Hello.
It’s been a while since I last saw Meguru.
Congratulations on surpassing 5000 subscribers on YouTube! Thank you.
While it's not exactly a celebration for reaching 5000 subscribers, I thought it might be a good time to write about the keyword I've been circling around lately, "his affection＾＾
You can't believe that he likes you?
From observing various inquiries, if I were to sum up the root cause of many anxieties in one word, it would be uncertainty.
I don't know if he likes me.
If you can think that he loves you from the bottom of your heart,
Whether there is contact or not,
Even if there will be a period of time when we won't be able to meet
you won't care at all.
Because you love him no matter what happens.
Conversely
I'm concerned about whether or not I'll be contacted.
care about how often we meet
I think it means that you are not sure if he loves you or not.
At this point, some people may be thinking, ``If only he told me that he loves me, I would feel at ease...
No, please wait a moment.
Do you really feel safe? ?
Even if he were to say, ``I love you,'' I don't think it would be so easy to conclude that ``he likes me.''
“I was told that I love you, but anyone can say that they love me.”
"You said you liked me, but it was just for a while. What if I get tired of it soon?"
"You said you liked me, but your attitude doesn't seem like that. If you liked me, you'd probably show more of an attitude."
etc.
Even if someone says, ``I love you,'' there is a side of me that doesn't honestly admit that ``I love you.''
I'm sure there are some people who say, ``I don't doubt that!'' but I think there are many people who doubt that.
This means that deep down in my heart, you don't know how long he will continue to love you. I think it's because you have doubts that he loves you.
My ego goes wild because I can't believe that he loves me.
Some people who have broken up with their boyfriend but want to get back together may feel like, ``I don't know what he's thinking or thinking, so I'm even more anxious.''
The more time passes, the more you feel like he's going away, and the more he's drifting away from you = the less he likes you.
When that kind of psychology works, bad delusions will never stop.
If you don't hold it together somehow, you'll never be able to take it back.
If I don't contact you somehow, if I don't listen to your voice, I'll really be in trouble.
I want to see if I like myself even a little bit, and if there is even a slight possibility that I can start over again.
As I write this, I start thinking endlessly while feeling overwhelmed by the feeling of exhaustion, and the more I think about it, the more I feel like I can't stop myself from rushing towards something worse.
It's truly a runaway ego.
Well, if you get down to it, I feel it's because you don't believe that he loves you at all.
It's natural that you don't think he loves you, because we're breaking up now.
Is it true?
However, as I've said before, even if your boyfriend says "I love you" when you're dating, you may have a hard time admitting that "he likes you."
He doubted more and more that he had messed it up.
When I think about it, I think that whether we're dating or not, somewhere down the line I'm always worried about him liking me.
His love for you is always 100%!
Honestly, how much do you think he loves you?
We're separated, but 80%?
50% because I have a new girlfriend?
30% because we haven't heard from each other?
Almost no pulse, 0%? ?
Is his love just that?
Is it okay for you?
If it's 30% because we haven't heard from each other, will it become 100% if we get back together?
really?
Isn't it possible that you're 100% at one point, but soon you're not sure if he likes you or not, and you can easily drop to around 30% even though you haven't lost touch?
I want to make a clear statement here.
His love index for you is always 100%! !
He has decided that he likes me.
Isn't that supposed to be the case?
That's how it should be.
It won't start unless you think, "He loves me!"
The reason why it should be so is
When do you feel from the bottom of your heart that he likes you?
If you think about it, you'll understand right away.
There is only one answer when it comes to "when".
When you admit it.
In short,
When you admit, “He likes me!
A world develops where you think, ``He likes me.'
This ultimately leads to the subconscious saying, ``Because I think so, it will happen.''
The subconscious mind says, “Because I think so, it will happen.
If we apply this to love, it would be, ``I think I'm in love with him, so I'm in love with him.'
And the person who "thinks so" is "me".
“I think so.”
What do you believe?
This is the most important of all.
He loves me and I believe
What happens if you think, ``He loves me''?
If you think he likes you, the world in which you think he likes you'' will just expand, right?
This is a story that has nothing to do with whether we are currently dating or broke up.
``I think (I think he likes me)'' is complete when you admit it. end. that's all. That's right.
Going back to the example I gave earlier,He said "I love you".
``Wow, he loves me,'' he thought. he admitted.
I didn't realize this just because he told me he loves me.
It was only when I admitted that ``he likes me'' that I realized it.
That's why even when he says he loves me, sometimes I don't really feel it.
Do I really like him because I haven't admitted that he likes me? I have doubts.
The key is, "What do you think?"
This has a big impact.
It's up to him to decide how he feels.
Only he knows how he feels?
But still, he can make his own decisions.
After all, no matter how much he tells you he loves you, if you say, ``I didn't think so (I don't think he likes me)'' then that's just going to happen.
On the other hand, no matter how cold it may seem that he treats you, it will only become more so if you say, ``I didn't think so (I kept thinking that he was already in love with me, etc.).''
He loves you
Love is always 100%.
In the end, it's only you who won't accept that.
