♡My boyfriend, who I had a crush on for 3 years, got married [Love consultation]

The focus was too much on ``before we met'' instead of ``after we met''

Throughout the text, I didn't get the sense that S had a clear vision of what she wanted to do with him after the relationship.

Of course, since I like him, I think there is no doubt that I wanted to hang out with him somehow.

However, rather than seeing how much fun the two of them had together after they started dating,

How can we get along? I felt that the emphasis was on ``until we meet''.

Speaking on that premise,

Originally, if because you think so, it becomes sopen,

So it's complete.

So what's going on with Mr. S?

Aren't you stuck in that endless loop? I thought.

And then I got married.

I think the fact that I'm married is quite a painful situation from an ego perspective, but if I answer from a subconscious perspective, I can say that even when I was in unrequited love, I was still married.

I feel that we can say that I simply realized “I am not doing well.

I'm thinking about him, all of my thoughts are ego

If you can realize the ``me who doesn't go well'', you can also realize the ``me who does well

That's the answer, but I think it's hard to understand if it's just this, so in S's case,

I thought it would be a good idea to keep these things in mind.

First,

■Thoughts are all ego

>My problems are special and not easy.

This is also ego.

The reaction was instantaneous and my heart felt heavy, no matter how I looked at it, it must have been Mr. S's own heart! I'm sure you're thinking that, but I'm not, so first of all, try thinking, ``No matter how you think about it, that's just how I feel, but it might be different.''

And in fact, I think "he got married," but there's no need to add "that's why it doesn't work out.

It says that it's getting complicated, but if it's just ``he got married,'' it should be a simple event (regardless of whether it's good or bad that he got married).

It's the ego that complicates things.

If we assume that the ego is not oneself, then the ego that reacts in various ways, like the one quoted above, honestly doesn't matter and has nothing to do with the real Mr. S.

When a wide-show reporter says to Mr. S, ``It's impossible, since you did that,'' wouldn't you say, ``Huh?''

But when you respond to your ego, you're doing something similar.

「Him over me! ! ! ” Wasn't it?

But... that being said, it's marriage. I totally understand why you feel like it's not the time to say it's just your subconscious mind.

Therefore

■ Use all the time you have to think about him for yourself.

This is because S has had this unrequited love for three years.

“He’s better than me!!”

Isn't that the case?

I'm going to say it out loud here, but Mr. S is the most important person in the universe, more than anything else. I'm not exaggerating.

Just as S attaches various meanings to the fact that ``she got married,'' we assign various meanings and interpretations to the events that happened (good, bad/right, wrong/like, I look at this world by thinking, ``I hate it, I'm happy, I'm sad, something like this has happened before, so it's going to stay like this from now on...''.

In other words, we all see and live our lives the way we want to see them.

Of course, so is S.

Does that mean? S sees the world the way she wants to see it = an original world that is unique to her. If S disappears, the world will end.

In that sense, I wrote that it is the most important existence in the universe, above all else.

And if he thinks that he is more important than Mr. S, who is more important than anything else... the real Mr. S will not forgive that.

In ancient words,

Super pussy

It is lol

S must have been thinking to him, ``Why don't you turn around?'', but that thought was directed directly at herself.

“Why don’t you turn around (to me)?”

Plus,

perhaps there was a side of you that was neglecting the most important part of yourself.

There's no need to use that as material to blame.

I want you to spend some time thinking about him in your own time.

When I think about him, ``I love you!!!'', I think about myself, ``I love you too!!!'' This is a good place to start.

I think about him all the time, and every time I do, my ego says, ``I can't do it anyway!'' However, I want you to leave behind such meaningless nonsense, cut it off, and use it to entertain yourself.

If I don't think about him, it won't happen. No way!

When it's serious, you arepretty sure about that even like

If I don’t think about him, it won’t happen.

That's wrong.

it's just because I'm thinking badly about him, I'm seeing a world that won't come true.

That's why I cut all my thoughts about him. The only person he can beat is himself.

When he suddenly loses his thoughts, he becomes ``free''. That's right, because the things he used to think about all the time are gone. Use all that time for yourself. Whenever I want to drink coffee or go to the movies, I think of him, but it's more about me than anything like that.

He considers himself the best in the universe! Once you start to think about it, you become unmoved, all sorts of things lol

I am here, and in this world, I created the world in which he got married! What does it mean to be married? I am here! There's nothing more amazing than this, hahahaha.

It may not seem like that, but the love you have for yourself will come out.

When that happens, it's very paradoxical, but I don't understand why I was so attached to that person, and I say, ``Poi!'' Something like that is possible lol

Even if that's not the case, I think it will still look good. When you start to think that you're the best, that you're wonderful, it's not too late to think about how you want to be with him. Still, If you still think, ``This is the only person after all,'' then please imagine ``what's next, what's next.''

You had better focus on that instead of “what to do to make things go well”, “what to do after things go well.

This is not particularly difficult either. Any world is filled with Mr. S, so you can truly create freely. What gets in the way of this is the thoughts that come out instantaneously (→Thus, thinking is a strategy to throw away the trash), or the part of me that is being manipulated and can't say, "No matter what anyone says, this is fine!"(→So , self-good strategy).

I am rooting for Mr. S to have a happier and more wonderful day ♡

The video has been updated ♡

I'm sure that whether I'm attached or not, it will come true, but it seems like there are a lot of people who are interested in it, so I uploaded it.

[Part 6. Understand your subconscious mind] If you are attached to it, it will not come true! ?