A Woman in Her 30s Who Experienced Two Periods of No Contact Through a Dating App Reveals the Complete Strategy of “Beloved Me” That Led to a Confession

From the Anxiety of Dating App Romance to “Physical Intimacy on the First Date” and Manifestation

“I had a physical relationship with a guy I met on a dating app on our first date… Is it all over now?”

Have you ever felt this kind of anxiety?

Today we’re sharing the love manifestation success story of Y, a woman in her 30s. Despite experiencing two periods of no contact with a long-distance partner she met through a dating app, she ultimately received a confession and her love was fulfilled. Let us share her experience.

Y’s Love Journey: Two Periods of No Contact

From Meeting to the First No Contact

In June 2024, Y met A (pseudonym) on a dating app. Despite the distance—a shinkansen ride apart—he quickly suggested exchanging LINE contact, saying “If it doesn’t work out, you can block me,” which led her to exchange.

When they met for the first time in July, Y ended up in a physical relationship. The anxiety that “if we have a physical relationship before dating, it’s over. Eventually he’ll leave me” constantly haunted her.

Then in September came the first period of no contact. It turned out he had simply dropped his phone, but Y recalls being in an “ego-dominated” state.

Meeting the Subconscious Mind and the Second No Contact

In August, Y discovered ほめ♡レン on YouTube by chance. She thought, “A talking cat? That’s suspicious,” but started watching because her own cat resembled Meguru.

Her favorite videos included:
– “Wait—Don’t Move One Step From the Manifested Place! 2024”
– “It’s Okay! It’s Already Manifested”
– Videos about recognition shifts

In February 2025, she experienced another period of no contact and being blocked on social media. However, by this time she had deepened her understanding of the subconscious mind, and her consciousness had shifted significantly.

The Specific Practice Method Behind “Beloved Me”

Intention (Core Belief): Establishing Clear Settings

Y’s core beliefs were:
– “I’m already dating him”
– “We’re deeply in love”
– “He loves me so much he can’t help it”

In subconscious manifestation, “intention” is the core consciousness that creates reality. Y never wavered from the setting of “I am beloved”—not even one step.

Self-Love: Building the Foundation That Supports “Beloved Me”

Self-love means treasuring yourself, which creates the foundation that makes you more aligned with your “intention.” Y’s self-love was remarkably concrete:

Morning Routine
– Looking at herself in the mirror with her hand on her heart, saying aloud: “Me, good morning. Thank you for today too”
– Before drinking anything: “The universe does incredibly wonderful things for me. Thank you”

Evening Routine
– Writing in her journal: “Me today, you worked hard. Thank you for the day. You did so well. You’re amazing. Everything is working out perfectly. Everything is perfect”

Daily Practices
– Seeing angel numbers and smiling to herself: “He really loves me that much”
– Placing sticky notes throughout her home saying “Welcome home, Marumaru-kun” and “In love with him”
– Wearing a ring on her ring finger
– Purchasing matching chopsticks with him

“Calendar Strategy”: Experiencing Future Happiness Now

Y wrote the following in her monthly calendar:
– “Marumaru-kun suddenly reaches out via LINE—he’s finally back”
– “We got to talk a little bit at night”
– “Marumaru-kun came to visit, we finally met and he confessed to me”

And these things happened exactly as written.

The Moment of Manifestation: “I Wasn’t Even Surprised—Just Thought, ‘Here It Comes’”

In early September 2025, Y made plans to go to an aquarium with a coworker. The aquarium was near his address. Y was having fun “pretending we were already going to the aquarium together.”

The day after she woke from an afternoon nap, a DM from him arrived on her Instagram.

“I wasn’t even surprised. I just thought, ‘Here it comes,’” she recalls.

He said, “I can’t stop thinking about you and needed to reach out.” Their conversation resumed. Two weeks later, he confessed: “Being with you is fun. I don’t want anyone else to take you—let’s date.” Her love was fulfilled.

The Importance of Ignoring Ego (Reasons Why It Won’t Manifest)

In subconscious manifestation, “ego” refers to semi-automatic reactions to events. Y also recalls being “ego-dominated” during the first period of no contact.

Interestingly, Y deliberately avoided watching videos about ego. “It seemed like it would just create an ego festival,” which is why she intentionally selected content that resonated with her.

A Message for Those Struggling with Dating App Romance

Y shares this message:

“I originally loved subconscious manifestation and spirituality, so I’d react to every prediction or reading. But then I realized I could choose what information I wanted to consume. Once I understood that, I started choosing things that lifted my spirits.

Meguru really does say the same thing over and over. ‘You become what you believe you are’ is truly real. It really does happen. You’re all so close. It’s okay.”

Conclusion: Believing It’s Already Working Out

What we can learn from Y’s success story is the importance of staying committed to the belief “I am beloved.”

Whether experiencing no contact, anxiety about physical intimacy before dating, or anything else—remain unwavering in the setting of “he loves me deeply” and “I am beloved.”

As a result, reality unfolded exactly as written on her calendar.

You too are already beloved, just like Y. Decide your intention and remain “beloved me.” That’s all it takes. It’s already working out perfectly.

📺 After experiencing two periods of no contact with a guy she met on a dating app, she stayed committed to “I am beloved” and received a confession—her love was fulfilled!