Reader Questions #24: Are You Ignoring Even the Good Stuff When It Shows Up?

Hello, this is Iruru.

If you want to manifest your desires through the subconscious mind, it’s because “you become what you think.”

Once you’ve decided on thoughts like “being deeply in love with him,” that’s it. Regardless of whatever reality unfolds or whatever ego arises in response to it, just ignore it and stay in the state of your fulfilled self.

This time, things have started happening just as I’ve been envisioning and I’m happy about it. The question now is: how should I handle reality when things are going well like this?

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I decided, “He likes me 100% and thinks about me all the time.”

Then reality started shifting: I got a phone call from him after a long silence, and he started reading my messages again. I was so happy!

• He called me
• He’s reading my messages now

This is also reality, isn’t it?
Is it okay to acknowledge “reality” when it starts moving in your favor?
Is my happiness about this just ego?

We ignore sad realities. What about happy ones?

As I mentioned earlier, I talk about ignoring disappointing realities and the ego reactions they trigger. But what should you do when happy things start happening?

How do you handle it? What do you think?

On this blog, I explain that ego is automatic thinking that judges and interprets everything based on past memories and old beliefs.

Since automatic judging and interpreting is ego, whether you look at reality and feel happy or sad, it’s still ego at work.

However, if you find yourself thinking, “This reality makes me so happy!” and you genuinely feel joy and happiness, then I think it’s perfectly fine to fully enjoy those happy feelings, even if they’re coming from ego.

It’s wonderful to feel happy, but don’t slip back into reality-focused thinking.

It’s absolutely fine to feel happy and excited when these little things start manifesting, but I don’t think you need to count them obsessively or analyze them, thinking “This came true!

That came true too!” I think it’s better to just think “Wow, I’m so happy!” and then let it go.

I know I’d be thrilled if someone who’d been ignoring me suddenly unblocked me and reached out. I’d be over the moon if that happened to me.

But if I focused on it too intensely, even though it was exactly what I wanted to manifest, like “I’m getting calls now,” I’d end up fixating on the process and current reality, which would pull me back into reality-based thinking.

I thought it was all coming true! But in that moment, I caught myself fixating on “reality” again, slipping back into a “reality-focused” mindset. I started worrying about what would happen next, whether I’d get more messages, and I became more focused on current circumstances than on being the version of myself who already has everything I want.

So yes, it’s totally okay to feel happy, but once you’ve felt that joy, it’s best to let it go and return to being the version of yourself who already has your desire fulfilled. What matters most is staying as the person who has already achieved what they want.

No matter what happens, just be who you are!

When a desire manifests through the subconscious mind, it happens because that’s what you’ve decided to think.

Whether reality looks good or bad right now doesn’t matter. What matters is staying true to the decision you’ve made about who you are and what you have.

You can enjoy the happy moments when they come – just don’t let them pull you back into analyzing and strategizing based on current circumstances. Feel the joy, then return to simply being the person who already has everything they want.

That’s the secret: no matter what shows up, good or challenging, just keep being who you’ve decided to be. Your subconscious will handle the rest.

Iruru