【039】Even After Being Blocked, I Decided “I Won’t Give Up on My Own Happiness” — A True Story of 4 Confessions in 1 Month

When love doesn’t work out, people around you might say, “Why don’t you just give up?” But that’s exactly when you need to make an important decision: “I will never give up on my own happiness.”

Today, I’m sharing the success story of F-san, a woman in her 20s, who stuck to this conviction even after being blocked by a boyfriend who was only using her conveniently.

F-san’s Love Journey

Meeting Through a Dating App to Natural Fading Away

In August 2021, F-san met a man 3 years younger than her through a dating app. He was a student dedicated to his club activities, and they would only meet when he had time to contact her. They could only see each other about twice a month at best.

When F-san suggested “let’s date,” he just said “I don’t know.” He wasn’t exactly treating it as just a casual thing, but he wouldn’t commit to a relationship either. After half a year of this ambiguous connection, they naturally drifted apart in February 2022.

Reunion After 7 Months and Then Blocked

Later, F-san discovered Homéren and began learning about the subconscious mind. While watching testimonials about reconciliations and thinking “next it’ll be my turn,” she unexpectedly got to see him again after 7 months.

Determined to “absolutely stay true to my feelings no matter what anyone says,” F-san went to meet him. But just days later, she was blocked.

The Decision: “I Will Never Give Up on My Own Happiness”

Acknowledging That I Created This Reality

When she was blocked, F-san realized something important:

“It wasn’t working because I kept thinking it wouldn’t work out.”

She acknowledged that the reality in front of her was something she had created, and instead of blaming herself, she forgave herself completely. And then she decided:

“No matter what happens, I will never give up on my own happiness.”

A Unique Way of Handling the Ego

Even after being blocked, F-san interpreted it this way:
“He’s blocking me because he cares about me too much and wants to protect me.”

When friends said “just give up already,” she instantly replied “No, this isn’t over.” This is what it truly means to “decide on your intention.”

Practicing Self-Love: Doing Only What Feels Good

F-san decided to “do things I truly love and never do anything that makes me uncomfortable.”

• Distance yourself from painful environments and people
• Only do things that genuinely feel good
• Thoroughly explore what you love and what makes you happy

“I realize now that this was the beginning of true self-love,” F-san reflects.

The Miracle That Happened After 1 Month

Four Confessions in Quick Succession

Every day, F-san told herself: “I’m absolutely moving forward in a good direction. There’s no way I can’t be happy. I’m absolutely fine.”

The month after being blocked, in October 2022, she received confessions from four different people. She started dating one of them, and things moved quickly to living together.

“I had nothing but confidence that I would date him. It was actually harder to imagine the possibility that we wouldn’t work out.”

Her New Relationship

Her new boyfriend treated F-san with care, and she felt “genuinely comfortable” with him.

“When I’m with him, I want to be sincere too. He’s so pure and straightforward, accepting me as I am. He showed me what real love feels like.”

Meanwhile, her ex who had used her conveniently? “I cut off contact with him myself. Surprisingly, he just disappeared from my life.”

A Message From F-san

F-san left us with this beautiful message:

“No one but you can create your own life. No one but you can pull yourself out of painful pasts and dark, heavy present moments. So when it comes to imagining your own life, there’s absolutely no room for anyone else to interfere.”

“Even if you’re scared or anxious, if you believe you’re okay, you absolutely will be.”

Summary: Never Give Up on Your Happiness

From F-san’s experience, we learn the importance of deciding “I will never give up on my own happiness,” no matter what reality appears before us.

Intention (your core): Decide “I will be happy”
Ego (the resistance): Discard the thought “I was blocked → it’s impossible”
Self-Love (the foundation): Do only what feels good

These three elements came together and transformed F-san’s reality. You too—please never give up on your own happiness. You’re already so close to making it happen♡