Can You Relax? This Is the Strongest Way to Receive Your Desires
Hello. This is Meguru.
Most of your questions on YouTube, through this blog, emails, etc., sound like this:
I decided to imagine being lovey-dovey with him.
But I still worry about what’s happening in reality.
The law of the subconscious mind works like this: what you think becomes your reality.
When it comes to love, if you think you’re in a loving relationship with him, then you are.
It really is that simple.
The “loving relationship” part is your “thought.”
First comes the thought: “I think it.”
Without this initial thought, nothing can begin. Your thoughts are everything.
So once you have the thought, you can treat “I thought it” as “It’s already real!” That’s how powerful your inner world is.
This is something you can complete entirely within yourself.
People often say, “I know everything is already working out perfectly.”
But honestly, I think that’s easier said than done. Most people are focused on
When will I see this reflected in my actual life?
That’s why we get so many messages from people saying, “I can’t stop worrying about reality.”
And that “reality” you’re worried about is almost always something that doesn’t feel good to you.
If I had to describe the feeling, it would be heavy—definitely heavy, no matter how you look at it.
But when I respond to consultations or comments on YouTube, I find myself saying this quite often:
Ask yourself: “Does this feel easy for me?” Use that as your compass.
I’ve noticed that many people don’t really consider whether something feels “easy” or not.
It seems like so many people overlook this crucial question.
So let’s dive into this topic!
Does focusing on the current situation feel easy?
If you’re worried about “reality,” think about this for a moment: I’m guessing that people wanting to get back with their ex rarely “feel good” when they see what he’s saying or doing in real life.
After all, you broke up, right?
A breakup means the current situation isn’t working in your favor.
When his social media updates, I get depressed thinking he’s having fun without me.
When his social media goes quiet, I get depressed thinking he’s having so much fun he can’t even post about it.
No matter what happens, you tend to interpret it negatively.
In this state, you’re not someone who has decided to be “lovey-dovey” with him, and you’re definitely not someone who knows things are working out.
Most importantly, this doesn’t feel “easy” for you, does it?
When you decide to be “in love with him,” you can make that choice regardless of any unfavorable current circumstances.
You don’t have to get tangled up in every single detail of what’s happening now.
But somehow,
Despite everything,
People still
check his social media like they’re conducting surveillance. If nothing concerning happens, they feel momentarily relieved, but if something does happen, they spiral into “I knew it! He has a girlfriend! This is awful!”
There’s no end to people caught in this pattern.
This is like actively seeking out “heaviness” instead of relief.
You stare at what’s not going well, and when you spot even a hint of trouble, you pounce on it with lightning speed.
You take charge and sprint full-speed in the opposite direction of ease.
No matter how clearly I say, “That’s not helping you,”
You say, “But reality hasn’t changed at all,” and then sink into depression.
You get depressed saying, “In real life, he has a girlfriend.”
You deliberately seek out the heavier option, and then tear yourself apart with it.
I don’t think this means you don’t understand the power of “getting comfortable” at all.
“Getting comfortable” is the same as being open to receiving what you want
Reality is just your current circumstances.
For people who thought, “Let’s be in love with him,” there’s nothing you can do by staying stuck in that mindset. No matter how worried you were about reality at that moment, it becomes easier because you can detach from current circumstances regardless of what’s happening.
Because all you need to do is be lovey-dovey.
Or better yet, once you decide to be lovey-dovey, forget about even making that decision. Just enjoy your daily life, focusing on what feels easy and light for you.
It really is that simple, isn’t it?
Being “at ease” is the complete opposite of “feeling heavy” when you’re troubled by current circumstances.
When you’re in love with him, regardless of what he’s doing in real life, you don’t bother making choices that make you feel heavy.
You’re in love with him, and you’re going to feel easy and light every day, so there’s no need to choose heaviness.
I fell in love with him, and every day I become more relaxed and at ease.
As a result, you’re in the perfect position to receive what you want.
Because you’re not obsessing over current circumstances, and you’ve released the ego of unnecessary thinking, you can actually see what’s coming.
When you tense up and monitor reality constantly, you just feel heavier and heavier.
I don’t want this to happen yet. I won’t move forward until I’ve dealt with this reality.
In my experience, being weighed down by constantly watching reality only makes it impossible to see your desires manifesting.
It’s like looking through frosted glass or fog—poor visibility that blocks you from seeing what’s actually there.
Let me add something important: Your desires will manifest even when you feel heavy, angry, or sad.
However, if you keep monitoring reality and desperately trying to prevent manifestation by saying, “I don’t want this to happen because he has a girlfriend right now,” it becomes difficult to see what’s actually unfolding.
Somehow, you end up distancing yourself from your own power.
Don’t underestimate the power of ease
The easy direction is literally just moving toward what makes you feel a little lighter.
Simply take in what you enjoy, even if it’s just a small thing.
What would you like to drink this morning?
Let’s make a really good cup of coffee.
You can start right there.
What a beautiful sunny day.
I’m tired, so I’ll head straight home after work and relax.
Don’t push yourself hard—just move a little bit toward what feels easier.
On days when your ego is attacking, the anxiety, fear, and anger can be pretty intense.
When it hits so hard you can’t push through, you simply can’t push through.
Sometimes things get easier by giving yourself permission: “It’s okay to feel anxious, it’s okay to be scared,” and “It’s okay to cry when you think it won’t work out.”
I want you to adopt the attitude of “How can I make this a little easier?”
If you’re feeling heavy, try moving even just a millimeter toward feeling better.
Make some coffee.
Enjoy the aroma.
Anything works.
If you can feel even just a millimeter easier than before, that’s a huge victory.
That one millimeter becomes 10 centimeters, then 1 meter, then infinite, and you realize, “Wait, what? I had no idea it could be this easy.”
Even when you’re anxious about him, instead of spending time asking unanswerable questions about how things will work out and when he’ll contact you, ask yourself: “I’m always so anxious, always thinking about the past—is this easy for me?”
If it’s not easy, choose to move in a direction that feels a little easier.
Instead of sinking into a bottomless swamp, look toward what feels a little lighter.
It’s a gradual process, but this practice of asking “Is this easy for me?” can free you from the spiral of overthinking, even when your ego tries to disguise itself as helpful thinking.
When you discover “Wait, was it really this easy all along?”, I bet you’ll think Why did I put myself through all that pain and walk down such a thorny path?
“Is this easy for me?”
Is it okay to be this lighthearted?
Regardless of current circumstances, you’ll realize again, “Is it okay to just be in love with him?”
If it becomes easy, it will manifest!
Well, that’s not exactly how it works.
But this way, you don’t have to force yourself to go in the opposite direction.
Just stay in that place of ease.
It naturally leads to taking care of yourself, surrendering to something greater, and enjoying each day.
I’m sure you’ll find him smiling right next to you.
Check out my previous videos too. Always steer toward “Is this easy for you?”
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