【041】Manifesting Reunion Through Your Subconscious Mind! From Being Blocked & Him Having a Girlfriend to a Marriage-Minded Relationship Proposal
“He blocked me completely.” “And on top of that, he got a girlfriend.” — Can you really manifest a reunion even from a situation like this?
If you’ve had these doubts, I want you to read this success story.
A-san from HOMEREN experienced a triple hit of being blocked twice, long-distance, and his new girlfriend — yet ultimately received a relationship proposal asking her to date him with marriage in mind. Let me share her detailed experience with you.
- Aさん’s Situation: Starting From Rock Bottom — Blocked and Him Having a Girlfriend
- “The Subconscious Mind is All I Can Rely On” — The Moment She Committed
- Self-Love, Affirmations, and Scripting — What Aさん Worked On
- Her Boyfriend Ran Toward Her Exactly As She Scripted
- Summary: Why the Reunion Manifested Through the Subconscious Mind — “She Never Got Off at the Wrong Stop”
Aさん’s Situation: Starting From Rock Bottom — Blocked and Him Having a Girlfriend
Aさん is in her 30s. She started dating a man she met on a matching app in 2021, but they broke up after two months. After that, she coincidentally ran into him at a random train station and achieved her first reconciliation.
However, after transitioning to a long-distance relationship, things fell apart again due to ignored messages, her anxiety spiraling, and an emotional phone call. Immediately after, he blocked her on LINE and all other contact channels.
Then, while traveling in Osaka, they coincidentally ran into each other on the Shinkansen platform (a chance encounter that happened because a typhoon disrupted the train schedule and she overslept, changing which train she was taking). The block was lifted and he started contacting her.
…or so she thought, until she discovered he had a girlfriend. She fell so deeply into despair that she could barely eat for almost a week.
“The Subconscious Mind is All I Can Rely On” — The Moment She Committed
For those unfamiliar with the term “subconscious mind” used in ほめ♡レン, let me explain it simply.
The subconscious mind is the deep realm of your heart that exists beyond your conscious awareness. HOMEREN is based on the idea that “what you believe (i.e., deciding what you think) influences your reality.” The basic concept is: “Because you think it, it becomes real.”
A-san had knowledge of the subconscious and law of attraction for over 10 years already. But in this moment when there was nothing left she could do — when he had blocked her completely and had a girlfriend — she was finally able to truly surrender to her subconscious mind, she says.
“I’ve done everything I can do. If my happiness is a future with him, then the subconscious mind will absolutely bring me that best possible reality. I’m handing it all over now, so please take it from here.”
From this point forward, A-san’s mindset began to shift.
Self-Love, Affirmations, and Scripting — What Aさん Worked On
※Let me also briefly explain “self-love” and “ego” that appear here.
Self-Love: Taking care of yourself in all its forms. Telling the mirror “You’re so cute,” or drinking tea from your favorite mug — these are all acts of self-love. It’s not a “method to manifest results,” but rather self-care becomes the purpose itself.
Ego: When you automatically react to events like “No contact means it’s over” — these are semi-automatic thought patterns. It’s habitual reactions that happen separately from your true self.
First, A-san realized how much she actually disliked herself. “I’m not worthy of him anyway.” “I’m not good enough because I can’t even do housework.” — She’d been thinking like this all along.
So she started each morning by telling the mirror, “You’re the cutest girl in the world today,” and as her confidence grew, she spent each day with the affirmation “I am adored and loved by him.” She also says she wrote out the story from reconciliation through receiving his marriage-minded proposal request as a script in her phone’s notes app.
For dealing with ego, she made it a habit to observe herself from a distance whenever anxiety came up, thinking “Oh, I’m feeling anxious right now,” stepping back to look at herself objectively. She also incorporated a method of forcefully deciding “Everything happening right now is proof it’s working, yes!” to shift her mood.
Her Boyfriend Ran Toward Her Exactly As She Scripted
In late October, his messages suddenly increased. He texted her saying “I can’t stop thinking about you, I’m breaking up with her, is it okay if I approach you again?” and they decided to meet in November.
As A-san waited at the station ticket gate — he came running and embraced her.
“I wanted to see you. I can’t forget you. I don’t want to let you go. Will you date me again, for real this time?”
He appeared with the exact scenario she had been visualizing all along, with the words from her script, word for word.
They are now moving forward with marriage-minded plans.
Summary: Why the Reunion Manifested Through the Subconscious Mind — “She Never Got Off at the Wrong Stop”
A-san says this:
“As long as you don’t get off before reaching your destination once you’ve decided your intention, you will absolutely arrive.”
Being blocked didn’t change what A-san believed. Him having a girlfriend didn’t change it. That commitment alone moved her reality.
For more details about her experience, please watch the video. A-san’s words carry a passion that text alone cannot convey.

