♡What kind of me am I now?

I've had a crush on someone at work for about three years, but I can't seem to get him to reciprocate.''

The other day, I received this advice from a woman.
Three years?

Three years seems like a long time if you just look at the numbers...
Me too, once I fell in love with someone, it took a very long time, and when I dumped him, I dragged it out for several years (long).

I also understand that advice like "move on to the next one quickly" is pointless.

Her story continues.

I see.
You can feel her sadness.

What advice did I give at this time?

What kind of me am I now.

This time, I will tell you about this story.

If you are currently feeling confused about unrequited love, or if you are lamenting that no matter how you think about it, you are stuck in all directions, please read this book.
There's no need to give up ♡

Every day, every moment, your dreams come true!

Because I think so, it will happen.

Do you know this rule?

This is exactly what I'm saying, but I think it's easier to convey the message if you say, "Because I think so, that's how it becomes in reality."

Every day, we wake up in the morning, do what we want, and go to school or work (although some people don't)... so we are aware of the reality that unfolds in front of our eyes each day. You feel alive, don't you?

But actually, it's different.

I go to school or work because I feel like I have to.
I do it because I want to do that job.
On the way home, I thought I'd buy some delicious side dishes from the underground department store, so I decided to do that.

Even the little things that happen on a daily basis, ``I think so, so I do it that way.''

Your thoughts come first.
The reality is later.

Meguru has been involved in various books and has met many famous business executives, psychologists, spiritual authors, and counselors, all of whom have become conscious of the importance of "thoughts come first." In any case, even if it was unconsciously, I felt it, and I thought that he was very good at turning those ``thoughts'' into reality.

Your  thoughts come first.
The reality is later.

I'm sure there are no exceptions here.

Well,

Reality comes first.
Your thoughts are later.

I think there are a lot of people who think of it "upside down".
For example, like this.

Reality comes first. (You bought coffee)
Your thoughts are later. (It's delicious)

However, in the true sense of "I think so, so it will happen", this is what happens.

Your thoughts come first. (You want to drink coffee)
Reality comes later. (You bought coffee)

So, what happens to the “thought” that made you think “it’s delicious”? That being said, it goes like this.

The feeling of “it was delicious” is what’s important! ! is what I think?
However, if you compare it to the law, it's all about ``because I think so (because I want to drink coffee), and that's how it happens (I bought and drank coffee)'', so the ``delicious'' and ``bad'' things that stick to you after you drink it. That impression is just a reaction.
In other words, if we consider only the rules, this is what happens.

Every day, we experience various emotions such as ``delicious'', ``happy'', and ``annoying'', but these are all ``just reactions'', so according to the law, they are not very important factors.

(According to the law. All you have to do is feel the emotions that come out to the fullest, but that's a great story ♡)

“Because I think so, it will happen” can also be said as “a wish come true”♡
When you hear the phrase “dream come true,” you immediately think of it as something “wonderful” or “irreplaceable.”
If you think of "because I think so, so it will happen" as a law that works from morning till night as long as I'm alive, then it means that "my wishes will come true 24/7."

Just change from ``I'm not doing well'' to ``I'm doing well''!

Let's go back to the story at the beginning of the story about the person who has been in unrequited love for years, but things just don't work out.

If you apply her to "You think so, so it will happen", this is what happens.

"It's hard to get people to look back at me" ⇒ "You think it's hard to get people to look back at you, so that's why."
“It’s always me who gets in touch” ⇒ “You always think it’s you who gets in touch, so that’s what happens.”
“It’s hard to turn friends into lovers” ⇒ “You think it’s hard to turn friends into lovers, so that’s the reality.”
“Sometimes I get lost easily” ⇒ “You feel like I’m going to get lost easily, so that’s what happens.”
“But I can’t give up” ⇒ “You think you can’t give up, so the reality that you can’t give up will come”

The world is so simple! !

In a relationship based on the other person, we believe that the other person's thoughts, words, and actions have a great influence on us, such as ``because of what the other person thinks,'' ``the other person's circumstances,'' or ``the distance between them.'' But it's not.

It's just that I thought so.

A simpler way to express this would be, ``That's what I think.''

“I can’t get people to look back at me” ⇒I can’t get people to look back at me
“It’s always me who gets in touch” ⇒ Me who doesn’t get any calls
“It’s hard to turn from friends to lovers” ⇒ I can’t easily turn into lovers
“Sometimes I get lost too easily” ⇒ Me who gets lost too soon
“But I can’t give up” ⇒ I can’t give up

That's how she set herself up.
It's the law of ``I think so, so it will happen'', so if I continue to think like this, there is a high possibility that I will continue to become ``I can't find a lover because I don't think I can be a lover.''

“Become the best lover and have fun every day” → Change settings now and OK

Well, then what should we do?

The answer is simple.
All you have to do is change the settings.
For example, how about something like this?

「I've become the best lover and I'm having fun every day.」

Yeah. It's so light and nice♡
Eveything is possible.

Please try setting "the you you want to be" ♡

Do you think it can't be that easy?
You can get used to it.

Because I have now realized the ``me'' that I am not.
Once you realize that, your role is over.
Once you realize that, all you have to do is become the person you want to be.

Even if you think, "No, it hasn't happened for a long time, so I can't do it that easily!"
First of all, I would be happy if you could think, ``Maybe it's okay to change easily,'' even if it's just for a moment.

Because it really changes!

Because I think so, it will happen” is also a law of self-sufficiency.
Regardless of the person or environment, if you think about it, it will come true 100% of the time.
So it's only natural that it will come true.
Let's put it into practice ♡

♡Meguru♡