen”, Odeta Meguru happens to be

“If you fall in love with someone, the other person will also love you 100%.”

The story is that the setting was set and it was simply applied. What I'm trying to say here is that once you make a decision, there's no need to waver.