【045】Confessed to Him Again After Being Rejected | One-Sided Love Success Story – How I Decided “Me and Him, Madly in Love” Through My Subconscious Mind

“I always get rejected by people I like.” “Things go well at first, but always fall apart in the end.” — Do you find yourself stuck with these limiting beliefs, unable to take action in love?

Today, I’m sharing the success story of O-san, who was rejected by a guy she’d been hanging out with every week, but then confessed to him herself and started dating. What changed wasn’t him — it was O-san’s mindset.

O-san’s One-Sided Love Success Report: Started Dating About 5 Months After Being Rejected

O-san (in her 20s) met a guy through a dating app in June 2022 and began spending time with him every week. When she asked, “Aren’t we basically dating?”, he said “I need more time.” Then in September, he formally rejected her. Even the friend she’d confided in blamed her, and she felt like she’d lost both her crush and her friend at the same time.

After that, she discovered Homéren and reset her mindset to “I’m madly in love with him.” By late October, she reconnected with him, and in February 2023, she confessed to him herself and got a yes.

“It Won’t Work Out” Was Just a Belief

When O-san first watched Homéren videos, the first thing that struck her was the concept of “reproducibility.”

“Because I was like this in the past, I’ll be the same in the future” — this belief is something created by your ego (automatic reactions to events) based on past experiences.

Homéren teaches you to separate this “ego” from your true self. Your ego is essentially “automatic thinking based on past experiences” — not your authentic self.

Here’s what O-san said: “I realized I was just confident in my own reproducibility, and it felt so liberating. At the same time, I finally understood all the things that had happened to me.”

I Nurtured the Thought “Me and Him, Madly in Love” in My Daily Life

Homéren emphasizes the importance of “deciding your thoughts.” You simply decide that “me and him are madly in love” or “he loves me” as your truth. That’s it.

Here’s what O-san did in her daily life:

• Say “I’m off!” when leaving the house
• Imagine his face while cooking meals for him
• Prepare Christmas gifts for him even when they weren’t planning to meet

She laughed and said, “Looking back, I must have seemed crazy and embarrassing,” but this wasn’t for anyone else to see — it was time she spent making her own thoughts real within herself.

When ego would pop up, she’d affirm herself like this: “I’m only feeling this anxious because I love him so much. And that version of me who loves deeply is lovely and cute too.”

The Same Situation, Completely Different Ending

What struck O-san most was experiencing that familiar moment again — when he asked, “Aren’t we basically dating?” — and how differently she responded this time.

Before, she’d lose her composure, ask over and over, and end up crying. But when she confessed this time, here’s all that was in her heart:

“I didn’t have even a shred of worry about things turning out like before. Even when ego showed up, I thought it wouldn’t become reality. Even if I felt anxious about something, I was completely confident that the outcome of us being madly in love wouldn’t change.”

Same situation, different consciousness, different ending. O-san experienced it herself.

Summary: Only You Can Decide “Me and Him, Madly in Love”

The key points of O-san’s success:

• She recognized that “it won’t work out anyway” was a limiting belief created by her ego
• She reset her mindset to “I’m madly in love with him” and nurtured it in her daily life
• She affirmed herself even when ego appeared, while holding onto the certainty of being madly in love

O-san says: “Once I understood the world where ‘things become the way I think they will,’ I placed the axis of my life on myself and started always thinking about what I truly want.”