Hello.
The manuscript for my main job is going crazy.
A different level of busyness! !
But all of a sudden, I felt a mysterious sense of mission, ``I have to write this!'' so I decided to write it down.
Have you ever felt angry or angry at your partner for doing something impossible to you or saying something impossible to you?
This is a story about how, in fact, I might have been the one who did it.
What does it mean!?
Did I make you do something impossible?
A few months ago, a friend asked me about it.
He started talking about breaking up with me, saying, ``I want to be with someone who is definitely old enough to have a child.'' (Angrily)
What?
A wish from someone like that! That's what I think. Well, after that, they ended up getting together and becoming lovey-dovey, so it's strange how men and women get along... As long as she's happy, that's fine with her!
If I think back on it, I have it too.
When I had a fight with the guy I was dating at the time,
I was told that Meguru's work has nothing to do with food, clothing, and shelter!
It really hit me.
It is true that my job of ``creating books'' is not just food, clothing, and shelter, which is directly connected to life.
But I thought, why do you say it that way?
Another guy, when we had a fight, threw the sandwich I had made him for lunch out the window of the car. Too bad! (Anger) I cried and protested.
This was to me, unthinkable things were said to me, impossible things were done to me.
``Something impossible happened to me'' and ``I was cheated on'' are also likely to rank high on the list.
but…….
This is from both a psychological and spiritual perspective.
I made it happen.
It becomes.
If you are currently in the midst of something unpleasant being done or said to you, you may feel extremely uncomfortable, but please just try to think for a moment that ``everything that happens is a reflection of what's in your heart.''
I'm not worthy enough to be subjected to impossible things.
In psychological terms, this is called "projection" or "mirror's law."
The cause of everything that happens in your life is within yourself.
picture? So, what happens when you say, ``I want to be with a child who is old enough to have a child''?
Do you mean that your friends wanted you to be with someone who is old enough to have children?
Hmm, you could also look at it as if somewhere you were thinking, ``I might not be able to have a child,'' or ``What will I do if I can't have a child,'' and then someone told you something that confirmed your fears... Yes, it is.
But if you look at it from a slightly bigger perspective, what if somewhere deep in your heart you feel that ``I'm a person who gets treated badly''...?
According to Miller's Law, things will be said or done to you that will cause you to do something terrible.
It is one of the worst things that a child can say to you, and there are other situations where you can change hands, change products, and get terrible things said to you.
I have some ideas that come to mind.
I thought he was someone who would do terrible things to me.
I felt a lot of mysterious feelings of worthlessness, like, ``I'm worth that much.''
I think the same goes for ``I was cheated on.''
Why do I have to go through this?” → “Am I the type of person who would be treated that badly?”
``I've had terrible things done to me'' was brilliantly proven in the form of ``being cheated on.''
Miller's law is simple.
I believe that this is also connected to the fundamental idea of my life: ``Because I think so, it will happen.''
Because I think I am worthless, things that are suitable for me, who I think I am worthless, will happen.''
I make you do impossible things. Everything is made by myself!
In order for "an impossible thing to be done" to be true, it is necessary to "make someone close to you do an impossible thing."
To put it another way,
In order to make the impossible happen, we make it do the impossible.
In order to fulfill my wish to "do impossible things", there is a me who "makes impossible things happen".
Arerere?
That's right.
This is completely self-produce.
I was attacked! ! I thought so, but actually, I did it! !
There is no opponent there.
That's why it's pointless to try so hard to change the other person at times like this.After all, it's Miller's law.
Take a look in the mirror.
You can see your usual face.
Oops, the area under my nose is itchy.
Please write.
At this time, the person who is trying to change the other person is trying to scratch himself in the mirror.
I won't spend it!
Even though I'm trying really hard, i
t doesn't work! !
It's itchy, don't rub it, it's itchy, don't rub it!
It didn't matter, all I had to do was apply it under my nose.
Unthinkable things were done, impossible things were said! ! Do you understand that people who are angry about this are pointless in trying to change the other person?
If so, what should I do?
I want people to turn their attention to the things within themselves, such as ``I've been treated badly,'' and ``I'm so unworthy that I've been treated badly.''
I'll make you realize, ``I thought you were going to do terrible things to me.''
That's all.
Those thoughts will disappear once they have served their purpose.
There's no way the feeling of worthlessness will go away that easily! You may think so, but it will disappear.
I tried my best to write today's story, but I guess it's a little difficult to get a feel for it.
I would be happy if there is someone who understands ♡
♡Meguru♡
