Hello. This is Meguru.
Most of your consultations on YouTube, blogs, emails, etc, are like below.
I decided to "think" lovey-dovey with him.
But I reality care about the reality after that.
The law of the subconscious mind is that because you think so, you will be so.
Applying this to love, you think you are in love with him, so you are in love with him.
It is very simple.
The "in love with him" part is the "thought.
First of all, "I think.
Without this "thought," there is no beginning, and "thought" is everything.
So, as long as you have the "thought," you can consider "I thought" = "It came true! You can take it as "I thought it" = "It came true!
Because it is something that can be completed within yourself.
It is often said, "I am aware that things are already going well.
But, I think it's not so easy to say. Many people think that goar is
When will this be reflected in reality?
That's why we often receive inquiries from people who say, ``I'm concerned about the reality.''
And that "reality" that you are concerned about is almost always "not good" for you.
If I were to say whether I feel heavy or light, I would say heavy, no matter how you look at it.
But, when I respond to a consultation or commenting on YouTube, I quite often say that.
Use “Is it easy for me?” as your guideline.
I have the impression that many people are not concerned about whether it is "easy" or not.
My impression is that there are many people who neglect this question.
So, let's start this topic!
Does it feel easy to see that status quo?
If you're concerned about "reality," think about this for a minute, but I'm guessing that people who want to get back together rarely "feel better" when they see what he says or does in real life.
Because you broke up with him, right?
Breakup means that the current situation is not favorable for you.
If his social networking site is uploaded, I feel depressed and wonder if he is having a good time without me,
If his SNS is not uploaded, I feel depressed and wonder if he is having so much fun every day that he can't upload his SNS.
No matter what happens, it tends to be interpreted in a negative way.
In this state, you are not a person who has decided to be ``lovey-dovey'' with him, or someone who is aware that things are going well.
Above all, it's not "easy" for you, is it?
When you decide to be "in love with him," you can decide to be "in love with him" without regard to that unfavorable current situation.
So you don't have to involve every single one of those current situations,
But,
Still,
By all means,
I check his social networking sites as if I'm monitoring his movements, if nothing bad happens, I feel relieved that nothing bad has happened, but if something happens, I feel depressed and say, "I knew it, he has a girlfriend! I hate it!" If something happens, they are depressed.
There is no end to the number of such people.
This is like going to find "heaviness" rather than "relief.
You stare at what is not going well, and when you find a glimpse, you grab it with the swiftness of a panther.
He takes the initiative and runs at full speed in the opposite direction of Raku.
No matter how loudly I say, "It's not you,
You say, "Reality hasn't changed at all," and then you get depressed,
You are depressed when you say, "My real-life boyfriend has a girlfriend."
They go out of their way to find the heavier one, and then they go out of their way to rip it off with their bodies.
I don't think this means that they don't understand the power of "getting comfortable" at all. I think.
Getting comfortable” is the same as having an attitude of accepting realization.
Reality is just the current situation.
There's nothing you can do if you stay in a place like that, people who thought, ``Let's be in love with him,'' no matter how much they were worried about the reality at that point,it's easier because you can detach yourself from reality with regardless of that.
Because you just have to be lovey-dovey.
Or rather, once you decide to be lovey-dovey, forget about even deciding to be lovey-dovey,You just have to enjoy your daily life, turning your attention toward what is easy for you.
It's that easy, isn't it?
The state of being "at ease" is the exact opposite of being "feeling heavy" when you are troubled by the realities of life.
You are in love with him, no matter what he is doing in real life,I don't bother to make choices that make me feel heavy.
I'm in love with him, and I'm going to be easy and light every day, so I don't feel the need to be heavy.
I fell in love with him, and every day I became more relaxed and relaxed.
This is, as a result, you are in the position of accepting the realization.
Because you don't care about reality, and you are in a state where I've gotten rid of the ego called unnecessary thinking, so I can see it.
When you tense your shoulders and keep an eye on reality, you end up feeling heavier and heavier.
I don't want it now. I don't want to proceed until I have faced this reality.
To put it in Meguru's sense, the state of being weighed down by keeping an eye on reality is only making it impossible to see it come true.
It's like frosted glass, like fog, a state in which you can't see what you can see because of poor visibility.
I would like to add something here: Even if you feel heavy, angry, or sad, it will come true.
However, if you keep watching the reality and desperately try to prevent it from happening, saying, ``I don't need it to happen because he has a girlfriend right now,'' it becomes difficult to see what you can see.
Somehow, I feel like I'm distancing myself from myself.
Don't underestimate easy things
The easy direction is literally just to go in the direction that makes you feel a little lighter.
Just take in what you think you like, even if it's just a little bit.
What would you like to drink in the morning?
Let's have a good cup of coffee~.
You can start from here.
It's a nice sunny day.
I'm tired, so I go straight home from work and relax at home.
Don't whip yourself, just a little bit, to make it easier.
On days when the ego attacks, the anxiety, fear, and anger are basically through and through.
When it attacks to the point that you can't go through it, you can't go through it.
Sometimes things can become easier by forgiving yourself and saying, ``It's okay to be anxious, it's okay to be scared,'' and ``It's okay to cry because you think it won't come true.''
Like that, I would like you to have the attitude of "To make things a little easier.
If you continue to feel heavy, try moving even just a millimeter away to feel better.
Try making some coffee.
Try out the aroma.
Anything is OK.
If you can feel even just a millimeter that it's easier than before, it's a big victory.
That one millimeter becomes 10 meters, then 1meter, then infinity, You realize, "What the heck. I didn't know it was going to be this easy," he realizes.
Even if you are anxious about him, if you have the time to keep asking unanswered questions about how things will work out and how he can contact you, ask yourself 'I'm always so anxious, always thinking about the past, and I wonder if it's easy for me.'
If it's not easy, try to have the will to go in the direction that is a little easier.
Instead of being immersed in a bottomless swamp that looks like a ditch, try to look in the direction that is a little easier.
It's steady, but, this accumulation of "I, Rakka?" can break free from the spiral of thinking more than necessary, even when the ego, in the name of thought, intervenes.
When you find「Was it really this easy?」,on the contrary, I bet you will think Why did I go through all the trouble of getting covered in scars and walking down a thorny path?
Is it easy for me?”
Is it okay to be so lighthearted?
Regardless of her current situation, she once again realizes, ``Is it okay to just be in love with him?
If it becomes easy, it will come true!
Well, that's not true.
That way, you don't have to push yourself to go in the opposite direction.
Just stay in a place of ease.
It leads to taking care of yourself, surrendering to other forces, and enjoying every day.
I'm sure he'll find himself smiling next to you, too.
Chek also past videos. Steer clear of "Is it easy for you?
