【036】Met Him on a Dating App, Got Rejected and Went No Contact → Manifested Love and Started Living Together 5 Months Later

From Rejection and No Contact to Manifested Love

She met him on a dating app and was rejected by him, eventually cutting off contact herself——. We’re sharing the story of T-san (in her 30s), who manifested love and began living together just 5 months later from that situation.

If you’re interested in the subconscious mind and the law of attraction, you probably know how difficult “reconciling with someone who rejected you” can be. Especially when no contact has been established, most people give up.

However, T-san used a unique method of “sending her feelings to the sky,” naturally releasing her attachment in the process. As a result, her ex suddenly reached out to her, they started dating, quickly moved in together, and are now even discussing marriage.

T-san’s Story: From One-Sided Love to Rejection

In March 2022, T-san met him on a dating app. After exchanging messages for about two weeks, they met in person twice.

They shared common interests—baseball games, travel, history, gourmet dining—and the conversation flowed naturally. He asked her many questions, and she felt like “he’s genuinely interested in me.” She was also surprised at how naturally she could be herself despite meeting for the first time.

However, after their second meeting, T-san became convinced that “I’ll definitely get to be with him,” and ended up pushing too hard in a hunter-like mindset, rushing things forward.

As a result, he sent her a LINE message saying, “I don’t think we should date. It was brief, but thank you.” T-san replied immediately and then blocked him, cutting off contact entirely on her own.

The Unique “Sending Feelings to the Sky” Release Method

T-san had a unique method she’d been doing unconsciously for the past four years. It was called “sending feelings to the sky.”

When she developed feelings for someone while working on a ship, she thought, “I hope my love and these warm feelings reach him. When I went out on the ship’s deck, I thought about throwing these feelings into the sea or sky.” She started by throwing her feelings away, thinking “the sky connects us all.”

Even after being rejected, T-san continued using this method to send her warm feelings for him and the ego that bubbled up daily (anxious and attachment-based thoughts) to the sky.

In the world of the subconscious mind, “letting go” is often cited as important, but many people struggle with how to actually do it. However, T-san’s “sending to the sky” method, accompanied by physical action, is a reliable way to truly experience the feeling of releasing.

Two Weeks After Sending Gratitude to the Sky, He Suddenly Contacted Her

T-san felt down for the first three weeks after rejection, but then began dating again. She announced to her parents that she was going to work hard at finding love and met several men through dating events and introductions.

However, each time she’d remember him. Still, not dwelling on the past, she wasn’t matching with anyone, so she decided to register with a marriage consultation service.

At that moment, this feeling arose:

“I loved him so much. Even though it was a short time, thank you for making me feel happy.”

She sent this gratitude to the sky, as always.

Then, shockingly, two weeks later—the night before her marriage consultation registration appointment—he suddenly sent her a LINE message!

Natural Developments Because She Released Her Attachment

When he texted, “Can you hang out now?” T-san decided to focus on “returning money she’d borrowed in March” rather than on him, and went to see him with that intention.

When she asked, “Why did you contact me?” he said, “I wanted to see you.”

After that, he started reaching out to her occasionally. Remembering her regrets from March, this time T-san was mindful of the following:

• Not initiating contact or invitations
• Directing her awareness toward things she loved and simply enjoying them
• Treating him like air, not focusing on him at all
• Whenever feelings or words about him came to mind, she’d speak them and then send them to the sky

As she continued with these practices, even when they didn’t message for 2-4 days, he would always contact her, inviting her to “hang out this weekend” and so on.

The State of “I’m Happy Either Way” Drew Her Love into Reality

Even by mid-August, T-san was reconsidering her marriage consultation registration. Here’s why:

“Even after reconnecting with him, if I pursue both the marriage consultation and him in parallel, I’ll be happy whether I end up with him or someone I meet through the service.”

This state of “I’m happy either way” is complete detachment. Because she wasn’t fixated solely on him but was focused on her own happiness, love naturally manifested.

On August 30th, they had a conversation and decided to start dating. They moved in together immediately. Now he’s even bringing up marriage.

Summary: When You Release Attachment, Love Naturally Manifests

What we can learn from T-san’s story:

• “Letting go” isn’t about enduring or giving up—it’s about liberating yourself and setting yourself free
• When ego (anxiety and attachment) surfaces, don’t deny it; acknowledge it by saying “you’re lonely, you’re sad”
• Focus on what you have rather than what you don’t
• Direct your energy toward things that make your heart happy
• Focus on your own happiness, not just on the other person

T-san says: “I shine brightly and stay in a light, easy state, so the things I want naturally come to me, and I receive even more than what I’m asking for.”

Even with one-sided love that ended in rejection and no contact, with the right mindset, you naturally move toward manifestation. You’ve already made it happen.